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theres this boy im dateing i just started dateing like a couple days ago i realy like him ive liked him for a long time but im afraid of getting hert again and hed be the last persorn i would want to be hert by he tell me all kinds so stuff to let me know he care but im afraid of how it will end up i couldt take another crack in my heart plus it would brake if he hert me or if i wasnt with him what do i do i dont want to get to deep so it can hert worse please what do i do
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well the first thing you do is realize that in love you can not tell if somebody is going to do right by you. If you trust him with the same info you just gave me then you will let him know where you stand and hopefully he won't take advantage of you. You can not stay scared darling. The sweet is not as sweet without the bitter! Best of luck!
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This boy asked me out the other day for this friday. I really, really like him. But the thing is, I'm afraid I might say something. I don't want to give away his name...he's actually "famous" or w/e (my dad's a prop manager for the show he's on).
So we're supposed to go out this friday and its going to be hard. I know he's a normal guy...and so far I've treated him normal, when I see him for like 2 minutes at a time... and thats just on the set. Whats it going to be like out in the public with other girls everywhere?? And what do we talk about? Should I bring up the fact that he's on tv? That my friends want to meet him? IDK!!!!
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First off DON'T FAKE IT! If you try too hard you're going to fall flat on your face. If he was cool enough to be interested in you then it will flow. As far as telling your friends all of the glitsy stuff don't unless you are prepared to deal with the comments that will more than likely follow this flashy (but totally cool!)bit of information. As far as the other girls are concerned, Don't worry yourself with that.He should run this buy his agent or handlers to see if you guys should do the public eye thing. Other than that just be yourself!
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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou (link)
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If your only motivation is to get guys then you will have a problem. I am not trying to get all after school special on ya but you have to want you before anyone else will. After you have decided how hot you want to be then follow through. I guarantee once you find that confidece to be hot they will come in flocks. On a purely health note. Yes you should lose some weight depending on your height.If youre 6 foot then your good.
You will only gain as you get older. That could cause you some health problems.
I hope I helped
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Ok, I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months. I love him to death. and he's one of my best friends. I only knew him 2 weeks when he moved to Indiana. I live in New York. It's long distance, but we've managed without a single thought.
I started talking to a guy who lives in NYC. Hes madd funny, and sweet and he likes me. I'm starting to like him too. I actually told him I loved him, and we have so much fun talking.
I want to meet him, and I want to tell my bf. But i dont want things to end with either one of them. I want to be more than friends wit the NYC guy.
I dont know what to do. Im 15, and obviously a girl. They are the same age.
and I dont see my bf at all. i did once last year, and if it matters we had sex....
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Crazy conflict!... Look! Im gonna give it to you straight. It seems time to let Indiana go. You too had fun had sex and you love him. But if you keep this up you will just hurt him. Loving is being grown enough to not be selfish. Are you sure that you love this guy in New york? If so then this New York guy could be good for you. You and this guy from Indiana are obviously growing apart. Don't tell him what you did! You have to carry that burden all by yourself. Just end it if you don't want to continue playin them both! Chalk it up to experience and move on with the guy from New York. Hope I helped
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Theres this boy that I used to like and he didn't even know what I looked like. Recently, I said hi to him in the halls and now he knows what I look like. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty and he said yes. We have been talking online everyday for a long time and we feel we know each other pretty well. We don't know each other well enough in person, which I'm going to try to accomplish soon. I had a friend talk to him and he was saying that I wasn't the right type of girl for him, all though when he described to me the girls he likes, it sounded so much like me it was scary. He says I would be a better friend, like I am now, then a girlfriend. I really want to change his mind! Maybe if he gets to know me in person, he would! What can I do? I know we are perfect for each other, and his friends and my friends know it too. I have started developing feelings for him again, but he doesn't know and if I tell him, i'm afraid he'll reject me. Help!
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Many a young women fall pray to this cycle. If he said he wants to be friends then you will just learn to accept it! You can't convince someone that you are what they need. By the same token you should not have to pretend that you don't want more. Tell him how you feel and that you would like to pursue a deeper relationship. The trick is in the wording. If you let him know up front that you can handle a friendship too then it won't be rejection. It will just be growing together. By showing him that you are an understanding and appreciative person he may figure out that he would be happy with you as a girlfriend! It's all in the wording! Just don't expect too much. To be fair he did say he wants to be friends.
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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!! (link)
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You have a few of option.
Option 1 Deal with the fact that your brother will be there and he will rat on you. There is no getting around that. Keep it cool with your undercover lover when the brother is around. I know it's hard but at least your cover won't be blown.
Option 2 Get your brother occupied doing something else whilst you get your flirt on with your hottie! examples: Video games, his own friends, eating.
Option 3 Tell your parents about your guy. At least you tried to be honest. Hopefully they will cut you some slack.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
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