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~Hello all! I'm a 16 yr old girl. My name is Jamie and I'm open for any questions or you can just add me if you wanna talk.~
~I go to Glen Ferris Apostalic Church and I try to be as good as possible. Just because I'm good now doesn't mean I haven't had my downs. So I do know how to talk about tough things.~
~I have 2 sisters and a brother. Luckily I still have both my parents which is rare where I live. My best friend is Jessica and she is a great girl but alittle diffrent. We love her. I have a wonderful boyfriend of 6 months who I am going to be with the rest of my life. No questions asked. Doubt me if you will you are NOT it my shoes.~
~Ask away all of you. I will aswer you the best I know. And if I don't know...I will find out!!!~

~*~Jamie Leigh~*~

advice

i rly like my boyfriend but when he asks me to do sumtin gi dont really want to bt i rly rly like him so... idk i think its becuz im shy around him and dont tak much but i want to be able to talk more around him and not be shy anymore.

~What sort of "things" is he asking you to do? Just go out things or like sexual things?~

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fthere is this guy and i really like him but i am going out with his brother and his brother is 17 and im 13 and the guy i like is 14 and i just dont no wan to do please help

~Choose which one you like better. Someone might get hurt but it is better than you being unhappy.~

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hey i really need help on this one..ive been with my b/f for 2 years and whenever i tell him to call at a certain time..he doesnt!!!! it gets me all worried that hes cheating on me since he has b4 .. and if say lyk call at 11 ..hell call at around 2 or even later and say he forgot to call or w/e or wasnt thinking bout it..but it also worryz me too cuz i wana kno hez ok and wen he dont call it makez me worry!! i mean, i kno all of his friendz and everything too.. i talked to him about this about a million timez and said everything i can possibly imagine to him about this and he keepz promising me he'll call wen hez supposed to but he doesnt!!

~Hun you have been dating this guy too long to be treated like that. If he was my man I would tell him what I think and if he does it again tell him you are going to end it. No man is worth that sort of abuse. Then actually end it if you have to. If he really loves you he will do a turn around and come back and treat you right. My boyfriend had his head in his butt for awhile and I told him how it was he turned around and is doing good now. You just have to share your feelings. If it doesn't work then he doesn't love you and obviously isn't worth it.~

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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!)

~Okay. This isn't an easy one but listen. I can't change your mind. I can only influence your choice. I personally don't feel it has been long enough. I think you should probably give it time. Make sure that everything is really really gonna work out because if you give that to him. The only most special thing that you have to yourself then you will regret it. I had to be close to my boyfriend for 3 years before I did and I still think I should have waited. If something happens to your relationship it will tear you up. If you need anymore advice on this jut put it in my colum. I am open to help as much as I can. Please just be careful in the desicion you do make.~

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i liked this one guy for like 2 years or so and i think he likes me but i didn't talk 2 him for like 3 months and then i saw him at the fair and started talkin 2 him again and i think i like him again cuz when i wasn't talkin 2 him i didn't like him nemore. but i talk 2 him online and sometimes i think i am talkin 2 him and it is one of his friends and they tell me not 2 talk 2 him and stuff and tells me he is gay but when i talk 2 him and i know it is him it seems like he likes me. could he like me and what should i do about his friends say that stuff cuz it gets annoyin and sometimes hurts what they say??? HELP !!!!

~Simply ask him. I know that seems WAY out there and probably hard but you have to sooner or later. Ask him to his face. If he doesn't then say okay and ask him if he could tell his friends to butt out. If he does...good. Still...ask him to ask his friends to butt out. If they won't see if he could change the password to his name...or have one just you two know about.~ Ask me anytime!~

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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..

see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.

thanks a bunch
Manda

~Thank God! I know how you feel! Everyone thinks I'm crazy but my boyfriend and I know for a 101% fact we will get married and be together forever. I'm only 16 and he is about to be 17 but we just know. We have been together for 6 months but on and off prior to that. We have known eachother for 3 years and have been bestfriends for ever. I love him more than I ever could another person. I would be here all night if I were to try and explain it all. I understand that everyone thinks you are tieing yourself down too. My sister got pregnant when she was sixteen and is now 19 married and has two kids. Everyone thinks I'm going the same way but we are really safe and we know that even if that did happen we wouldn't be tied down. It would just be a happy change of plans. Don't think you are weird. You are totally right. Your mom will think you are wrong to but if you love him as much as you say you could wait a couple years if it was necessary. I almost got that one but I got lucky. You be careful but love while you can doll!!! Good luck!!~

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