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Location: Jackson, Mississippi
Age: 13
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I'm a 15/female and I'm wondering what in the world I should give my boyfriend for Valentines. We've been going out since Dec. 24 (aww, how cute. :D) Now that we've got that taken care of, lets move on. Lol. Anyways, and it's my first Valentines day to actually have a special someone.
- He doesn't like chocolate, so there goes that.
I really don't know, I thought about making him a homemade card, writing a whole bunch of sweet stuff in there and whatnot. Do you think that a guy would actually like that?
or if you have any other suggestions, please give them. (:
Thank you! (link)
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Well yall haven't been dating for too long so I suggest...maybe a mixed C.D.?
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ok i am super bz with my design job (its my first job) and between school and work i barely have time for anything but the gym and getting together with coworkers to finish up some extra work like snapping pics for the company and what have you .... most of the ppl i work with are either women, gay, or wayyyyyyyy old (40s???) I NEED TO FIND A BOYFRIEND! i knw this sound desperate... but i am just so lonely and i really want someone in my life....... where do i find him?!?! i tried chatting and stuff but its just not my thing... it feels a little weired so i'd rather meet the guy....... i feel so self conscious about my body like it is the reason no one hardly ever approaches me... ever........ urghhh
now that i've reread this, i am not sure what i am saying... someone please help... (link)
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Alright it sounds like your in a tough situation. First of all, do you really think you have time for a relationship with everything else going on (school and work)? Maybe people at your school know you are doing both and think you don't want a relationship right now cause your so busy. But if you really think you can pull it off, i suggest joining a small study group at your school. You might find a cool guy that you like spending time with.
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ok so i broke up with my bf not too long ago because i think were better friends. but now latley i cant stop staring at him and hes got a new gf already and im soo jealous. i dont want to go out with him because i like us being friends but at the same time i dont want him going out with anyone else. now lately hes been acting diffrent around me and not talking to me much and i kinda miss him. any advice could help.:] (link)
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Talk to him and tell him that yall have kinda grown apart and you want yall to be close friends. If you like the friendship don't try to get back together with him no matter how jealous you are. Your just going to have to get used to him having a girlfriend. It might be hard but it's worth it if you get a good friend out of it.
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Okay, so me and my boyfriend are going out for 7 months it will be our 8 month anniversary on February 27th. He is absolutely amazing and i am really in love with him. He literally is like the perfect boyfriend. but for a little while we had a period where we would like get "testy" with each other over everything, even jokes. but now we are okay is that normal in a long relationship like this?
(I'm 15 (almost 16 in september) and hes 17 (almost 18 in july) and we had sex for the first time at the end of our 6th month. it was Both of our first times if that helps at all.) (i was ready to do it, so please dont say i wasnt even if thats what you really think) (link)
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Yes that's totally normal in long relationships.
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15/f
this is going to sound super shallowww.
i really really really like this kid. but, hes not cute. at all. i mean i deff. like him for his personality. hes not the type of guy i would ever date. all my boyfriends were usually football or baseball players or something. this kid is deff. far from that. i wanna like him, and i know he likes me. but, i know.. if i went out with him, people would make fun of me. i dont know if id kiss him or anything, because i'm not attracted to him like that, i mean i kinda am. but idk. do you think its worth it? it seems though, as eeach day goes by, i like him more and more. its like i have a disease. (link)
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I know you don't want to date an unnattractive person, no matter how much you like them. But, maybe you should take a stand and ask him out and take a shot with him. If anyone makes fun of you, just tell them that you like him and don't care that he's not hott. It doesn't matter what other people think. As long as your happy.
got ur feedback sry 4got 2 answer that...here it is...
OK so maybe if you went out with him you'd just totally get over the unattractiveness and be comfortable kissing him and stuff.
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My boyfriend and i decided to break up while he figures some things out. For the time being we are going to be friends. He told me that he Loves me. Then he said that he might get back together and we might not, he's not sure. So I am giving him time, but one day he will be negative about us, and the next he will be positive about us. And I have been trying to give him time and space, and he ims me when I am online. Does anyone have any idea what he could be thinking and why he is sending mixed messages to me? (link)
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Well I had this same problem with my girlfriend. She did the same thing to me. It really sucked. But I did the same thing to her a couple of months earlier. And I did it because I was really confused about my feelings and I think he is too. If he still likes you, or loves you, he'll come back to you.
yah if u hav any more issues u can just ask me.
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ok I know i've promised my bf that id never breack up with him, but i need to know, IS he boyfriend material? It seems that EVERY two days, he's allways saying...well you don't need me, and i don't think i can do this anymore.then i remind him that he promised that hed never break up with me. so he stays with me. Well, i'm done with that. Another thing is, yesterday, he compleatly cutt me off. He icnored me, never returned my call, and never even botherd to freakin give a call. NOw in the mean time, my feelings for this one guy are growing stronger, and i know he likes me, but a part of me dosn't wanna let my bf go. So is my bf exactlly bf matereial? Or am I the crazy one here?Cause i just know as his over a year gf, I deserve to have my hand held-huged-and NOT shod off every five mins. Also a call every now and the, and an email, or note when he says he'll write me, and NOT to be yelled at when i ask about it. I'm open to any thoughts. thanks (link)
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It sounds like your boyfriend doesn't appreciate and respect you very much. I just got out of a relationship that went on for a year and fell in love. But i think that love went away over a couple of months and we just wanted to hang onto it cause we kept telling ourselves that we couldn't just give up after all this time. So, my advice is to, if he keeps on acting like this, to break it off. It sounds like it's time.
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ok sooo my boyfriend is 17. and i have noo idea what to get him for valentines day.
i wanna make it really special because i will be his first valentine cause hes never had a girlfriend around this time.
what are some things i could do? (link)
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Alright well guys always like candy and chocolate and stuff like that. Also, when you kiss him on this special day, don't make it an everyday regular kiss. Make it special. Put your feelings into it. Show how much you like him. Show him how much he means to you.
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