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my names kayla, i am 15, i`m turning 16 this week, on the 22nd. i am pretty young, but i`ve been through a lot more than most girls my age have so i find it easy to give advice. i do my best to answer every question. and if i offend you, or give you an answer you aren't happy with, feel free to be totally straight forward & give me some feedback. :) hope i can help you!-kayla
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well i know this is gonna sound stupid but anyway... whenever me and my bf get together, we look at each others cell phones to see who the other person has been calling/texting. (we dont actually admit thats what we're doing, but thats what we do). well yesterday we got into a fight over it. he got mad because these 2 guys had been texting me. ok now these 2 guys are really nerdy and theres no way i'd ever like them, and my bf knows that. so it was stupid for him to get mad. on the other hand, my bf had made all these calls to this one girl amanda. amanda is really pretty and shes also a big slut, so that made me really mad!! he said he was just prank calling her, but whatever. he said i have no right to be mad at him for calling girls, when i text other guys. well, i guess... but there's a difference here, right? the guys i texted are harmless, but the girl he called is anything but. plus those guys texted me first and i just answered to be nice, whereas my bf is the one who called amanda first. am i wrong to be mad about this?
This really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all whatsoever. i was the same way with my ex boyfriend & that never turned out well. If hes constantly calling this girl hes most likely not prank calling her.. especially if he didnt dial *67 before he put her number in, because, nobody prank calls from an unblocked number right? you have all the right to be mad about this because he's lying to your face. explain to him that you don`t tolerate cheating and that if he wants to get with amanda, he'll lose you.. & he needs to choose instead of playing games & lying to you. i`ve dealt with this same situation before, you really need to let him know that you won`t let him walk all over you & that you won`t accept being lied to.
okay, im 13 and i this guy switched over to ourr school and i guess i kind of like him. i hang out with the guys a lot b/c they are just fun to be around especailly his guy friends. but i still act like a girl. idk for sure if he likes me but he has me the highest girl on his top(3) and at parties we hang out alot gives me random hugs, and quick arm around my shoulder/waist. but i want to get him to for sure like me and ask me out, atleast make out. what do i do to get totally out of the friend zone!?
you just need to realize what the difference between a friend and someone you would consider being with. you need to try & show him (not too obviously) that you don`t want to be just friends. flirt with him like crazy, that should be pretty easy because he hugs you anyways, just hold the hug a little longer than usual next time. & when you do go to parties make sure you focus your attention on him & hopefully he will do the same. if he still doesn't get the picture just talk to him about it & tell him straight out exactly how you feel.
today i got with a boy and he has no gf and i dont have a bf..we made out twice. and then we decided to just be friends. now everyone is calling me a whore for getting with him when we werent going out ! ugh what do i do, its not lke i make out with someone everyday; that was my first time. what do i say ot people when they say that ? ah thanks
obviously you don`t think your a whore so don`t let other peoples oppinions get to you. you're right, all you did was makeout with him. & on top of that it was your first time. so i don't know what everyones problem is. just tell them to mind their own buisness.
helloo :]]
bear with me, i know everyone's
question on here is like this but eh.
well, me and my boyfriend have been
going out for about 10 months but our
relationship slowly started going
downhill about 2 months ago. we rarely
see eachother or talk to eachother. i
always have to txt him or call him. he
never calls me or txts me anymore and it
just doesnt seem like he's putting effort
into this relationship. i wanna start over
with him but he's put me through so confusion and hurt. im just wondering what your
opinion is on all of thiss. thanks :]
it just sounds like he wants some space. back a way a little bit & he should start calling & texting again.
im so sick of crying. im so sick of hurting. me and my boyfriend broke up two months ago. and im still dwelling on it. yes he was my first love. and yes he already has a new girlfriend. and he treats that girl a 100 times better than he did me. and im sick of crying. im sick of always thinking about him. he doesnt care about me. so why should i care. its a new year and i want to be over this kid ASAP. please help me.
getting over your first love isn't easy. he seems like a real jerk.. & you need to find somebody who can treat you right. all you need to do for this year is change your focus. instead of even thinking about him, try & think of guys you might be interested, & start meeting new people. i`m usually against falling back on somebody after a break up because its kind of like using them.. but i think that it's been long enough to find someone else. your feelings probably wont go away, but trust me.. shifting your focus will definitly help. try and find someone who can treat you the way he SHOULD have.
ok so im in 7th grade, and everyone has a boyfriend, it seems like, besides me. I try being outgoing and stuff, but it doesnt work. I already tried asking like 5 billion guys out and they all said no. I know im not supposed to change and stuff, but i dont want to end up 20 and only have 1 boyfriend in my whole life. Can you help me?
PS.. Me and my friend share this account, so not all posts are gonna bve from me
middle school is always tough, not a lot of guys liked me, because i was always the one asking them out. don't ask guys out, it makes you look vulnerable & insecure, you need to get them to like you enough to ask you out themselves. be flirty & outgoing. i can promise you you wont end up 20 without a boyfriend. you'll get one soon. just don't try so hard.