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ok.....i like this guy. lets call him bob. and i've liked bob for a couple months now. and we've become good friends. and i had a friend ask how he felt about me, and he said that he just liked me as a friend. but...lately, there had been some stuff goin' on.....rumors if you will, about him likin' me. and i mean A LOT of rumors. i heard it in a lot of different places. someone even told me that bob had been tellin' people on his bus that him and i were goin' out. and then i got this news about him likin' me as just a friend. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE! I'M SO CONFUSED! please help!
sry for the length and thx in advance (: (link)
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hun, just ask him how he feels because rumors only get better and worse as they go along so just talk to him!... maybe tell him how you feel or maybe he only told your friend he likes you as a friend because he doesnt know if you like him but guys are confusing your best bet is to confront him yourself
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A guy named Kiel, who works at the same place I do, started giving me notes, asking me if I had a boyfriend and kept telling me how nice I looked. Then we started talking on the phone. He kept asking me if I wanted to date him. At work, a lot of girls flirted with him, but he didn't flirt back. He basically only talked to me. He seemed very interested in me. Today, Kiel called me. We talked for about three minutes. Then, all of a sudden, some very angry girl in the background yelled, "HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!" (The chick DID NOT mean that I was his gilfriend, she meant that someone else was.) There was silence for a couple of seconds and Kiel said madly to the girl, "NO I DON'T!!!" Then the girl sounded even madder and told him, "F**k you!" Then some other background noise went on. After that, Kiel said, "Can I call you back?" I said, "Yeah," in a what-the-hell-is going on tone. Then I told him bye (a little nicer) and hung up. Then, a few minutes ago, my phone rang once, then stopped. Maybe he accidentally hit redial.
Then the SAME girl that was yelling at Kiel called me from a different phone number. Here's our conversation:
Me: Hello?
The Mystery Girl: Who is this?
Me: Sarah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call Kiel. He has a girlfriend.
Me: He does?
The Mystery Girl: Yeah. Do you know him from work or what?
Me: Yeah.
The Mystery Girl: Don't call him. He's fucking stupid. He has a girlfriend.
Me: Ok. Bye.
What should I do? I want to find out the truth. I really like Kiel, but of course I don't want to be with him if he has a girlfriend. What would you do in this situation? (link)
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First of all confront him and ask "who sarah, she called me after we talked" and if he has to think about it or he studders you need to find out about her. she might be a sister or best friend but the conversation with you and her seems a little sceptical. when you go to work dont just dont Kiels throat about what happened just talk to him and act a little annoyed by it... that may crack him a little bit. when he flirts with you flirt back a little but not alot just to send him a little taste of what he can have, but also dont be consistant with the questions about the phone call just ask like "what was that all about" just dont make it a big deal unitl you find out more... maybe ask one of his friends in case hes holding back in giving you information. if i was in your situation which i kinda am right now with a guy i like and who says he likes me but then comes out and says he made out with a girl who likes him but he doesnt like her... well anyway id confront him and talk about it just not interrigate him. Try just talking casually about it and asking him what was the whole thing about and see what he says, then if you need anymore help just ask me and we can see whats all going on. hope i helped!
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Hey guys!I don't really know how to explain this but I'll try!Ok..there's this guy that I like and I want to get to know him more and just have a real conversation instead of a few words once in a while..well it happens like everyday.I'm kinda shy so I don't know what to do to start a conversation!I know that kinda sounds stupid but I'm asking it anyway..thanks! (link)
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ask him for help on homework or if he knows about the latest parties. small talk with him trust me if he wants to talk it will turn into a bigger conversation than just a couple of words... just dont talk about each other or your day because that will lead nowhere.
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I got a new neighbor a few months ago, tight before school started, he's nice and sweet and loads of fun to be around. I told him i liked him a few weeks after he moved in but he said he had a gf who he loved and would never leave. so i kinda gave up, but lately we have become wicked good friends. we hang out all the time at my house or we just walk around the neighborhood. a few weeks ago he tried to kiss me while we were on my trampoline(he admited to it later) but i had a bf at that point and he was still with his girl so i just turned away and got back up. the next day he tells me that he dumped his girl. the next day i get dumped by my bf cuase he wanted to date some slut in a grade below us. so i tell him that. my neighbor and i were on my trampoline again and we are kindalike wrestling a little...and he started feeling me up then we started making out.he pushed away from me and started saying why...why...why...i was soo confused. it was my first kiss too. aparrently he had gotten back together with his gf the day before,he didn't want to cheat on her so we stopped. like 2 minutes later he is fingering me and we are making out again.when we finally stop my brother was pulling in the driveway so we separated quickly and he went home(my bro saw nothing thank goodness).i told my friend who knows everything about me and guys that he kissed me and only that he kissed me i didn't tell anyone else and she said something about it to him and he flipped at me. he didn't want anyone to know cuase then his sis would find out and she would tell his rents then his rents will tell his gf who will start cutting or something again. he stopped talking to me and then one day last week i was sick from school and the next day he asked me if everthing was okay and we started talking again. we started hanging out again. but now we include my friend a lot cuase she lives down the street and we were down at her house and we were watching a cartoon thing on her comp and she was sitting at her computer desk and i was sitting like right next to her on the piano bench and he was sitting behind me. during this cartoon thing he started tickling my side so i grapped his hand. i let it go after i moved it away and then he tickled me again so i grabbed his hand again and he laced his fingers in mine. he just plays with my head like that all the time. should i tell him to stop or no? i really like him and everything but nothing can really form with his gf still there.What do you think i should do? (link)
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i did this before and it was kinda like your story... except with the neighbors thing... umm and if things get bad it will be much worst at the end, let me tell you the ending... it ends bad yall dont talk for a while and when it finally blows over he still has a gf, so youve got two choices play around until it gets bad but dont send him too many signals or tell him to stop be friends and keep that friendship which once he breaks up with his gf.. which he will its not like they are going to get married you can be there for him as a friend and he will notice you and who knows but if i were you i wouldnt help him cheat youll just loose all your friends and get called a slut everyday in school and get made fun of by his girlfriend who will probably stay with him if its as bad as her cutting.... the choice is yours
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs old and here my problem well theres a guy that i really,really,really like and i dont know if he knows how much i like him.well, my friend has him for 6 period and he tells him stuff about me and then the guy tells him about him and so far he been cool with it,but theres somethings i haven't got clear in my head well here are 3 examples well the first one is people tell me or some of my friends he has a gf and his friends say he doesn't and i don't know who to believe.the second example is that he looks at me like in the creepy way but when he is alone but when he is with his friends he doesn'.the third example is sooo stupid my friend did the stupidest thing ever well she knows how to draw really good well we were in 5th period and we were passing notes talking about him and i ask her to try to draw him and she did it and it look like him alot and every time we get out of 5th period we go to 6th period and we always see him and i ask her to show it to him to see if he though it look like him well my really stupid friend gave it to him saying i drew it!! i was so mad all this happened friday december 3,2004 and now its monday december 6,2004 and i didn't go to school cuz i'm soo wierded out and i don't know what he may say to his friend or my friends.so i really need advice should i tell him how a feel and it wasn't me who drew that pic?
singed confused and shy, (link)
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Stop being immature and if you really want this guy talk to him, in all reality he probably doesnt like you if your friends have talked to him about you and he hasnt come up to you... just go up to him and tell him the truth about everything and say you wrote the letter. Gosh your questions make people upset to see immature little kids but i'll still answer your question... good luck with that, you'll need it
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