hey i'm john I always enjoy giving advice to anyone with there problem. I pick love life, firendsship and family as my categories because i feel thoughs are very important cause it seems that we need them to be happy with ourselves.
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hii, well, i saw your advice thingy, and you give like extremely good advice. and i basically need a boys opinon.
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mmk, so, theres this boy, and we were like BEST FRIENDS, since 5th grade, and we dated in like 7th grade, for like 2 months, and i dont know, i didnt want a boyfriend and i just thought we should be friends, well hes kinda, perverted. sooo, he always used to tell me how he wanted to bang me and stuff like that, and so i mean, i would always be sarcastic and be like, ohh yeah tottally, i wanna bang you too. and such. well, i guess he took it seriously. sooo, one day, hes like hayley, i really want to bang you, i love you soo much, can i come over? and i didn't know he was being serious. and i was like oh ya tottaly. soo, he came over and like, before he left i kept like IMing him, and aying i thought you were kidding, but i guess it was too late, and then he came to my house, and it was just tottaly embarrassing. i didn't know what to do. but i didn't do anything with him, because i was only 14 at the time, and im not a total slut. so, he basically freaked out, and was all upset with me. and, like 3 months later, we just weren't friends anymore.
was i wrong? i feel like im wrong. and like, i tried to forget about it. but all of his friends always ask me about him, and like, i don't know. i guess he talks about me alot, like alot. i mean. i switched over to his school [i went to private and then switched to public] and everyone was telling me how he always talks about me and such.
so, what do you think is up with him? i mean i really really miss him. i dont know what to do. would you be like tottaly mad if a girl did that to you? oh and uhmm by the way, he walked like 3 miles, to get my house. =/ am i wrong? or whatt. (link)
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hi sorry for the long wait but you were not wrong you were right you only 14 years old and you were not ready he didn't understand that and i think he used you as a advantage which is worng. So when you you said sorry he did what any other guy would do freak out and say were done it's over. Don't worry you'll find someone who respects you and will honnor you.
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ok, let's say there's a girl at your school, and *everyone* knows that her boyfriend is cheating on her, but she doesn't seem to realize it. do you feel sorry for her, or do you just think she's stupid for not seeing it? and then... when she does find out, she forgives her bf and gives him a 2nd chance. do you think she's a nice, forgiving person who loves her bf, or do you think she's a complete idiot for letting him play her like that? just wondering, becuz that girl is me and i wonder what people might be saying/thinking about me!
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If you know he cheating on you find someone new someone to respect you more i'm sure you deserve more than that. Don't worry
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ok heres heres the thing last year i went out with this girl twice and we broke up because we didnt talk much at the begining of the year, but i realy like her so a month after the year started she told me she liked my best freind i told her i didnt have a problem with it but i think she kinda didnt want to go out with him because i guess she taught we would propably fight (were gangters thats what we do), so now it been almost 6 months a couple of weeks before the end of the year, so i hug her everyday i see her and about a week ago i strted asking a freind if she knew if she still like me or if i still had a chance with her well she told me she said that she didnt know, so a couple days after her that kills herself so she dosent come to school so wright to her on myspace( http://blog.myspace.com/1clowny3 ) telling how i realy felt about her that i liked still she didnt tell me she like too or anything like that she just said that was sweet, so today i was with her with my best freind she hasent told me nothing about what i told her i think its too soon since her dad died a couple days ago but when i hugged her to leave i looked back and i could saw her still talikng with my bestfreind
so she talks to him more than i she talks to me so i think she still likes him more me so i think the reason thier not going out is because of me, so should i get out of her life to let them go out or tell her how i realy feel about her again but in person this time someone please help me!!!!!! (link)
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i think you should go and tell her how you feel maybe shes waiting for that.
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im really starting to like my best guy friend. he now knows that i like him so its weird talking to him now. i need conversation starters. and how to be fun and hyper without being TOO annoying. help please! (link)
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you can start the conversation maybe buy saying what are you doing this weekend. ask him to go to the movies as a firend then maybe after the movie you just him if he has a girl firend then i think you can take from there.
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little more than 7 months. During about the first 5 months, it was all about me, even though we got into fights once in awhile, but got over them very fast. Then next 2 months have been hell. We used to hangout everyday but now he said he wants to hangout with his bestfriend, which happens to be a girl, at least once every week so we have to take a day off just for that. We used to hangout everyday and if we didn't, he'd get really upset and miss me a real lot. I really do think he has a crush on this girl, even though she has been dating his best friend for over a year now. He is always so excited to hangout with her and ditched me quite a few times to be with her. They have also done sleepovers while I've been upset about the situation. As much as he tells me he loves me and will never breakup with me and says he's gonna marry me, I don't believe it. He would get in fights with me over VERY little things, such as hanging out with a guy friend and try to breakup with me over it. I guess the question is, do you think he has a crush on this girl even though he denies it everytime, and what should I do to be a better, or good girlfriend? (link)
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you said that you guys fight all the time well hanging out with this girl is his way of not getting in a fight or his way to get over the fight. I also have a girl best firend we have been firends forever it seems like I just like her as a firend so i think he thinks the same way with his best firend. Hanging out with her maybe just saying i don't want to break up but i do want to take a break.
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There is this guy I like. I have not talked to him but i do like him. my friends say I should become friends with him and go out. Then I found out that he is going out with this one girl.I think he likes me but I am not sure. Should I try to become friends with him? I heard he has gome out with a lot of girls. Also there is a guy i also like and we are friends already should i ask him out first sometime? No it is not you.HELP (link)
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if the guy you are already firends with. You said you like him make sure that he doesn't have a girlfirend either. I think the choice you should do is the one your already firends with because you talk to him and you know alot about him and you may feel conforable to.
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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well if you feel that you might like this girl then yeah call her up ask her out and just get to know her more like you want to.
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16/f...hes 17
*LONG...SORRY...BUT NEED HELP* and i sorta need guy advice too...
okay so i feel like no one...no guy in this world will ever like me enough to actually try for me...to actually take their time and give some to me to show me that they actually like me and want to be with me...i always feel like im bothering someone or im not good enough for them...i know i dont try too hard but i know its not that im not trying enough...i definitly try...
i feel ike if i dont text first or call first or instant message first...then nothing will go ANYWHERE...i know this guy likes me because we got sort of "set up" from my friend tim who is also dating my best friend jen...you see...tim used to be best friends with this kid dave
and it staretd out with me dating dave and tim dating jen and it was so awesome cuase me and jen were best friends and tim and dave were best friends and it was just so awesome....then dave suddenly changed to just went through all this stuff in his life and lost me, his girlriend, tim, his longlonglong time best friend and a lot more...but i had some hang ups about him...i felt as though he never just "tried" hard enough...i mean i know its a joint effort but i feel like im doing all the work all the time!...while tim started out crushing on jen and then me and dave met through that...timjust showed jen so much more. he would text her all the time and IM her and little things like that which showed her he really liked and was interested in her while dave was a little slow with that....well a lot slow...but now were over but this other guy is a friend of tim's also and he is just SUCH a good guy...a way bvetter guy than dave and i really feel ike i had to go through all the pain with dave just to get me to him because this other guy is really sweet...
i knew him a little becuase hes been friends with tim and dave for a long time but i never really got to know him until last sunday and we hit it off great and kissed and he is just such a genuine sweet guy
then we hung out friday, saturday, and sunday this weekend and were making out and holding hands and getting close and being cute and flirting and he called me a lot during this past week before the weekend...tim and jen tell me he likes me and is def interested in me....and i know he wouldnt lead me on...and he, including me, is not the kind of person to rush into a relationship...but i def want one with him....i know he was talking to another girl before me but stopped like the weekend before we started talking...he said it wasnt that things didnt work out...just that they stopped talking and stuff cause he was just really busy and had a lot going on and didnt see her and stuff...i know hje doesnt like her like that anymore and stuff but im just scared that that will happen to us. we dotn go to the same school but he does drive...and he doesnt go to school...hes done with high school and is starteing college in the fall......
i saw him sunday then texted him monday and he didnt answer then i IMED him sying..where are you! i miss you! and i came back later and saw that he answered later on saying awww....but i was away...then i came back and said HEY! and he never answered and it didnt say he was idle or away or anything which is always says....then when i comment him on myspace he doesnt comment back but hell comment someone else back...
i just want to feel worthy enough for someone...i want to be able to sit back just even for ONE day and have someone try for ME and take time out of their day for ME...
i dont get it...i know hes not the type to "play" girls and stuff....and i heard from tim whos like his bets rfiend that he does like me and its evident when we're together...i just dont get the whole thing....if he was really crushing on me wouldnt he text me and do those cute little things like text goodm orning or say sometrhing cute when im in school or leave me cute IMS or SOMETHING?
why do i have to do it first?
and now yesterday he didnt even answer me....
and it sucks a lot this time cause i REALLY REALLY like him....i cant even explain how much i do...more than any guy ive ever liked...and i dated dave for 6 months and i feel like this new guy knows more about me and i know more about him than when dating dave....i just know hes a really good guy and im a great person too...
HELP!
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wow what a story. Well first i don't understand either why he just stoped texting you or even im you there has to be a reason. If you know where he lives or even better yet talk to his firend and tell him what has been going on and maybe he'll tell the guy you like to come talk to you and explain to him how you feel and ask him if you did something wrong or if it's just him being him. If you both are ment to be together abd you guys like each other then there must not be to bad a of a problem.
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i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior
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you do what you want to do. Think about it first then when you make your desision go and talk to him and tell him what you have chosen. Be proud what ever you chose
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hey i need some advice.
i like this boy, who is my really good friend. i really like him ,and a lot of my other friends do, who are also good friends with him. i know he doesn't see me as more of a friend(well im pretty sure) but i really like him. what do i do.
o btw, im 12/f
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sometimes it takes time for things like this to happen if you like him just offer him to go to the movies or some public place just as firends and when you feel it's a good time just talk to him tell him how you feel.
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Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 2 0r 3 years younger than me (I jsut turned 18 he's 16 or 15). Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. But also, the other thing is that I've only known him for about like a month and a half and have only hung out with him like once at a concert where he totally saved my life (where he like held me in the mosh pit because I felt dizzy), but have talked to him a billion times since then, AND am going to prom with him in like 2 weeks.....idk what to do and I'dask my friends but they'd prolly be like "ahh he's too young don't bother" Do you think I should tell him how much I like him? And is he too young, like do you think he's be interested in a slightly older girl?
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if you say he really is matture as you say he is and how nice he is. Than I think that age has nothing to do with it. and if you like him tell at prom how much you like him and i'd think he will be interested in you to.
john
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I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please! (link)
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doing revenage on him is not the way to get him back it may just get worse. The thing to do is to go talk to him tell him how you feel about him talking to other girls make him remember what a great girl he has.
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There is this girl jesse, and she is constantly flirting with my boyfriend! I am sooooo sick of it! cuase not only does she flirt with him she does it in front of me! my best friend told her to stop flirting with him and she's like, omg Amanda (that's me) need to stop being so over protective of him! then she said she's not even flirting with him! But the problem is she never stop flirting with him! she'll go up and start poking him in his sides and belly and will be all touchy on him and it just makes me uber mad! please tell me what i should do! cuase confronting her doesn't work!
Thanks,
Manders (link)
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if i was in this argument i would go up to her when she is flirting and stand up to her and tell her no straight to her and maybe she'll stay away. tell you boyfirend how you feel about him flirting with other girls in front of you!
John
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i met this kid in October and we talked for about 3 months .. he asked me out in January and we broke up 2 months later because of drama. I still liked him for about a month or so because he was so sweet and nice.. my so called "bestfriend" said it was so stupid that i still liked him and he never liked me and all this mean stuff..should i be mad at her? thanks for the helpx0x (link)
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No, Thats why we have firends to let us know when we are acting stupid. Your firend may of said that cause maybe she was afraid if you were still going out with this kid you might of got hurt.
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14/F.
Hi everyone. My friend [Audrey] invited me to her house to 'hang out' with her, her boyfriend, and my secret crush [that Audrey doesn't know about]
I said 'sure, sounds fun'
Well, Audrey said 'hmm...we should play truth or dare...'
I was like 'sounds fun' [once again]
Now, I am really nervous because what if Audrey dares me to kiss my crush but he starts protesting saying 'NO WE ARE JUST FRIENDS.'
I really don't want to cry in front of him.
BUT, I want to kiss him.
URGHH....PLEASE HELP! (link)
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ok well heres the thing you need to talk to your firend and tell her about your problem as well. You need to tell her how your feeling about this boy, and tell her you will kiss this boy when your ready.
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