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crushhhhh
16/f...hes 17
*LONG...SORRY...BUT NEED HELP* and i sorta need guy advice too...
okay so i feel like no one...no guy in this world will ever like me enough to actually try for me...to actually take their time and give some to me to show me that they actually like me and want to be with me...i always feel like im bothering someone or im not good enough for them...i know i dont try too hard but i know its not that im not trying enough...i definitly try...
i feel ike if i dont text first or call first or instant message first...then nothing will go ANYWHERE...i know this guy likes me because we got sort of "set up" from my friend tim who is also dating my best friend jen...you see...tim used to be best friends with this kid dave
and it staretd out with me dating dave and tim dating jen and it was so awesome cuase me and jen were best friends and tim and dave were best friends and it was just so awesome....then dave suddenly changed to just went through all this stuff in his life and lost me, his girlriend, tim, his longlonglong time best friend and a lot more...but i had some hang ups about him...i felt as though he never just "tried" hard enough...i mean i know its a joint effort but i feel like im doing all the work all the time!...while tim started out crushing on jen and then me and dave met through that...timjust showed jen so much more. he would text her all the time and IM her and little things like that which showed her he really liked and was interested in her while dave was a little slow with that....well a lot slow...but now were over but this other guy is a friend of tim's also and he is just SUCH a good guy...a way bvetter guy than dave and i really feel ike i had to go through all the pain with dave just to get me to him because this other guy is really sweet...
i knew him a little becuase hes been friends with tim and dave for a long time but i never really got to know him until last sunday and we hit it off great and kissed and he is just such a genuine sweet guy
then we hung out friday, saturday, and sunday this weekend and were making out and holding hands and getting close and being cute and flirting and he called me a lot during this past week before the weekend...tim and jen tell me he likes me and is def interested in me....and i know he wouldnt lead me on...and he, including me, is not the kind of person to rush into a relationship...but i def want one with him....i know he was talking to another girl before me but stopped like the weekend before we started talking...he said it wasnt that things didnt work out...just that they stopped talking and stuff cause he was just really busy and had a lot going on and didnt see her and stuff...i know hje doesnt like her like that anymore and stuff but im just scared that that will happen to us. we dotn go to the same school but he does drive...and he doesnt go to school...hes done with high school and is starteing college in the fall......
i saw him sunday then texted him monday and he didnt answer then i IMED him sying..where are you! i miss you! and i came back later and saw that he answered later on saying awww....but i was away...then i came back and said HEY! and he never answered and it didnt say he was idle or away or anything which is always says....then when i comment him on myspace he doesnt comment back but hell comment someone else back...
i just want to feel worthy enough for someone...i want to be able to sit back just even for ONE day and have someone try for ME and take time out of their day for ME...
i dont get it...i know hes not the type to "play" girls and stuff....and i heard from tim whos like his bets rfiend that he does like me and its evident when we're together...i just dont get the whole thing....if he was really crushing on me wouldnt he text me and do those cute little things like text goodm orning or say sometrhing cute when im in school or leave me cute IMS or SOMETHING?
why do i have to do it first?
and now yesterday he didnt even answer me....
and it sucks a lot this time cause i REALLY REALLY like him....i cant even explain how much i do...more than any guy ive ever liked...and i dated dave for 6 months and i feel like this new guy knows more about me and i know more about him than when dating dave....i just know hes a really good guy and im a great person too...
HELP!
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wow what a story. Well first i don't understand either why he just stoped texting you or even im you there has to be a reason. If you know where he lives or even better yet talk to his firend and tell him what has been going on and maybe he'll tell the guy you like to come talk to you and explain to him how you feel and ask him if you did something wrong or if it's just him being him. If you both are ment to be together abd you guys like each other then there must not be to bad a of a problem.
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