heya! so, ive done pretty much everything, regretted alot, but i have lived and experienced, so i know...
i am famed for my advice within my circle of friends, and although i dont want to boast... i am pretty dang good. =)
always here to help. much love xx
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A lot of my friends get hit on while they are at work. Guys will ask them for their phone numbers, or leave a number, etc. I have NEVER, and I mean NEVER had a customer ask me for my phone number, or leave me theirs.
Why don't guys ever leave me their numbers, or ask for mine? I'm pretty average looking, I guess. I often have a flirty/friendly conversation with customers at the cash register, but they never leave me numbers or anything.
Why? What's wrong with me? I'm 18 btw.
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i have this same issue with all of my friends. and ive got it down to one thing... CONFIDENCE.
you saying that you are average looking instantly tells me you dont have very high self esteem, this is an automatic turn off to men. just be more confident and fun and friendly, watch how your friends act and try to be abit more like them... not exactly the same, make it your own style =)
good luck, stay in touch xx
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Hello, recently i just broke up with my boyfriend, i just started university and we just both never really had time. So a couple weeks after we broke up i met this guy and i know him through my brother. so weve been talking and weve hung out a couple times. when i broke up with my exboyfriend i told myself that i wont have a boyfriend for a long time and that i need to focus on school. But now i really like this guy and im always thinking about him. i think i am starting to develop feelings for him, what do i do ? :(
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its every womans natural instinct to be wanted, and to want someone.
just because you have feelings for this guy, doesnt mean your going to marry him next week...
start slow, ask him to hang out as friends, see if you actually like him enough for anything to potentially happen... it might just be that you are lonely after your break up.
if feelings are still there, tell him, maybe he will feel the same?
good luck, stay in touch xx
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2 weekends ago, I found out by looking through my boyfriend's phone that he has been meeting up with this girl. I found out that he took her to a movie on one weekend and confronted him about it. (He has never taken me to the movies. In fact, we don't go on dates. Ever. We only went on one 'date' in our 8 month relationship, to a diner where he spent about $4.50 on each of our plates, and I recall he was being cheap and ordered water for both of us instead of soda. I thought by confronting him, he would stop taking this girl out. After all, he has been caught. This weekend, I went to my parents house for the weekend. I came back on Sunday to find a receipt on the floor for a moderately nice Meditteraneian restaurant. He spent 34 dollars total on their dinner. I also found a corkscrew on the counter, and we didnt own a corkscrew because we never drank wine together. He had her here at our apartment sometime this weekend and he treated her to a nice dinner and a bottle of wine. It really hurts me because he never makes an effort to do something nice like that, for me. I texted him telling him I have caught him for the second time, and I asked him "Why am I not good enough to take out to dinner, the movies, or buy a bottle of wine for?" He answered: "Honestly, I don't want to tell you why." I then told him that there would be no sex until he started treating me like a girlfriend and he stopped taking girls out on dates. He just responded with an "okay." This got me very angry, so I told him he had a small penis. I knew it would get to him. (His penis IS pretty small, calling it average would be an overstatement.) I am pregnant with his baby and I love him. We tell each other we love each other but I don't think he ever loved me if he could repeatedly be hurting me like this. The solution to this problem is easy, all I want is to be taken out on dates, not ditched while he goes with other girls. What is his problem? He said I am always welcome here in his apartment, which means he just wants me to stay so he can have sex on demand and I know he feels bad about kicking his pregnant girlfriend out. What should I do? (link)
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i agree.. this has got to stop.
yes, you are pregnant (congratulations) but no, there is now nothing between you and him, and although it might hurt you to do it, you have to go. you are better than this. and you deserve to be treated better.
he is just having the best of both worlds, on one hand he has you, faithful, dependable, live in "girlfriend"... and on the other hand theres her (or more than one her) fun, exciting, not pregnant.
i know all this from experience, both from being in your situation, and his...
you need to go. stay strong xx
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My boyfriend and i got together in december and now its getting closer to valentines day. He's 14 so what should i get him? (link)
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ok, so its only been a couple of months, so no need for flashy presents that cost more than your years pocket money.
maybe something nice and thoughtful, like a picture of the two of you in a frame? you can get some nice ones from places like wilko's, card shops, or even make your own?
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I am 13 years old and all my friends make fun of me because ive never had my first kiss. I go out with a 14 year old and we have talked about it but were to nervous to do anything. All weve done is kiss on the cheek and thats nothing! How do i get him to kiss me? (link)
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hun, first, dont listen to them. second, you wait until you are ready for your first kiss, silly as it seems, but some people actually think of it as a BIG deal.
if, and only if, you are both ready, then make sure its a quiet and relaxed atmosphere, and you are both comfortable. look at them, try and hold their gaze for a few seconds. then just lean in and gently kiss them on the lips.hold it for a few seconds, then pull back. if you want to, go for another one, and hold it for longer.
much love xx
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