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hey im janelle! i love shopping and being with my friends and im reely outgoing! im up for anything and i just like to party and have a good time! i like meeting new people so anyone want to chat you can im me!

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ok, i'm in need of some advice on this one. . .my old gf (let's call her M) from about a year and a half ago has recently been acting very very nice to me. i think she has started to like me again, but i don't like her. and plus, i have a new girlfriend (let's call her C). C and M are both friends, but i don't know what to do about this situation. . .

m had her chance it didnt work out, your with c now and all though you might want to stay friends with m you will never have the relationship with her that you did before.

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I have a question about this boy i like. he is 17 and i am only 15. i told him i like him and he said he liked me too. he is turnkng 18 this year. everyone who knows we like eachother say they have talked to him and he is going to ask me out. the only problem is that i am rly good friends with this kid and i dont want to ruin that friendship with him. he holds my hand all the time and he said he has a surprise for me on monday. i am kind of scared and i dont know what to say if it is that he is going ask me out. i dont know what to say if he does.

if you really like him you should go out with him. if you are that good of friends with him now and you do eventually break up it shouldnt be awkward if your good enough friends, at 15 and 17 dont expect him to be your soulmate people go out and break up all the time, its the ones who really cared for each other that can be friends after a breakup.

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I'm in 8th grade and in november I dated this kid in 7th grade. It was cool, it lasted for a month. But than he dumped me for like no reason. Then the night after that he called me back, begging for me to take him back, and I didn't. Now its been about 2 monthes, and he likes me again. HOw am I am going to deal with this?

theres no way to "deal with it" you either like him or you dont. if you like him go out with him, if you dont like him then tell him that. dont make it harder than it has to be. :]

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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....

Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?

and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?

k thanx i rate 5's.

basically guy s are all dicks, they think becuase they have them they should think with them. most guys think of girls as a piece of ass and they want the nicest piece of ass to talk about to their friends. basically just dont listen to what they say becuase maybe theyre the ones dating the skinny girls now but when they grow up theyre going to be the ones all alone while your dating all the hotties :)

hope i helped!

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When there's any sort of social gathering involving alcohol, my fiance always gets drunk. Not completely drunk, just a little drunk. It used to not bother me at all. But lately, it's blown up into a huge deal.

It stems from the fact that my mother was an alcoholic when I was a child. Also, when my fiance and I were split up for a month, he went through a depression and would drink every day and smoke a pack of cigarettes every day, and almost got kicked out of college.

So now when I see him drinking at all, it angers me to the point I want to explode immediately. Since he has informed me that he will still drink no matter what, we've decided upon a compromise; he can drink on special occasions, but not get drunk, even a little bit. BUT, even that angers me!

When he started smoking, I did everything I could to stop him, but I failed. He is finally quitting now, but I'm afraid that alcohol will one day be the same way, especially if we hit a rough patch in our lives. He makes excuses for drinking, such as saying it's the only way he can be himself in a crowd, and that scares me!! But on the other hand, I don't want to be completely irrational and fight about this all the time.

What should I do?

you need to tell him your scared for his health because youve seen what it can do, through your mother. tell him it scares you tell him you dont like when he does it...if he loves you more than his alchol then he will understand.

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right now i have 2 guys fighting over me and this seucks. i like them both and they both like me, but it seems that everything i do one of them is getting hurt and or upset, i just dont no what to do, i like them both. but i dont want neone to get hurt, but in reality all three of us is gettin hurt bcuz i cant take this, it sucks so much and i dont no hwat to do...help!! what am i supose to do about this...

even though you may think you like them both you have to listen to your heart becuase deep down your going to like one of them just a bit more and thats the one you have to go with...i dont think you should just not go with either of them because then youd be upset.

a little reminder if you ever come into a situation like this again : you cant try and make someone else happy before you make yourself happy.

hope i helped tell me what happens!

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There is a guy who i've just recently became really good friends with this year. Last year he was in one of my classes and we barely talked, but this year we ended up being in four classes together and became really good friends. Plus I found out he lived three houses away from me and we hung out once in a while.

He has a crush on one of my friends, a cheerleader who told me she wasn't interested in him at all and thought he was annoying. He told me she was sending mixed signals, flirting with him then ignoring him. She wanted to hook him up with someone else so he would leave her alone. But she was too nice to tell him that, so she wanted me to hook up with him or at least find someone else to. I was like, wtf? I thought that she was being a little rude when she said that, especially trying to push my friend on me just because she didn't want him liking her.

The next day, he was asking me whether or not he had a chance with her and i debated between telling the truth or saying I had no idea, because on one hand, if i told the truth, he might move on and she wouldnt complain so much , but then I might hurt his feelings. But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else.

Is what I did right? He seemed a little upset when he heard that she wanted him to go out with someone else, but got over it quickly. I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings though he didn't say it. Was what i did right? Or was I just meddling in someone else's business? Because if I didn't do anything about it, she would have been too nice to tell him to his face that she didnt like him and keep leading him on.

if you want my honest opinion i think you did the right thing and your friend was wrong your friend should not have been leading him on only to let him down. in my opinion you were being a true friend since you didnt want to see your friend get hurt.

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Alright my 14th birthday is comming up really soon & this is the first time I'm going to have a boyfriend. We've been together for a while & he's very important to me. I'd like to know a good slow song that I can play & we can dance to (since my party is a dance.) The song that reminds me of him is Lifehouse - you and me.. but I'm not sure if I want to dance to that. He loves to dance so any slow song should be good. please help. my birthday is soon & i need to get the music. Thanks so much.

I'll rate you!♥

with my boyfriends ive loved dancing to:

* all my life- kc and jojo
*always be my baby-mariah carey
* back at one- Brian Mcknight

if you need any more feel free to email or im me!

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Hi guys,

The reason that I named the subject "my guy =(" is because the name of the man whom I love is Guy. I went out with him shortly before Christmas break and broke up with him the same day because my friends told me repeatedly that he was gay. He is now going out with a girl named Angela, and I'm realizing that everything my friends said was untrue, and that I made a huge mistake. I am mourning my loss right now, and he really loved me, and I don't know if I'm ever going to get him back. Could someone please help me?

-just call me BLUE

if you miss him that much you should tell him. if he loved you back as much as you said he did he will accept that you made a mistake. you should deffinately tell him and tell him you still love and miss him and your reasons for breaking up with him. if he doesnt take you back he will respect that you told him the truth.

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OKay well i like this guy and the only thing is that ive gone out with him 3 times and i broke up with him last well the only reason i did is because im scared to get close to anyone i guess like my dad left when i was 12 and one of my best friends got all mad at me for no reason and stoped talking to me and my sisters about to have a baby so my moms all strest and is yelling at me and my best friend cammi is going threw alot right now and i normally help her and i cant even give good advice now and normally im realli good at helping people but now i cant get my mind off this guy i like and my advice has been realli sucky. im not sure what to do so can someone please help me..

tell him everything you just said...also if you feel stressed out try doing something that you really enjoy to take your mind off things it will help calm you down.

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Well I really like this guy, and the other day we were on the bus and this girl came up and said, "yes or no? I need you to tell me before lindsey get's on the bus". i was kind of confused so after he said he had to think about it and she left I asked him what he had to think about, and he said "if im gonna do my homework or not, she wants to borrow it". problem was, it was a friday. so idk why he lied?

Also... I kind of like his best friend, and people say he likes me, but idk, what should i do?

hey..chances are he did lie and not to sound mean but waht they were talkin about could have been about you...best thing to do is confront him and be honest second go straight to the source if you like him and have reason to believe he likes you go for it if you wait he might end up going out with someone else ((trust me been there done that))

hope i helped!

mucho love janelle

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okay i just had a party and this boy i like did stuff with me and my friend asked him out for me without me knowing and he said he will think about it he didnt know .. walking home from school he didnt talk to me but he only walked by me once and it looked like he was trying to hide his head.. does that mean he doesnt like me ? and all of my friends and his friends at the party said he was all over me and we were goin to end up goin out.. what should i do ? and did that mean he didnt like me ?

hey ...this is a tough one...if you "hooked up" with him at the party he might like you but he might not be ready to commit to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship...if you really like him and it seems hes avoiding you confront him and ask him whats up...the longer you wait the farther you could grow apart!


hope i helped mucho love janele

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well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much

p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]

hey this has happened to me soo many times, i think if you reely wana talk to him and reely love him you cam gather enough self confidence to go talk to him cuz everyday you wait is another day he could ask someone else out, also if you still feel too nervous to go up to him alone have a mutual friend of yours go up with him it will make you feel more comfortable and it might loosen you both up! also be yourself if its one thing ive learned is id you were once frends with him he likes you for you so dont try and be something your not ((sorry its a bit long))


hope i helped!

mucho love janelle

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im 13 years old my name is dany the girls name is noora she is 14 years old she is in ma church what do u exactly mean by flirt be nice how do i do that ?

hey! a good way of flirting is to comment her on something shes wearing or tell her she looks pretty today also comment her on the little things notice something she may be wearing that shes never worn before the little things are what really get to a girls heart!



hope i helped!


mucho love


janelle

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