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i went out with my boyfriend for around 7 weeks, i dumped him because i thought he kept lying about alot of stuff but the main reason was he was really pressuring me into doing stuff with him and i just wasn't having it. now a week after i dumped him he decided he was going to get together with one of my friends *we're not really that close* but she's very immature nd said to him she doesn't wnt a relationship she jst wants some fun so he was up for that and one thing led to another *they're not together but they have done stuff with each other* i'm not jealous because i really dont wanna get bck together wif him he really makes me feel sick...... i'm so angry wif him and her because i feel lyk she's totally contridicted what i have said and him because i fink he's just a slut.....
i really don't no why i'm so angry nd am sorry its long but can someone please tell me why i'm gettin lyk annoyed by this
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It's normal to be angry about this. Your friend is making a bad decision and you can't prevent it unfortunately. Your ex is apparently not the greatest guy and someone making a stupid decision to do stuff with him would of course make you upset! I can definitely relate to you, don't worry!
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To be blunt, I always get hurt when I have feelings for someone. It never fails; If anything is there for me always, that's rejection. I like guys that seem nice, but aren't that great in the end, or "just want to be friends."
I know it may sound stupid, but when I like a guy, it's not superficial; I actually like who he is and care about him, which could be why it hurts so much sometimes.
Well, my question is, why is God putting me through the same thing over and over again? Why can't He just let me be happy? I'm a Christian, and I definitely love and believe in God.
I know that I'm going to grow from all of this, and I know that having a boyfriend can be hard sometimes, but why do the same situations keep repeating themselves? Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think we have similar religious beliefs and I trust God for everything as well. Whenever I get hurt I always know everything happens for a reason - you said you know you will grow from it, which is good, I think like that also. Keep in mind that maybe if it wasn't meant to be, God is keeping you from something that may not have done much for you. Don't give up =]
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Pls help me, I'm so confused! I'm 17/M, and black. I've always been real popular with the girls and I never questioned my sexuality bfore but now I do cuz I'm very confused about my friend Steven.
He is very different from my other friends who are mostly hiphoppers, he's got spiky, black hair that is long in one side and I think hes gothic - very pale and white, and like real skinny and pretty like a girl. He also has many of his friends wearin' only black.
He is one year younger than me and I guess I've been quite protective towards him all along. I always stood up for him when some of the other black guys wanted to beat him up because he's white and wears gothic-kindda clothes and even eyeliner.
Latey I've become more and more obsessed with Steven and I can't stop thinking about him when we're not together and even think of how it would be to have sex with him?
I know that he's bisexual cuz he's told me, and I think he knows the effect he has on me and it's like it's humouring him. I sometimes get the feeling that he's actually teasing me and I don't know what to do
I try to convince myself that it's just curiousity, but I'm not too sure? I have NEVER been attracted to any other male bfore and I really don't want to be gay! It would be such trouble with my friends, my family, my whole life!
I relly need some advice, and fast! (link)
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Don't listen to the other answer. Nothing is for sure yet. As a teenager it is very common to be curious enough to have a crush on the same sex. Do you like girls also, or has your guy friend consumed all of your thoughts? It's possible you are bisexual or gay, so don't try to convince yourself otherwise. You have to be yourself and don't try to hide any feelings you're having from yourself!
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I am 16/f, just to get that out of my way.
Let me just start off by saying, I have been in and out of maybe 6 relationships ever since 9th grade, I am now in 10th, and those have never lasted longer than 2 weeks. Various reasons to be broadly stated.
So I've been off dating field for about 6 months when I meet this great guy and things went good so now we are going out and I am surprise to say that we have been going out for about 3 weeks...(ha yes, 3 weeks isn't long time but it is to me compared to other relationships) and just couple days ago my bf told me, "i know this is a day late(referring to valentines day), but I love you"
and i was COMPLETELY shocked by this. My head is going out of control thinking, how could you love me? how can someone LOVE someone when they known each other for less than a month and have been going out for little over 2 weeks?
I mean i didnt tell him, I just told him that I am really not ready to say I love him, but i really do like him a lot. Which I am glad that he understood perfectly well and wasn't upset in any way.
So I don't regret anything on that, but What my real question is, Is it possible for someone to love someone in that short amount of time?
I mean, I am not doubting his affection for me and his respect for me nor am I really going to ask him but on the back of my mind, I can't help but to wonder, is he really saying that because he mean it?
I mean i did ask if he meant it and he looked at me straight in the eye with serious face...
and also, how do I know if i LOVE him? obviously I have never loved somebody... Yeah i know I am suppose to just "know" if its love but still...
I was thinking of asking him that question... "Define Love"
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Loving someone is different than being IN love with someone. He could definitely love you. That would mean he cares about you deeply and thinks about you a lot of the time. Being IN love with him would be different, and if that is what he meant I find it hard to believe he could be in love that quickly, but it's still possible. He may have just wanted to tell you because of Valentine's Day, since it is a typical day to tell someone that.
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Wooo...here we go. Oh boy. This is so upsetting. I was in a best-friend kind of relationship with a guy for the past 7 months. We were EXTREMELY close, up until today. And I'm just so confused with what's going on. I'm 15 and he's 17. We were very personal with each other, being able to tell secrets, share feelings, console each other in times of trouble, care a lot for eachother, and we shared a lot of interests too. About 4 months ago, he started telling me that he loved me. I, of course, was very excited, thinking that he really DOES love me. So I began to get very clingy to him, flirting and being very sweet because I really DID love him. He would tell me how beautiful I am, and how he wanted to see me all the time and how he wanted to play with my hair and that my eyes were so beautiful and when he sees me the next time, he will give me his whole music collection and we will snuggle to the music of a record player and he will kiss me on the forehead and tell me how much he loves me. He teased me a lot too. But for the past 4 months, I've been noticing that he's been saying similar things to OTHER girls! I was outraged and so full of jealousy. He said the EXACT same thing to them! "Oh you know you're the only one for me ";)""....That was the last straw. Whenever he is on MSN, there are other girls online and he completely ignores me and chats with them! And when we're in a group convo with our friends (who are like 16 - 18) he flirts around with them! But then after, he tells me that I'm the ONLY one he loves and "you should know that by now, cutie, hehe *kiss*". Well, finally getting to the point, today, on MSN...he told me that he thinks that it won't work out! He says that "I'm not the one you want" and "you will be able to find other guys". I don't know what to do, guys...I really don't. Looks to me like he's been leading me on...and then, when I opened my heart out to him, he broke it. ;_;...what should I do? I still love him, but he just says "But we'll always be friends". I just...don't know if I can trust him anymore...*sigh*. ;_____; (link)
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I've been in a similar situation, but not that extreme. I know how it feels, and your situation seems 10x worse so you've got to be pretty upset =[ You have to just get over him. There's nothing else that you can do. If you stay friends with him you'll be hurting whenever you see him. He's not trustworthy. One day you'll find a guy who will really be like who you thought this guy was. Good luck.
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