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I'm 13 years old and I love listening to music and surfing the internet. My father's a police man and I hate wannabes.





Website: unthoughtful
Gender: Female
Age: 13
Member Since: August 11, 2006
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 24, 2006
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There is this boy that I go to school with, let's call him Ricky. I added Ricky's myspace a few months ago and we started talking a little more ever since. We hardly ever talk since all of the girls at school are ALL over him, and it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me. A few days ago we were talking and he asked me to walk with him somewhere, but the other girls lead him away. I know I need to step up my game, but how?! (link)
try harder! and when he finally notices you, play hard to get so he'll want you even more.


do u have to use itunes to put music on your ipod? and if not how do i do it
thank you (link)
well, i have itunes and rapsody. i suggest you use rapsody. its easier. im not sure how to get it though. the program just came with my laptop. but if you want to use itunes, go ahead. its free. i dont use it cause it wont work on my ipod.


i know this is kinda long, but if you're gay [female or male], please read.

just so you know, i'm 15/f
lately i've been thinking about dating a girl.
i went through a short bi-curious thing in sixth grade [im in highschoool now], but i found this girl. and she's really cute and amazing. and i honestly would date her. i know women are just generally attractive, but i really like her. the thing is i'm willing to try being with a girl. but i would want them to know that i'm not sure with the whole gay thing. the girl i like is bi, but she knows for a fact she is. i think i would enjoy being with a girl emotionally and physically. i'm trying to figure out if this is just a phase or what. i'm confused as hell.
what should i do? (link)
Do watever u want! If you want to date a girl then date her!! As long as your happy. Because sooner or later, your gonna die and before you die, you have to make sur you had a great life and that you were happy.


My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said yes. Well now I don`t really want to have the same thing`s as my friend, because I want to be an individual, not a twin!! I`m not sure what I should do or say, because I would feed bad asking my friend to take back her purchases and I don`t want to take back mine. So what I`m asking, is, what should I do to stop the matching in the future? Please Help!!

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Wow. Well maybe next time you should go shopping without her. Or maybe you should just tell her how you feel. Imagine being your friend. How wold you feel if she told you she didn't want to be twins? If bad, then don't tell her how you feel and go look for a better advice columnist. If ok, then go ahead tell her. You guys are best friends and that must mean you have something in common. Maybe the way you feel about each other. So maybe she won't be that upset when you tell her you don't want to be a twin. I think.....


im 13/f
--my friend like is so cofindent when shes talkin to boys and when i find out guys like her i get jeolous i try to hide it but its not easy
--and when im around boys i dont talk that much
plz tell me how i can talk to guys without like bein shy and help me with my friend (link)
It's normal to be shy. I'm shy when I'm around guys too. You know what you should do? You should talk to your friend and ask her to tell you how to be more confident around guys. I mean, you said she was really confident around guys. So if you ask her everything will work out.




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