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Ok so im bi and no one knows. So 8th grade in the end of the year, before basketball practice at his house he was making jokes like "suck my dick" and i would say something back, So he said "suck my dick" again and i was like ok.... than we went to basketball and after i went to his house and he said it again and I DID IT!! he cummed in my mouth.. right after, i left (it was awkward) now he acts like is sleeping and i try and "wake him up" and i suck his dick.. now im in 11th grade and i still do it.. ive sucked his dick when he is "awake" like 5 times, now what we do is when we drink and he gets drunk he does me up the butt and everythinggggg..

is he Gay/Bi or no???
please help me im so confused and he is soo hott..

Thanks,
Me from New York

it depends do you see him WITH any girls ?
it seems like he's gay to me just from what i have read

did you read the perks of being a wallflower because i think you should

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im an 18 yr old girl and there is this guy i have known for all my life told me that he has feelings for me.. that he loves me and would marry me any second all i have to do is say yes. but the thing is he has a gf that he has been with a lil over a year but he says he is tired of her and wants to break it off but cant b.c he dont want to disappoint her family.. i have loved him for a longgg time and i want to be with him for the rest of my life but i dont know whether to believe him or not. please help me!!

Yes stay with him.
I may only be 16 years old but I have a guy friend who I am madly in love with and he says the sweetest things to me and I hope he asks me to marry him since we spend pretty much every second together. Wait until things get better with him and his girlfriend so he is able to break up with her.
Good luck !

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okay. so what are some good songs that like say thata you met this really great guy and you like him but you don't think it's ever even a possibility for him to like you like that. so you're afraid to tell him.
hahaha.
also, when i like read the lyrics to a a song, i can't put my mind around it as well as i can when i'm listening to it and reading it at the same time.
does anyone know why that is?
don't forget the songs though!

realize by cabie coliet er something n crush by david arch. im in the same postion as you and right now im listeing to crush

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what does it mean when your guy friend tease you and stuff and we joke around a lot but my friend says we flirt sometimes he wants to borrow my bracelet (normal ones not girly) that i really like. Other day he took my bracelet and run off and he gave it back to me after that day. and today he wanted to borrow my other bracelet and i made him borrow his necklace and we traded and borrowed things from eachother does this mean anything?

omg the same thing is happening with me and my friend. he has a girlfriend too so it makes things more complicated like today we had a tornado drill and hes like if i were to die i wanna be next to you. and he tried to throw things down my shirt

i'd say your fine right now but if things keep moving maybe hes into you or just wants to be really close and talk to him about stuff that you would tlak to girls about

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15/f
i'm not sure whether i'm straight, bi, or lesbian. I go to an all girls school and i have crushes on girls, but when i'm outside of school i'm generally attracted to guys. like once i know a girl for a while i form a crush, whereas if i meet a cool, hot guy i am immediately attracted.
it's hard to meet people because my school is so small.
any suggestions on where i should go, what i should do to meet people, whether it be guys or girls to figure out who i'm really interested in? i've done random stuff, but never been in a relationship, which is kinda pathetic, but i'm busy with school, soccer etc
please help!

i think your bi or straight. its probably just cause you go to an all girls school so you look at girls constantly and think of them maybe as guys. or cause your around girls too much so your attracted to them

if you don't want to be bi or are scared tell your parents you might be coming bi and then see if they will move you to a public school

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I'm 15/f and I've never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. I'm getting alomst to da point of desperation. Any advice? How do I get dudes to do that? Is it wierd that I've neva been kissed? Thxxxx

its perfectly fine if you've never had a boyfriend or never kissed but if you really want to find a guy that you know is good for you and just tlak to him maybe the 3 time you guys talk flirt a little thats how most girls get their guy is by flirting but you can't be annoying if you need help on flirting read maga. or ask your friends

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ok, im 13 and was (at the time) going into 8th grade (it was summer).I went to this barbeque for my little brothers baseball game. It was like a friday night, the second of the summer. I was all happy and met the coaches son, let's call him "Joey." I laughed with Joey all night and told him I was 14 cause I thought that was how old he was. we hung out outside until it thundered. Then we ran to the basement and played "Outburst." His dad, the coach of my bro's baseball team, came down twice to check on us and the others who were hanging out down there. He saw me playing with Joe and laughing. He looked at me with this wierd smiling face but i was literly like drunk on this Joe guy and didnt make much of it. Well, for the next few days I was so heartbroken I might never see him again (unless my brother gets drafted on his dad's team again in February). Then I went out to lunch with my mom. She said, "I heard you were hanging out with *Joe*" My mother continued to tell me how joe's dad came up and told all the parents i was hanging out with joe. Then, he asked my mom if i was about 15. My mom said no, she's a little bit younger than that. Then, my mom told me Joe was 16. I was so embarassed!!! The problem know is that my brother will probally get drafted on Joe's dads team. Joe is at like all the games and so I am. I don't know how I will get through the season with Joe and Joe's dad and all the parents for that matter. Please help me!!

can't you request a team..if not make plans with your friends on those nights he has a game

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I don't smile a lot. My best guy friend told me last year when he was giving me advice on getting a boyfriend (Don't ask why he was doing that. I don't have a clue why.) that I should smile more. I mean I laugh at almost everything, but I just barely ever smile! Is there some way that I can get myself to smile more?

just think everytime you laugh keep smiling and try to remeber to smile through out your day i didn't smile alot too but this is what helped me.

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ok theres this guy that ive been going out with for about four months now. well, now im starting to REALLY like this other guy and i want to break up with my boyfriend, but im afraid he'll hate me. cuz weve gone out before and when i broke up with him, he ignored me for months. i dont want that same thing to happen, cuz i still wanna be friends with him. what should i do?

this is mostly an answere that you have to make. i would say go out withthe guy until you have fallen in love with the other one

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tonight, my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch king kong with him. we`ve been together for about 2 months now, and we`ve done everything up to making out. the last time we did, he bit my tongue and it bled. but, that was his first time making out, so i just shook it off. but tonight, i think we will again. so my main problem is, what are some good ways to make out for beginners?

just start to kiss him not make out go faster get the neck. lick maybe? its up to you.if and when you feel comfortable start making out. you guys will know when its right.

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