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i think i'm bi because i like girls and guys. i really like one of my friends like that but i have no idea if she is bi too. i think she might be but i really don't know. whats something i could do to let her know i'm a little interested, without freaking her out?

just talk to her about it tell her your feelings and what not i mean if shes a true friend she shoudl undersadn and if shes bi then maybe she has same feelings.. hope i helped


Halee

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I went out with this boy for 4 months and we broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I don't know her, but one day she messaged me out of the blue and started asking me if I still liked him and have feelings for him. So I told her that I don't because I kinda do, but only a teeny bit. Anyway, she won't leave it alone and everyday she asks me if I want him back and blehh. What do I say to her to make her stop, cause I'm really tired of telling her that I'm not trying to steal her boyfriend.

well just tell this girl to back off you dont want her man i mean dear gosh if she doesnt get it then.. then by golly shes one stupid chick i mean dont let it bother you.. and if she continues after you tell her that just ignore it i mean its her fault shes that stupid and doesnt get it..


i hope i helped lol


Halee*

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ohk so i have liked this guy already for about a year. he says he likes me too but i dont think he does cuz one day he acts like it and the next day he dont. he keeps getting my hopes up and it hurts cuz i noe he's just messing me. he also keeps flirting with one of my best friends, and with everyone else he also tells them every single thing he says to me. so i am hurting so bad. what should i do ?

well i know you may like this guy sooo much but if he is getting your hopes up then ruining them and its hurting you hes not the guy for youa nd you shouldnt let him do that dont ever let any guy hurt u physically or emotionally i mean it may take you time to get over it but hey theres always alwasy other hotties out there and guys with the most wonderful personality ever so dont keep letting him do that to you. I hope i helped...


-H*a*l*e*e-

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Well me and my boyfriend have gotten like really close and I really like him alot. I just dont get the feeling that he likes me back. What should I do? Should i act different and like be more WOW. Like do anything he wants? Help im soooo CONFUSED!!!

well you know this is just my opinon a very strong opinon at that lol.. but... maybe first you should try tlkin to him and telling him how you feel you have to be open and honest or it will NEVER work.. and if he still seem to act the same way DONT im telling you DONT change your self for anyone you are who you are and to alot of ppl your perfect teh way you are i meanif you changed you could risk losing a BEST friend or close friends which could be bad you would lose a best friend risking trying to make some guy in ur life happy.. and you may never get that friend back even after you and this gu break up.. i mean i may not know you but im guessing your an amaziing person the way you are.. dont change.....

well hope that helped!

-H*al*e*e-

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Me and my boyfriend love eachother to death. But we can never find time to ourselves we have talked a lot about exploring other places and getting away from all the hatred we see in our lives right now. the thing is i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i know i do-i just dont want n e one else to get in the way . . . . should i ask him to runaway with me or wait till' we are older and go through school then college then get married?

well i mean you should definately finsih school before running away and getting married but after high school if you both fill the same way then i see no problem n getting married... so yeah once your out of school then go for it but i wouldnt get married if you havent finished school yet it could cause major problems and things could happen.. so yeah hope i helped..

halee

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Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean?

well i mean all you can do is tell him the truth tell him your not interested in him and your soo not trying to be mean you would feel worse if you lead him on to think you do like him if you didn't tell him the truth on how you really feel.. and maybe if he's someone you could be friedns wiht if your not already then maybe you should try being JUST FRIENDS with hima nd if you do that make sure he understand its JUST friends nothing else... I hope i helped!

-Halee

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Ok. Im 13/f btw. Well let me start from the beginging. Last year I liked this kid Ryan. I liked him the whole 7th grade year. Everyone knew. He never really said he liked me but he did flirt and he never said he didn't like me. Then I din't see him that much over the summer and I kinda stopped liking him for a little bit. Now I'm in 8th grade and I ended up being in his twin brother, Brendans, class. And i guess I kinda started liking him. Then my friend Jenny told us she likes Ryan. Then there was this big thing where I was mad at my friend Chelsea for starting to like Brendan after completely crying over some other kid. But then I just said 'Brendan don't like me n e ways so why should i care'. So me and Chelsea are cool. She still likes Brendan and I don't care. Thing is, we were playing truth or dare and Ryan was dared to kiss me. Which he did. So yeah I like Ryan again. And am positive I don't like Brendan because he acts so stupid and ghetto all the time. (Ryan doesn't). Basicly the thing is Jenny. She likes Ryan. But i swear Jenny is the shyest person ever! She don't even talk to him or flirt or any thing ya know? So I don't know if I hould even like him knowing she does. But she doesnt talk to him! PLEASE HELP ME! I am so confused! :(

wow..well if this girl is one of your close friend i wouldnt mess with this ryan guy till shes over him and is ok with it or it could really screw up yalls friendship...... so talk to her about it tell her how you feel and see how things go..

hope i helped

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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy

to some guys it is to some guys its not theres really no definate answer to that it just depends on the guy mostly... and what makes you comfortable too...!?!?!

Hope i helped

Hayhay*

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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true?

well most people dp find love... im sure you will too but dont settle for less than you want just cuz your afraid you won't find love... but u not wanting a boyfriend in middle school thats no big deal thats your choice your normal dont worry.. hope i helped!

-HayHay

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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

well first off what tha crap are you doing witha married man.. but you know you should take this into consdieration he could do the same thing to you as hes doing with his WIFE now.. you would jsut be his girlfriend or what not so yeah... and hes really shallow.. but idk what to tell you there... but uhh find someone AVALIBLE..... hope i helped lol

Halee

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okay i have to just be friends with that one guy cause im just way to good friends with him and i dont want to mess anything up so i guess hell never know what i truely feel but thats okay cause i have feelings for this guy that i work with. i have liked him since i seen him and today he asked for my number im ALWAYS flirting with him and i think hes flirting back but i work with him so i dont want to mess things up. i dont know what to do im so confused cause i thought i really liked my friend but then i started working and now i like this other guy alot i just dont know what to do if someone could help me with what to do i really be thankful. anyway im going to go bye bye!!!

well wow your actually have a difficult question there wow either way your gonna have to be careful.. but i mean im dating my best guy friend ever and its working out so great i mean its a blasssst.. and i can be my true self around him so it depends what your looking for ya know.. hope i helped?

Halee

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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?

Well first let me start with if you really in truely LOVE your boyfriend then you probly wouldn't flirt with other guys... And since you do and you don't want to hurt him theres 2 solutions either stop flirting with other guys or break up with him.. so yeah you take your pick!

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