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i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do? (link)
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you can try writing him a letter, but if you have somebody give it to him for you, it is considered a bad luck thing, so give it to him all on your own, okay!
Well, i hope that this works for you!
So, let me know about what you decide to do, and about what happens, okay!
My email is hev7777777@yahoo.com, so email me if you ever need any help with anything!
Hev
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So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?
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I think that you should just tell him how you are feeling, and he might take it a little harshly, but he shoud get over it sooner or later.
I hope that i have helped you!
Hev
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My bf has an older brother (11 years older). He looks up to him like a father cz he helped bring my bf up. I like his brother a lot. Hes a nice guy.
Ive realised that whenever his bro is with us my bf doesnt treat me too gd (rude etc), for no reason. As soon as his brother has gone hes really nice to me.
He can't even be bothered to see me, or talk to me, if hes going out with his bro later on.
When we talk on the phone he doesnt make an effort. Its like Im talking to myself. When he talks to his bro they're laughing n hes telling his brother everything.
Before I didnt see it. Then I thought I was exagerating n I thought it was me who was acting diff. But now its jus obvious to me.
I have tried talking to him about it but he jus says Im being stupid and he wouldn't do that to me. If I say smething about his bro hes gonna get annoyed with me. He always does.
I dunno how to approach the situation. (link)
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Well, if he really cared for you, then he would take it into consideration instead of just saying that you are being stupid.
Anyways, i think that you should talk to him about it a little bit at a time, and when the conversation starts to get a little roudy, then bring it up again the next day, and continue with it until he gets it in his head that it is really bothering you.
I had the exact same prblem with one of my boyfriends.
By the way, if he really cares about you and all, well, he should learn to listen to how you are feeling.
I hope that i have helped.
Hev
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My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck. (link)
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Yes you should talk to him about it, because even if he doesnt feel the same way, a true friend will always stick with you, ALWAYS!
Also, that could be the easy way out for him to say that he wants a break from the relationship at the momment!
Well, i hope that i have helped at least a little!
Hev
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Last Summer I hooked up with a guy down the shore and we've kept in touch. He's going down the shore with his friend and I'm coming down with my best friend in August. One problem, I have a boyfriend now. I don't want to hookup with the guy because I'm happy with my bf (And I wouldn't even consider cheating on him) The issue concerns my best friend who likes the guys friend, Chris. She has been really lonely the whole year since she hasn't hooked up with anyone but him and I know she really wants to see him. My friend said "Well, we'll just tell them we can't do anything. They'll find other girls" But I feel so bad for my friend, I want her to be with Chris (And I don't have a problem telling the guy that I can't do anything) but she refuses to let that happen. The way I see it, I have several options. Tell the guys we can't do anything & part our ways, let my friend and Chris do whatever they want and just stay friends with the guy, pray that my best friend gets a boyfriend so she can't do anything anyhow or maybe me and my boyfriend would have broken up before then (We're only 14, you never know what could happen) Or maybe theres something else I could do? I'll rate (link)
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Well, you should maybe have your boyfriend come along, if that is possible anyways, and then, the guy that you hoooked up with the last time will see that you have a boyfriend, and he should back off!
Or, you can tell your boyfriend that you think that you two two should have a few days to be free and do almost whatever because you saw it on Oprah and they said that it shows how much you really care for each other
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I am 14yrs old and have a bf I'm confused and need advice on is my not talking to my bf everyday or even every other day sometimes normal. He's always out and gets in the house late, then he has a sister and girls talk on the phone alot...so is it normal or what should I do about it,i don't believe it's a terrible problem but... it's bothering me.Pleez HELP!
XOXO i rate 5s
thanks in advance (link)
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well, i dont mean to be mean or anything about what i am going to say, but it is just my opinion.
I think that your bf is probably not wanting to be in a relationship anymore, because usually guys start to do that sort of stuff when they are trying to get you to get loose.
Maybe you should try talking to him about how you are feeling though!
Well, i hope that my advice helps at least a little bit!
Hev
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I have crush on this really cute boy named Dan.I've heard rumors that he likes me.I want us to be together but I don't want to tell him that I like him.What should I do?Oh,and I'm 14 and I'm obviously a girl.I'm from Singapore. (link)
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Well, whatever you do, dont have anybody do it for you, because the result usually turns out bad, but if you cant talk to him, then write him a note, but give it to him yourself, and dont let anyone else do it for you, k!
Well, i hop that this helps!
Hev
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Okay so i have a boyfriend. And i dont know how much i really like him, like sometimes i really do but other times it seems like he's just there. The farthest we've gone is like kiss, and we never hang out outside of school. So i almost just consider us as good friends .. considering before we started going out i would kiss my good guy friends all the time, like on the cheek. So me and his relationship is just like one step farther.. and i almost think its dumb. Two of my good girl friends are a year older then me and they both loved that went out before but think that i should break up w/ him now. i said i think i should too.. because i do. but i know that he'll be pissed, and not talk to me for like who knows how long. And i really wanna continue to be friends w/ him. Both of my friends think i'm gunna chicken out, and i am just scared. And dont know how i should deal w/ this.. i am really close to alot of guys in my grade, and can be sort of a flirt. me and my boyfriend barly talk & it really doesnt even seem like were going out. But i dont know, i dont wanna him to like hate me if we do break up. And my ex best guy friend, is really good friends w/ him now. And thinks that i'm like a horrible girlfriend to him, and that i treat him bad because i sort of deny him sometimes cause i think its awkward. But i dont know how to tell w/ that either. its like if i do break up w/ him that my ex guy friends gunna hate me even more. And were almost becoming friends again.. i dont know. Please help me ... (link)
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Well, if you dont realky have feelings for him, themn find out if he is feeling the same way maybe, but ask him in a way to where he doesnt have that feeling where he doesnt find out that you feel that way.
Just say "So, how are you feeling about us lately," or something simular to that. Plus, if he takes it the wrong way, well, then maybe he will just break up with you, and you dont have to do the dirty work, because he'll end up doing it for you.
Well, i ho-pe that i helped at least a little bit even.
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