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ok . this summer i cheated on my boyfriend . & i toLd him Like a month ago . he took me back and its been gooddd , weLL [ aLmost ] its been a whiLe now & he toLd me he wiLl never be able to trust me and again and beLeive me . weLL hes been keeping tight tabs onme and everything . he says he's tired of us arguing and tired of worring about who im taLkin to and wat im doni . does this mean he wants to break up ?
its been 7 months . i Love this boy with my heart
but its Like we just cant move on because he KN0WS i wouLd [ never ] hurt him again but he just doesnt wanna Let him seLf beLieve it & i mean its kiLLing me . i dont wanna Lose him ; but its Like were stuck on that same day i toLd him ,with just a day never ending ?
ugh
i dont wanna Lose him . (link)
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well you can move back so tell him if you guys are going to be stuck at the smae place the you shoulc break up beacuse wat is the piont then
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Any term you see in red below is not allowed:
our story is long, i'll try my best to keep it short. (its very good though-i've heard.)if i dont give details, you wont be able to help me.
im a girl.
the ex: i'll call him "ken".
both of us a little young for our grade.
i met ken in 7th grade. we had language arts together and instantly hit it off. last day of school, kens friend asked ken to ask me out. (the day ken was gonna ask me too.) ken didnt say how he felt so he asked me out for his ffriend. i liked them both. i thought ken didnt like me since his friend wants to date me, and i told him i would date his friend. 8th grade we broke up and i still liked ken. we became closer and we started to date in the beginnning of 8th grade. i told him i wouldnt say "i love you" unless i really meant it. he agreed. so after a couple months, he told me he loved me, and i wasnt quite sure what love meant, but i liked him so much! so i said it back, and i really meant it for what i knew love meant. i broke up with him in the beginning of 9th grade. he was crushed and could barely speak to me for a while. then we became very close again, and i relized how much i missed him and what i had. by this time, he wasnt into me anymore and was into other girls. i was crushed. in the beginning of 9th grade, we dated again, for about a month-fighting a lot-and finally broke up agian. (we agreed to break up.) i was okay, but deep down i knew i wanted him. in the middle of 9th grade, we dated for 2 days. a lot happend in those 2 days-he said we'd go to prom together-then he broke up with me. (im a virgin by the way.) i got so upset, i stopped talking to him for about 3 months-he started cutting and getting into drugs. when i found out, i felt terrible so i started to talk to him again. then he stopped talking to me the last two days of school, because someone told him that i told everyone about his cutting. i was so angry. we hadnt talked the whole summer untill 2 days before school started. he said i shouldnt be sorry for anything and he is very sorry for believing people he barley knew over me. we wanted to be close again, and aventually date again. i told him it was hard for me, because i still loved him. he said he loved me with his whole heart. 10th grade was a struggle for our relationship. now im a junior (11th) and soon to be 16. he just turned 16 a month ago. our relationship is better now. we talk, soon to hang out again, and we eat lunch together-with other people. i really want to talk to him about everything and see what he thinks about everything. he now has this gf for about 3 months. they both are into drugs. i just tried weed and drank before. he tells her he loves her. but people tell me hes not over me. we kinda flirt-hes not a flirty type. friends say he has a "special" smile for me. i dont see it. i want to go to prom with him- i want to spend the rest of my life with him-and sometimes, i think he does to. im so confused. does he want to be with me??? a lot of the time it seems like im just another friend..and not real important..but i want to be important again. i want to be his only concern. i want to get his attention, but not show that i want to get it. what do i do???
if you read this whole thing, and helped me, thank you so much!!!! (link)
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wow that one hell of a story but i will tell you this dont get back wiht him it has not worked before i wont work again but be friends beacuse it seems its just not really meant to be .but do help him with a drug problem beacuse until it his clean i dont think it good for you to date him beacuse he is sick and wat he needs is help from a friend(you)!so my answer fomr reading your stroy is that it is not meant to be you tired alot of times and i has not worked why go thoruh it again.hope i helped
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hello.
my husband believes i don't desire him because i am not spontanous with sexual acts. i believe that sence i got pregnant my desire for sex has gone down thats all. i just want some suggestions as to prove that i do desire him.
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well frist of all congrats on the baby!now frist of all you should talk to your husband about how your desire for sex is not as much nad if he doesnt understand then you got a problem but ways to have some fun is to go out for dinner or do some one on one time but your husband needs to realize that if you dont feel like haveing sex he should leave you alone.hope it helps!
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so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do? I dont think I wuold take him back but as selfish as this is I would just like him to say he made a mistake and want me back so I can say no, you missed your chance.
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well this is wat you could do when school come act cool around him you now his not worth your time and your to good to be with him but to show him wat a chance he missed act like you dnt care about him go out wiht other guys in front off him if he asked for you again say NO because he missed his chance and if he didnt for get him you have the rest of your life to find the perfect guy have fun and anyway he is soon going to go to unersvcity so i would probably end your relashinip even if you were together
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I have a best friend and we are extremely close. She had a boyfirned for only 3 months..and he broke up with her. its been about 3 months since they broke up. well we are frineds still. and he IMed me the other dayand wad like do you want to hang out. and i said sure. so we were driving in his car for awhile at night and then he wanted to kiss me. so he did we hooked up. well now i feel horrible becuase that was my best frineds ex. i mean we never made a pact to get wit each others exes..but she already got wit two other guys since the break up. i need help please..what should i do... (link)
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well ask yor friend beacuse friend are more important tell her is it ok if i went out with your ex if ex then tell her your going tout with him if not brea up wiht him but also tell your friend email me and tell me wat happened
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Alriiight SO. Theres this guy I reallyyy like and hes like totally sexy. Weve gone out before, and I dumped him for another guy. I totally regret it because the guy I dumped him for I also broke up with. I want to go back to the first guy and I think he is a little mad at me. I dont remember his number because I never put it in my phone, and he hasn't gotten online in forever. I dont know what to do. I really miss talking to him, so if he gets on what should I say to make him forgive me? I have said like I love you again and I broke up with the guy I dumped him for but we dont seem satisfied. I really want him back! What should I doooo? Thanks in advance! lol (link)
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well go talk to him in person say that you regert dumping him and that you saw how great he really are and for sure say that its ok for you to be mad at me i deserve it
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My boyfriend and i recently got into a huge fight (again). It started because he was joking about buying cars, then said he would by me a hummer. He completely ignored the fact that my cousin was killed by one only 2 years ago. He claimed that he didnt know about it, but we've been together for almost 14months now, its almost impossible that i never told him. anyway, from there he got really pissed off at me and everything hes been mad at me for started coming out. He told me that he hates that im working full time, going to summer school, and preparing for my moms wedding that is in 8 days. His biggest complaint about them was that i have no time for him. He also told me that he doesnt want me hanging out with people from work. (we worked till 3 am one night then went out to denny's for food) He kept saying things like "i do so much for you, i always make time for you, i try to please you so much and i get nothing back" which is a total exaggeration. At that point i asked him, do you want me to quit my job? drop out of summer school? im not asking you to please me, i just hoped you'd love me. Then he said the big line, "I dont know how to love you"
What do i say to that? how am i suppose to react to him now?
we havnt talked for a week. he keeps going on about how much of a wreck he is, but ive been crying every night. I realize that we are both at fault for this, but i dont know how im supposed to feel about hearing that after he told me he loves me so many times before.. (link)
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look if really loved you then he owuld help out with your moms wedding or tell you that you did a good job going to summer school or that you have a job and he would trust you and respect your feelings so maby you guys should frist talk and if that doesnt work break up i hope i helped:) email me if you need more help
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