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Today the kid who sits across from me(who i kind of like, but would go out with) said,"Do you want to be my girlfriend?" I said "what?" "Do you wan't to be my girlfriend?" I kind of laughed it off.
The thing is, even though i would go out with him, we fight like brother and sister so I'm not sure if he's being serious about this or not. You can't really tell with him. How do I find out if he was actually serious or not? (He asked out one of my bfs yesterday and got turned down)

Please help
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well what i would do is ask one of your friends to go ask him who he likes, then if that doesn`t work, tell them to tell him ..were you serious when you asked (your name) out? and then you`ll know!

tell me what happensss

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I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not HORRIBLY ugly, I actually think I'm pretty. But NO guys approach me at all. I've been told it's because I'm shy. And I am shy, but...I'm not sure if it's something else. Do you think that the fact I didn't have a boyfriend in middle school will make guys turn me down in high school? I don't want to be single forever.

okay well i can relate.. i`ve had 1 boyfriend and that was for about an hour last year..we were better off friends..anyways :)..

People in highschool aren't going to care if you have had a boyfriend or not. I'm sure that there is at LEAST one guy out there that likes you, but is shy too. Find a guy you like, and start talking to him..you only live once right :), or get an outgoing friend to talk to him and find out some stuff he likes or have her talk to him about you..But guys arent going to approach you beacuse YOUR shy, that has nothing to do with it.

Your NOT going to be single forever, and if they arent going to make the first move..then you should..what do you have to lose?
good luck sweetie!
-Tori

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i like this grl an i know u know her. im not sure that she likes me , im kinda confused, i wanna ask her out becuz i like he but maybe its just cuz lots of my friends haave grlfriends. should i ask her out???? o ya im 12 years old and im a boy..... im kinda short

well, it really shouldn't matter if all your friends have girlfriends....well, if you like her and stuff..take a shot at it..and tell me how it goes!

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ok well i like this kid and i want to be his secret admirer(sp)because i know where his locker is and everything so i want to send nots and give clues to who i am an i was thinking of staarting monday(V-day) is that a good idea??

please dont delete this it means a lot to me

i guess so, do u want him to find out its you so u can go out w; him or something?? i guess its a pretty good idea.
^^i dont know if that helped but what ever :)

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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?

umm yeah...it's okay if your older and you are 4 yrs apart no big deal..but im mean honstly..think it over

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Im 13 years old and all my friends have boyfriends. I dont and Ive never had my first kiss. I mean i saw a ten year old making out at school. Thats just wrong. But i had a boyfriend and it was my friend. Well i saw him for one day i said yes then i didnt hear from him in like a month so i guess he broke up....Ok well any advice and dont say ur day will come.

you do not..DO NOT need a bf when ur 13..and yes..i agree a 10 yr old making out is just WRONG!!!its ok if you dont have a bf..its not going to hurt you..and you definitly dont need your first kiss when ur 13..dont worry it will be fine

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Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx

yeah..its bad...cleaning it to much can damage it...still take a shower everyday...but wah your hair everyother day

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Im a gurl n im 14 n like this boy but he is a yr older then me n i dotn kno how to get to kno him..i mean we talk..n i am friends with his friends but we just started talking not too long ago n i told him that i wanted to get to kno him n i askd him wat he thought n he told me "i think we should b friends for rite now n who knows wat then"..n he askd me b4 y i dont talk to him in person rilly n i dont wanna tell him that im shy bc then he will prolly jus think im a waste of time..but all my friends tell me that he stares at me..but i am shy to talk to him..how can i handle this even tho im shy??

just tell him that you are shy...its ok! if he doesn't take that you are shy..and he DOES think that you would be a waist of time(wich he prolly won't) then he is sooo NOT worth it....hope that helped!

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