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the name is brittany..i blow the candles out on apirl 4th...and i love to give advice..im outgoing and love to have a good time..i do sports..i play soccer and basketball and cheerleading...any question then im me at usherbabygurl44
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Age: 15
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My boyfriend always wants to talk to me but he never calls me he just likes to text and talk on AIM. At first I just thought he was scared but he always does it, and I've nagged him before and I call him but he never answers I don't want to keep nagging, but I don't like wasting my texts when I could just be on the phone! (link)
well if u guys havent been going out for awhile then maybe he just wants to aviod those long awkward silences..BUT try to call him n u can talk bout how his day went.. my boyfriend always does that to me he ask me how my day went and makes me go in to detial like from the moment i opend my eyes n then from the moment i closed em..but dont worry he will tlk on the phone at some point


my friend been ask out by 3 guys and she trun them all down. she doesnt know why all sudden she became popural with the guys and i told her it just happens.
she said that she wants to wait till after college. but the more you wait the more your love life goes down the hill, right?
i dont care when someone ask me out cause i dont want to wait for the right time it just happens. (i always had feelings for her)
i ask her what kinda guy she is looking for her reply is
"no idea"
i laugh and said"no idea, so you dont know who you looking for?"
she said"nope i dont know, maybe someone funny i guess?"
(i thought to myself well i'm funny and i love to make her laugh.)
does she mean me? i told her "well i'm looking for someone who likes me who i am" she laugh and said "yeah okay if that happens" and i said "i agree with that"
(cause i'm such a hot head and i dont think someone can handle that.) but she can and i was trying to hint her that i mean her, i want someone like her.

so what you think?
was there something going on? (link)
tell her u like her cuz then there might be a something going on


theres this guy in like almost all of my classes. He flirts with me a lot and teases me, (lol i seriousely just noticed that today) but you see he has a girlfriend. So why would he be flirting with me and giving me all of this attention?? I would just like to know why? Or a better question is why do guys do that even when they know they have someone already? (link)
most guys do that cuz they think they are players or maybe they are players also some guys are dicks


my boyfriends mom hates me, and for no reason. im in 7th grade, she's hated me since 5th. even my boyfriend doesn know why. and she loves my best friend. and the other night at his modified basketball game his mom asked my firned why he was dating me and then flat out said i dont like her! ergg. so we never get to hang out. and i really love when we get to hang out. we have so much fun and stuff. but we onyl get to hangout at games like the JV games and Varisty and such, but sometimes we go like a whole MONTH [ not really that long it seems like it though ] without seeing eachother. what should we do.. cuz i really love him and if i ever went to his house [ which would nvr happen his moms physco ] id feel really uncomfortable. someone please help!!! (link)
the next time she says she doesnt like you and you hear her say that..ask her why and say i didnt do anything to you....she will either be shocked and have nothing to say..or she will tell you why
goodluck!!!!


okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on. (link)
just 4get about this guy he seems like a dick..and you dont need that..it will be hard but you can get over him and there is prolly a guy that likes you now but you just didnt see it bc you liked that other guy for so long


This guy and I have liked each other for so long and this summer was awesome we were like gf and bf and then things died out. Like every month i would phone him to see how he was and we would talk for ages and yet he wouldnt talk to me in school. So A few weeks ago i invited him over and honestley its like awesome we were all cuddly and like a couple and then he left. Then at school, ignores me and then sometimes he talks to me and he's like 'u ok?' and i've been like 'umm yeh' but he promised to take me to the cinema and he didnt and then he promised to come over on Friday and he didnt. Should I confront him, thing is if i do- i will have to be drastic and say ' Look if you care for me, if you really care, you will put effort in as a friend, otheriwse i cant see this friendship working out?' and im scared he will be like 'whatever' and not talk to me again. He said to me ' we will always be friends if not more' and he's a sincere person- im really confused. (link)
if he doesnt talk to you in school then he doesnt seem like a friend to me..i would confront him and see what happens because if u dont you could regret it or you could be missing out on something really great...he may say something you dont want to hear or he may say somthing you want to hear..but w/e he says will make you stop saying what if i said this or what if i did that


i really really like this guy, we broke up a few months ago and we've been hanging out occasionally recently because his best friend is dating my best friend. my friends say that when we hang out there is alot of a sexual tension between us. the first time we hung out after our break up was 2 weeks ago and we made out a lottttt. He's kind of a man whore and has realized it recently and says it's a bad thing. He's been acting differently lately and not flirting as much, what does this mean? should i start talking to him more? we're still friends and we still kinda flirt but idk what to do. HELP. (link)
tell him how you feel bc he might feel the same way..if you dont tell him you might regret not tellin him


In books you always read about a girl leaving
everything behind to stand strong and alone by
herself. (Anna does it in the A-List series by
throwing her phone away when Ben calls, I noticed
it in several Sarah Dessen books as well) I
recently left my best friend and my boyfriend
in a horrible situation, I wanted to see if I
could stand on my own two feet. Now, in the
books they never show how the girl moves on and
stands strong on her own. I feel so empty and
alone without my comfort people around me.
How do I go on and let the world see I can be
strong and I can live on my own two feet?
This is really important to me, but its really
hard as well. (link)
dont let them see u cry bc thats wat they prolly want you gotta let everyone know you are strong and you will make it..it is gonna be hard but you just have to think about proving everyone wrong and telling ur self that you can make it...BECAUSE YOU CAN AND YOU WILL


ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blowing in my ear and whispering things to me. now i feel really bad because it feels like i'm stabbing B in the back. now i can't get A off of my mind. i'm just really confused...what should i do? (link)
i had almost the same thing happen to me except my bestfriend wasnt going out with the guy...but she really liked him....you gotta tell ur friend...yea she will get hurt or upset but she wont be mad at u forever...when this happened with me i just told one of my friends..then my bestfriend found out bout a week later..yea we fought well i said sorry alot and she got over it that day..but you gotta tell her she is gonna findout sooner or later and its better if she finds out by you




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