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Gender: Female
Location: TX
Age: 16
Member Since: October 25, 2007
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out of nowhere my ex texted me last. i didn't even know he still had my number because i surely didn't have his. it's been 2 years since we broke up and it was a mutual decision after he found someone else. he's still with that other person. how do i respond to this? is he just trying to catch up as friends? (link)
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awkward turtle...
just text back play it cool. its not a big deal. but dont start liking him again!.. anddd since thats kinda freaky, maybe ask how he got your number lol.
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15/f i'm inexperienced at dating guys or even getting asked out and 2 days ago, this guy professed his love to me online and said that he wants me to go out with him. and he kept on flattering me and i was like whoahh, you know? too much attention.
i don't like him. he's sweet but just not my type.
i didn't know what to answer him when he asked me out, so I said i'll think about it. and now he's assuming that i meant that its a maybe. that he has every right to hug me or do stuff.
its not a maybe. its a no.
i just dont want to break his heart. he told me the last girl who rejected him broke his heart. and he gave me all this bs about how im the right one, and how he can't live without me.
and i'm like : you're kidding right?
he wasn't.
i'm really confused. how do i go about getting 'rid' of him in a nice way? i'm so new to this..
and i'm beginning to think maybe i led him on :/ (link)
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ehh if you feel bad about him, then your hopeless. you CANT feel bad lol!! if you do then youll give in to some guy you really DONT wanna even touch. just straight up tell him hes sweet, but your really not interested in dating anyone right now..
or you can tell him hes sweet, but not your type. its not that hard. just make sure you tell him kinda exactly how you feel.. and make it clear that he has NO chance or else he will keep bothering you..
and about breaking his heart.. wont happen. hes a boy.. he'll heal lol!
messageme if you have any other questions!
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me (link)
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no thats perfectly fine. it is kinda lame to go out with someone when neither of yall can drive [and you are way to young to be with someone who can drive] just take it slow.. seriously your a kid, all the guys will still be available.. and the 'omg so hott' guys.. might end up being ass ugly by the time yall are in high school.. it happened to A LOT of guys where im from.
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okay.
well there this really sweet guy whos kinda shy, whos 18 and totally hot.
but he blazes,
and i dont really know what he expects of girls to do with him when they're together, or even just chillen.
so i asked him if hes just looking to fool around with girls or a gf, and he said neither really im just single,
now what does that mean ?
and, he always txts me saying babe and cutie and stuff :)
so idk what to do.
i dont want to come on too strong,
but i want to know lmao.
all my friends say i can get whoever i want,
but idk ! :P (link)
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okay first of all, if you are 15 & under. dont bother.. if your 16+ then thats fine. if your friends say you an get anyone you want then that means your hott, right? so flirt with him, talk to him.. maybe even do stuff with him.. BUT NO SEX! dont give him that unless yall are together. you can tease him, just dont give it to him.. no matter how bad you wanna. the babe/cutie thing.. every guy does that who wants a hookup.. go ahead feel special about it.. but dont let it get to you. just flirt flirt flirt.. and talk to him. eventually he'll see that your the girl thats there with him for the time being.. and that will be when yall get together. [if you wanna speed it up then tell him you wanna be exclusive] hope that helped!
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15/f
okay so i went to the beach back in the beginning of june and i met a bunch of guys. i kissed a couple of them, but this one for some reason, over four months later now, i still think about him everyday. i go on his myspace all the time and look at pictures of him from the beach like once a week. i play over little scenarios in my head of meeting him again somehow. this is not like me at all, ITS RIDICULOUS and i get mad at myself for it cause i know im never going to see him again, he lives like 6 states away from me. ive turned down guys at school bc i cant get this guy from the beach off my head. and i know hes long forgotten about me, i havnt talked to him in a couple months. what do i do!? is this even somewhat normal!?
any advice will be appreciated, sorry if its a little long.. (link)
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kinda the same thing has happened to me, ill tell you what i ended up doing. Since he lives so far away, just talk to him on myspace. to start a convo message him and say something like. 'hey, its been a while. remember me ;]' or something short and simple like that. if he says yes then SMILE. thats a step you can skip, if he says no, dont be discouraged. kinda remind him, then see what happens. most likely, he WILL remember. then just talk, be yourself. DONT be clingy, and DONT talk to him all the time, every second of the day. that looks obsessive, and might freak him out. just be cute about it. once yall are talking you can make plans to go somewhere close to where he is for a vacation, just so you can spend more time with him. it possibly will develop. i cant tell you for sure.. bc im at the vacation planning part lol. hope this helped, feel free message me if you wanna know something else!
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What is the earliest time you can get an abortion? If fertilization happened a month or so ago, when's the soonest an abortion would be possible? (link)
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its never too early. If you go in right now they may actually give you pills to take and that will be the abortion, no surgery required. and its not a bad thing. shit happens and dumbfadfjadfj are just jealous bc there are people smart enough not to ruin their life over a fetus.
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Well this is a dumb question
neway,,Well,i like this boii rite and today it looked like he was crying, and i asked him and he told me he had allergies from the weather but i didnt really beleive him and i was like being anoying and stuff, nd wouldnt stop asking then i guesss he was anoyed but he wasnt being mea ater tht i relized i was anoying,,haha, im a real paranoid person so i was like oh my God, he might not be the same wit me.. oh my GOD he might not wanna talk to me ..etc.. lol so do you think im bein stupid and that he will talk to me ? thanks:D:D
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yeah your being retarded. Stop annoying him. thats the NUMBER one thing guys hate. just play calm, and possibly apologize for bugging him, and say something like 'i was worried about you'.. everything should go back to normal.. unless you keep bothering him.
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ok so im 15 n the guys 17...lets call him D and my ex-bf A...so I've known D for the past couple of years...we go by the same bus to school...i'm in the ninth grade and he's in the eleventh and we never used to talk a lot in the beginning cuz he used to talk to another girl on the bus a LOT*. But she left for australia in a few months and since this june he's been acting really nice to me so here's the first part of my question:
would you say he likes me:
- firstly he never talked to me before and now suddenly he's being ultra-sweet to me and sitting right next to me on the bus
- he really tries to make comversation...i mean im pretty quiet in the mornings but he keeps trying to get me to open up...he almost never gives up.
- he teases me kinda playfully about me being so quiet and pretends to forget my name all the time (he doesn't but he's just doing it to tease me) and he laughs a lot when i'm with him.
- one of the guys on my bus tried to spread a rumour about me and another guy in my grade to D but D took no notice of it and when I told him not to listen to it he heard me out and never brought it up again.
- also when the bus reaches school he always lets me walk ahead and holds doors open and stuff which i find amaaaaaaazingly cute cuz teenage guys dont really do that in our school...
now A is my boyfriend for the past three months...it turns out that A and D know each other pretty well and D thinks that A's a good guy...so D found out frm sumwhere that me n A wer going out and asked me about it and i kinda brushed it off...we dont really talk about it and at that time me n A wer going pretty strong...but now we're all broken up for the past two weeks...D hasn't heard about it yet but I'm beginning to realise i really really like him no matter how inappropriate it is to go out with someone two weeks after your break up...i really like him. so here's my second part of the question: is it too slutty too flirt with D now?
also all this while i've been really cutesy with D in a quiet sort of way...but i want to show him how loud i am around my frnds so i thought of walking past him with my friends while he was at the basketball court since i wouldnt be artificial or anything with my friends and more importantly i want mostly guys to answer this part of the question but any tips from experienced girls will also be helpful (link)
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OK, first of all you need to make sure that he's not just using you to get in your pants. Because im a junior girl, and i can tell you that half my guy friends are flirting with the freshmen to get in their pants.. something about virgins [yum]. So just make sure he's not into you for the sex. After i read this i smiled, the exact same thing happened to me. I was even a freshman when he was a jr. the touching him thing was good. soft, but firm... try not to touch in naughty places quite yet. rest your arm on his arm/hand... maybe he'll grab your hand and hold it. the fact that D knows A, isnt that big of a deal unless this A guy is like IN LOVE with you. D's a guy and all guys know that once you and your bf are over, its fair game... i dont know what all yall talk about, but try to get personal. and even start suggesting that yall hang out sometime. if hes into you.. he'll go for it and youll get that kiss & maybe more at the party. hope this kinda helped you out. no one can give you PERFECT advice on things like this.. do what your body tells you to. and NEVER ignore it, or else youve just made a mistake.
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