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i love my boyfriend so much and he says he loves me but we barly talk maybe its because we live far apart i dont know. what should i do? (link)
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i know all these answers may sound the same to you but that is all you can do. it is hard to keep a distance relationship all peachy and stuff as your not always together but im sure that if he says he loves you and you love him things will work out. no matter how cheesy this sounds i really believe in the saying, love will always find a way and if this is the case then im sure you two will sort stuff out. good luck :)
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Ok i have a boyfriend and this is a long distance relationship!he lives in iowa and i live in minnesota. so we are about 6 hours away from each other. We resently havent talked for almost two weeks and i know it doesnt seem long. i know its hard for him to get on with sports and homework and stuff and i understand that but i dont know if he doesnt want to talk to me or if he even likes me anymore.i love him so much and he says he loves me too but i just dont know what to do. am i just freaking out for no reason or what? can you please help me i have no clue of what to think or how to talk about this with him. ~Thanks~ (link)
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ok, i am in a similer position to you which is why i have decided to try an help you, my boyfriend lives in the canary islands and i live in scotland so we are about 4 hours away on the plane and for about a week he just stopped texting me, i texted him everyday for about a week and he never texted me back. (he eventually texted me to say sorry he isnt good at texting back) its a horrible feeling i know. you havent said how long you have been going out. if its a while then i think you should just call him and ask straight out. you have a right to know. you arnt going to spend your life waiting for him to call, wondering if he still likes you. if he sounds distant then im afraid you should just leave him find someone who will love you and wont just drop you when he feels like it. no one deserves that. hope this helps good luck :)
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here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i dont know if im ready to go that far with him. what do i do? someone please help me out. (link)
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does this guy really have a girlfriend or not? and if you dont know you should find out. this will depend on the answer. if he does have a girlfriend then im afraid you should stay well clear telling him how you feel is acceptable but you musnt make a move. if he doesnt have a girlfriend then its up to you to decide if you want to be his girlfriend or not if he said he had a girlfriend just to make you jealous then he may like you, and was maybe testing you to see what your reaction would be. good luck hope this helps! :)
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my gf and i have been together for nearly 2 and a half years, she cheated on me with a guy from her school and lied to my face about her flirting and teasing and getting with him when i knew what was going on,
she would not tell me the truth till i forced her to by providing evidence that i knew she had. i logged a few of her chats to find out the truth and she was slagging me off to him and flirting with him still after she promised me nothing was going on, i love her more than anything, but trust is something a relationship needs otherwise u have nothing.. what should i do? Thanks (link)
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this is a hard one as you have been together for so long. but to be honest she lied to you, cheated on you, talked about you then lied again, the odds arnt looking too good. do you still feel as though you could trust her? for example if hse went away on a holiday or on a night out would you be constantly worrying she was cheating on you? she may love you too but she has alot of growing up to do and needs to realise the true quality of trust which is what a relationship needs to work. ask your self these things. but also remember that once a cheater, usually, always a cheater. hope this helps! :)
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i am 15 years old and i really like a boy in my class i am his friend and have been his friend for ages i dont know if he likes me should i tell him (link)
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if he is your friend then he should understand how you feel, although at 15 you must understand that some boys can be immature about this kind of thing, and are sometimes worried their mates will take the mick out of them . as you are already his friend make the effort of going out with him more and try dropping subtle hints that you like him and see what his reactions are then i think you will know for yourself what to do. hope this helps! :)
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