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E-mail: kewlmandew@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: lancaster, PA
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: ssnwman7
Member Since: August 22, 2004
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Last Update: September 15, 2004
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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hey man there is nothing wrong with you.do you know some people even choose not to kiss till they are married or about to get married. its ok your only 14 you have your whole life. its really nothing to worry about i have only kissed like 4 girls and i am only 17 don't worry about it. everything will be cool your life doesn't revolve around kissing girls.
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Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
signed,
stressed out! (link)
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hey its ok, you just need to chill and talk to these kids and maybe talk to the kid that likes you and tell him to stop having his friends harass you b/c if he does like you he will make them stop and just tell them nicely that you are not in to him or hes just not for you or something.
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Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough. (link)
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hey i know what its like i never dated anyone from my school and was always worried about that make sure she knows that you are intrested and suprise her make her feel special like no one else can theres no real way to stop them from hitting on her but as long as you keep it intersting between you to everything will go ok send her flowers or write her letters make her feel wanted and every thing will be ok.
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i am definitely not the hottest guy in the group (lil helpful info) i am very funny, great personallity, friend to all, some call me a super hero :) i am always good at giving advice...but this is 1 thing i cant figure out = /. if you have any helpful ideas they would be greatly appreciated. i am a 14/m (link)
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hey bud here a guys point of view i am just like you except i am 17 a little older i used to have trouble with girls likeing me because i wasn't that hottest guy and i am still not but i have a girl friend and she is wounderful she may not be the most beautiful girl in the world but she is to me and thats all that matters. and its true if you like a girl try flirting with her it took me a month before i asked out my girlfriend but it was worth it. all you have to do is be your self and someone will like you for who you are. why would you want someone that likes you for how you look then you might not have anything in commen and you end up breaking up. and i am sure there is a girl just waiting for the right moment to let you know that they like you they are just shy.
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Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!) (link)
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well you don't have to listen to this but i am 17 and i know what its like to be in love like that and well one night i aalmost made the mistake of giving my virginity away to someone i thought i loved and still do but it never really worked out between us because you can't always control what happens so now me and this girl are just friends. but best friends and i still love her but i had the chance because i think it is better if you save yourself for the one that is going to marry you because then you know its true love and you know that he won't be using you and it also depends how old you are. you may really love this boy ,but it just may not be right you can only lose your virinity once and once you lose it and if you and this boy never talk again it won't be as special with you husband. your brother isn't totally right you won't be a whore if you do it. and if you do decide to do it make sure that you take all the right moves to stay safe from pregnancy and diseases and if you want to talk more then just write in my column
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