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My boyfriend and me live right down the street from each other and we spend ALOT of time together. Well all of a sudden thier MOVING 35 to 40 minutes away! OMG im freaking out and i dont know if i should stay with him and see how things go or what?!?!

my boyfriend lives 45 minutes away. we've only been dating for a month but we try to see each other at least once a week. it helps if the both of you can drive so then you would be able to see each other. I guess all I can say is to try it & see how it goes...and if it doesn't get any better, you guys might have to break up.

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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again?

I don't think there's really a whole lot you can do to change his mind again. But if you really want to try to get him to like you again, don't rush into things because that will just scare him away even more.

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Ok so heres the story, me n my bf broke up like over 7 months ago. I know its sad but I'm still in love with him and cant come over the fact that I'm not the love of his life anymore. See we dated for over 9 months and he even asked me to marry him and gave me a ring...this guy had me believe we actually were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. I went away for the summer and we still talked none-stop and then he started talking to his ex gf and he started having feelings for her again and so we "took a break" then somehow it turned into a break up. I dont know what I did wrong, and now we barly talk and he says hes in love with someother girl who already has a bf and doesnt love him back...I dont understand, he knows I still love him , or I least I hope he does, so he knows that if he ever feels alone I'll be here. But she doesnt love him so why cant he just stop trying so hard on here and give me another chance. I'm a different person now I have friends now and I do everything with them, not like when we dated I only had him and so we did everything together, but now I just want another chance. Is this bad for me thinking that I'm still in love with a guy that treats me like crap? Is it bad I cry about 3 times a day and probably cry about 4 out of the 7 days? Should I like see a shrink or somthing? Please help

Ooo, this is tough. I know what you are going through because I'm kind of going through the same thing. But I know that we aren't ever going to get back together because we've been broken up for 7 months also but we've both changed & don't have the same interests anymore. I think since you guys haven't been together for 7 months, it would be hard to get back together because you both have changed & maybe have different interests than you did when you guys were still going out. You definitely shouldn't see a shrink but maybe you could try being friends with him again. Maybe you guys could pick up where you left off because he's not magically going to fall in love with you right away.

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How do i move on? i broke up with my boyfriend because i was pissssed off at him cuz i found out shit about him that he didnt tell me himself. He was trying to get back with me but i didnt want to even though i still have feelings for him. Now we dont talk and i want him back!!! but i cant, so how do i move on? what are things that i can do to heal my broken heart?

I've just been going through the same thing. Honestly, your better off without him. If he's been doing stuff behind your back & not telling you about it, thats just wrong. Hm...to heal your broken heart, just start doing things you enjoy & don't dwell about your break-up with him. There are other guys out there who will treat you better.

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