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Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.

P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?

take some time. us girls dont like to be forced opened and its definatly a turn off. *HINT HINT- DONT !!* if she likes you, she will tell you at one point. if you push her, chances are she wont even tell you in the end. for a good date ?? try the mall or movies. ask her about what shes into and ect.

hope i was of help.

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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!!

stay away from this man. and when i say man, i mean man. he does not sound like the person to be around. believe me, looks are decieving. you need to move on. he sounds like a 'player' who may give you the time of your life once and then just leave you.

hope i was of help.

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15.f.ma Ok .. well .. i kinda have a problem .. well i guess every girl wants attention .. from a guy.. well.. i have the attention of.. four guys.. four different ages.. each of them very cute.. i flirt with them .. each.. and i think im getting to attatched .. i really have no clue what to do .. one of the guys is gone all summer to his dads in Virgina Beach.. but we talk online all the time..and the other 3 live near me.. i hang out with all of them .. but i dont no what to do.. im afraid that i might be leading them on .. and i dont wanna do that what should i try??

x0xoKerry

spend time with easy guy and decide who you think is the most friendly, most humorous, ect. choose which one you think is the most well rounded of the 4 (i dont mean fat) as for the other 3 boys- try letting them down easy. no boy (or anyone for that matter) wants to be told off head on.

hope i was of some help. =)

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Ive been with the same guy for what soon will be 5 years, and i love him with all my heart, he is my first love and i think im his first love too, ive given my all to him, but sometimes i feel he takes me for granted..theirs points were i cant stop crying, cuz its so hard, but truly hes the only one i have, im so in love and so scared to let go yet being with him is driving me crazy and i just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!! i feel stuck because im so scared of being without him yet it hurts at the same time being with someone who wont commit with me and who will ignore me at times...AHHHH (im 22)

im so sorry to hear that. =(

it sounds to me that you need to leave this love relationship far far behind. send this man a letter stating that you need a real love in your life and someone who can commit to you. being without him in the end will possibly work out better than being with him. try staying friends and keep in touch.

hope i helped. =S

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Well,this guy i really like asked me out and i like him soo much no one will ever understand but hes dating one of my friends and i don't want her mad at me ! and my BEST friends older sister dated him too and now my best friends whole family is going to hate me !! And my best friends older sister is gonna wanna beat me up !! im soo scared please help !! i really like this guy and i need to get over my ex so what do i do ?
THANKS

hmm .. to start, you need to tell this boy that (no matter how much you like him) it is wrong that he is going out with your best friend and then coming along and asking you out. if you accept there will be trouble with your best friend and her family. if you do NOT accept then you will still have your friend and but you will not have the boy. my advice ?? i would say turn him down, but stay friends with him. remember to never evr drop your girls for a boy, no matter what. when you turn him down be sure to tell him you want to stay friends with him. if you dont, he may never get that impression and the chances of him asking you out will me slimmer. hope i was of help ! =)

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