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well, im 13 (almost 14)yrs old, im 5'8", i have brown hair w/ light brown highlights and green eyes, um ya... thats about it.

so, quit reading this and ask me a question!!
-erin


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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and some of you may noe that...

if this boy means this much to you then you should tell him that the things that he's doing are bothering you so much. if he really cares about you too, he'll stop (or at least try to). if he doesn't stop when you ask him to, and it really bothers you, then you should probably break up with him. i no that it might be really hard because you really do care about him, but i think it would be the right thing to do. i hope i helped and everything works out fine.
-erin

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what are some good ways to let a guy know you're interested? or some good ways to flirt?

i really like this guy, but i may need to step my flirting skills up a few notches, so any help you all could offer would be great!

just go up and start talking to him... make sure that you smile so he knows that you're happy to be talkin w/ him. to get the conversation started, do something like complement him on his shirt or something like that.
-erin

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(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

Signed-
Just Wondering

of course you can get him a present!!
it would be really sweet of you and it wouldnt be weird at all. just get him something that he is interested in or something that shows him how much you care.
-erin

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ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks.

make sure that he feels comfortable around you
if he feels like you/friends are pushing him to kiss you, he probably gets nervous about doing it. so just make sure that hes not being pressured to kiss you, and it will happen naturally on its own.

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Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!)

i think that if you both like each other, you should go out. you dont have to be big on p.d.a.
the only other advice that i can give is that if you do go out, make sure that you will still be friends if you might break up some time.
-erin

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i hav a bf..had a for kind of a while now. but thi year i started liking one of my best guy friends. like..i like him ALOT. i like my bf too of course. everyone basically likes my bf and everything..and just a little while ago i started to realize how much id give up if i lost my bf. the problem is...i dont want to giv him up cuz ik id regret it...but i really like my friend. he used to like me alot..idk if he still does, becuz he nos i hav a bf and now i heard he likes me and this other girl. he might go out with her, and that wud suck if i dumped my bf then he had a gf. im just so confused..idk what to do. this might be confusing but i was wondering if u cud help me out. thanks

im not sure that going out w/ your best friend is a good idea. if hes a really good friend of yours you might not want to rist losing him as a friend if you break up.
i guess that your decision should be based on which guy you like the most. just make sure that you look @ all the positives and negatives of dating either guy.

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k im 15 and ive kissed but never made out b4 yes sad i know. anyways i was wondering, exactly how do u do it? and am i the only 15 year old who hasn't?

your not the only 15 year old who hasn't... my best friend is now 16 and she still hasnt made out w/ a guy. if you are the same way that she is, then you probably want to wait for the right guy to share that experience with... there's nothing wrong with that.

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-- Yea wll Hey.... I have a friend that likes this guy, but i just found out that I like him to. Well actually I'm not sure that she likes him cause she was saying some shallow things why she doesnt want to go with him. And he is all confused and said he lost interest in her. But then he was upset when i told him he didnt like her. But then he starts flirting with me ... and out of no where he goes and asks me do i like him.. well i go,Yea....As a friend....I want to tell him so so so so bad that I like him but I am afraid of rejection, im afraid i might hurt my friends feelings if he really likes me and we go out and crap, & also im afraid .. well im basicly afraid of rejection...this year really isnt so great and i just want someone or something to hold onto and to care for....and i really care for this guy...
So what should i do??? .. Should i tell him how i feel... or what... cause ..idk... I dont want to get rejected... But if i do tell him.. how do i tell him??
---Signed ~Confused Heart~

well, if he asked you if you liked him, then that probably means that he likes you...
i think that you should tell him how you feel about him. you mite also wanna ask your friend if she is ok with you two goin out if you do decide to do that.
-erin

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well heres the story...my friend went out with this guy and then they broke up so we went out but they still liked each other so he dumped me and went out with her...i mean i know i should be supportive and all but i feel horrible...i love him....and he just kinda left me...and so about 5 mins after he dumps me he asks her out and to make a long story short their going out....but i want to tell her that i still love him but shell take it the wrong way and wont understand....and he would never let me tell anyone when we went out...another reason i think he was ashamed of me....i cant get over him....everything thing i look at makes me think of him and how happy he made me....but i guess i have no choice because im old news now...i think i was just rebound action....*sigh* this is so complicated...

Amanda (icabluesponge)

IM me when you get this...bye

hey amanda!!!!!
maybe you should tell your friend how much you like this guy b/c if you dont tell her, she'll never know. & think about this...
if he USED YOU on the rebound... he isnt good enough 4 u!
-erin-
feel better por favor!

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okay .. well there is this kid and hes in my geometry class..that's how i met him and i'm a freshmen and he's a sophmore - well we sit next to each other in class and as the days went on we began to talk to each other and he always will take my pens/pencils/purse/book/notebook and not give it back . or if i'm doing work hell scribble all over my paper - after a while he started tlking to me in the halls ramming me in walls er lockers in a playful way - well, i think that i like him and i don't know if he does or how i can find out .. like it seems like it does and a couple people said they tihnk he does .. but i dunno if it's jst his personality .. so i wanna know how i can find out .. please help *i'll rate *

i think that this boy has a thing for you. Doing those things are just his way of flirting. I think that you should tell him that you like him and ask him if he feels the same way.

& im in geometry this year 2 so if you can... hit me up w/ some study help lol :) I hope i helped!

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theres this one guy who goes to my skewl and sits right in front of me in one of my classes.. he is soo adorable but i like him mostly cuz his personality u kno? but i flirt wit him alot and he does the same... but i dont think he likes me the way i like him. whenever i see him talk to other girls or like flirt wit otha girls in the class i get really mad. not just at him but mostly at myself fur likin him and not sayin anything. he doesnt realize how much he hurts inside tho.. what should i do?

i personally think that you should tell the boy how much you like him. He'll never know if you don't tell him! So just go for it! :)

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