I'm 14 and have a awesome boyfriend but no one in my famaily aprove of him because he's emo and stuff I'm ALSO emo so if u don't like me don't talk 2 me k I'm not on here 2 fight I'm here 2 get my qestions answered and 2 help ppl if ANYTHING is bugging u come talk 2 me I'm a emo so I understand a lot of sad and depressing things but my down fall is does he/she like me kind of thing so yeah I'm here 4 u if u need me
E-mail: destinydickens@tmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: cailfornia
Occupation: vampire lover
Age: 14
Member Since: October 25, 2007
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Last Update: August 7, 2008
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please help me i dont get her at allllll!?. i guess i kinda like this girl. im 13 in 7th grade shes 14 in 8th. were in catholic school. im very mature im just the kind of guy she would like but why doesnt she? same music same style. shes so hott she thinks shes ugly. she dresses all gothic and emo. shes the funnest girl youd ever meet but then she ends up so depressed and mad. ive been to great skate and kinda stayed with her once she thinks im hott but she dont like me she likes a dork. shes just soooo cute. she doesnt try and follow everyone like everyother girl at my school. she trys to stand out she tells the robots as she calls them to just fuck off. she does what she wants and it works. she says she only likes this one guy who at the moments i hate to much but i dont even know him they are always with eachother their like their best friends. she loves the same music i like and more. she plays electric guitar. loves photography and is so good as im told. she sings so good. her favorite bands are marilyn manson and evanescence. she loves partying. i doubt she even knows i know all this about her. i doubt she knows my name. she says im a player tho. i have a girlfriend but i still like her and she said she never wasted her time. shes just the girl of my dreams but this years almost over and she might move shes goin to highschool maybe down to mexico. i just dont know what to do!!! just please help me! i can go on and on about her but i wont. i dont know how to talk to her shes always talking to other guys im never with her. (link)
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Umm wow your kinda going through what I am, love is very painful, I had my heart broken 17 times. Let me see what I can do...........well if u try and talk 2 her about stuff that u guys have in commen and tell her you broke up with your girlfriend so she doesn't think your a "player"
Love is war isn't it
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14/f
he's 16/m
we've been going out since october 13th..
things have been great
no fights, no drama, nothing
but this past week, i found out he smokes
i've told him before i have zero respect for those who smoke
because my dad died of lung cancer
from smoking
i told him i cared for him too much to see him kill himself like this
and since then
he's been so rude to me
he told me he only smokes when he's at work, on his break
so every time he goes on his break,
he'll text me and say "i'm on break guess what i'm doing?"
and of course i'll say "smoking."
and he aggrivates me on purpose...
i like him so much and i don't want to let him go
he's an amazing boyfriend
but i don't appreciate him being so mean to me
and also, he works with this girl, amanda
she's always saying how much she wants to do him and stuff
and he just texted me a few minutes ago
saying "i have good news"
so i said.. "what?"
and he said "amanda's going to indy with me after i get off!"
(his brother's in the hospital and he's supposed to go see him)
i don't know what to do here
he's never been so mean to me
it's like ever since i found out he smoked,
he's been in a bad mood
please help me
i don't know what to do.. (link)
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My boyfriend smokes and drinks I don't like it either and I don't want 2 see him kill him self so I told him if he was going 2 smoke and stuff 2 not do it around me
And about that girl amanda he's probley just trying 2 get you jeaous I would sit him down and talk 2 him about tell him that it hurts you and how you feel ok
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Okay, i know this is going to sound really freaky and crazy, but i think my dog likes me. NO dont go away. listen, hes always humping my leg, and climbing into bed with me. last night, i saw him naked!
what do i do?! i don't think i like him back!
Im like really serious too, dont laugh at me!
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My dog humps me too its nothing new
boy dogs are horney ALL the time and how can a dog get naked when they don't wear anything unless put a little dog shirt on him lol your losing it girl
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this can be a really long story, so i'll try my best to shorten it
i've had the most PERFECT boyfriend for the past year and 4 months of my life. seriously, he is the best guy ever. before he met me, he was kind of bad and didn't really care about anyone or anything, except for his mom. but he really liked me so much, that he was willing to change for me.. and he did! his bad temper went away, and only came out again if he got really mad. now whenever we get into a fight, it usually ends up with one of us breaking up with the other one and then eventually crying and getting back together. :) haha. but anyway, this past thursday (today's saturday) my dog got hit by a car and needed surgery on her hip, which she had and is now recovering from. my family was obviously very stressed out and upset about this, so i had been crying to my boyfriend about it a little.. and he got a little upset with me for always crying to him (which i'll admit, i do that alot.. and i didn't realize until today that he has stress too.. and it can't always be about me.) so i got mad and broke up with him because i didn't feel like he cared about me and stuff (again, i didn't realize he has stress too) so he was calling me back, being stranger than ever! whenever something like this would happen in the past, he'd call me back crying and wanting me back all sweet and baby i love you and stuff.. this time, he called me back to say 'tell your mom i said thanks for the condoms cause i might need them tonight' cause he told me some girl who likes him was coming over and stuff.. then he went on to call me back and ask if i wanted to talk to her and i said sure cause i know she's not there. and he said yeah she is but she can't talk she has something in her mouth. i got so upset because even though i knew he was lying (which he was) it still hurt that he would say that to me! he was my first EVERYTHING and i still can't fathom how he would say such a thing to me. he called me back later in the night crying saying how sorry he was and he was just mad cause he didn't wanna lose me and this time he knew that he really was.. all the other times he knew it wasn't over but this time he thought it really was forever. and he wanted to talk to my mom.. they're really close. and he apologized to her crying because he loves me so much and he really didn't mean to hurt me so bad and all this stuff.. and my mom knows he's sorry because she knows him.. this was SOOOO out of character for him. he seriously NEVER did anything even close to this to me before. EVER. i can't even explain it, you'll just have to believe me. but my dad, he's the tough one.. and basically, i just wanna know how to make him warm back up to him and realize that everyone deserves a second chance.. maybe not now, but in a couple weeks or so. idk i just really don't want me dad to be holding me back from what i think i should do. this boy means the entire world to me.. i don't wanna lose him as a friend or at all for that matter. i know he's sorry and it will heal over time, but what do i do about my dad!??
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR ANYONE WHO READ THIS ♥ I LOVE YOU!!! (link)
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I know how you feel me and my bf do this to but we never brake up we just tell each other we need our space and we give it to each other but when we need to cry we both cry togather so no ones hurt because if one of us is sad even were both sad we feel each others pain and happyness that's why they call them our other halfs lol so you both should talk and say that you won't brake up unless you Aren't GETTING BACK TOGATHER ok if your not then cry with each other ok
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i like this kid a lot and whenever we talk it's interesting and he's really open and sweet and i know he's been hurt in a relationship before. now he doesn't really want a relationship because of the history with his last one but i still want to talk to him and get to know him and for him to get to know me but i've run out of conversation starters and topics in general. we're in 2 classes together but talking about school never starts a deep conversation.
he doesn't do sports so don't say that please. like i said he's really open about stuff when we talk but it's hard to find topics that he'd be interested in talking about. also i don't want to talk to him in the way that he'd think of me as "one of the guys" or just a friend because eventually after he gets over this no relationships, lets be single thing i'd really really really REALLY like to go out with him. i've liked many guys before but this is the first guy in 2 years that i've gotten butterflies over when i think about him so i really need help. (link)
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If you like him you should just tell him say that if he ever needs help "your there for him" and if he's ever lonely or just wants to talk give him your number
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My boyfriend is alot like me and we click really well. We call eachother on the phone almost every night but the thing is that he is really shy. My last boyfriend kissed me and held my hand. My before now never even hugs me. I want him to hold my hand and maybe kiss me but I don't know how to tell him or give him signs. Also sometimes he is really inconsiderate. Like I got my hair and makeup done and bought a new dress for this dance and told him about it. I told him I would like him to go. The next day I asked him if he was going and he said yeah his parents were making him go. It hurt my feelings because I was going to take time to look pretty and he didn't even care if he went or not. It seems like he would want to go because I would be going!!!!! BUT NO!!!!!! also he flirts with girls right in front of my face and he acts like I am not there!!!!!!!!!
He really is a great guy but I need to know how to give him signs to be less shy and more considerate. I really want to kiss or hold hands and he is taking way to long. I want him to make the first move because I believe that guys should do it first. (link)
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HEY, If he's shy and you don't know what to do to get him to kiss or hold your hand why don't you just kiss him and hold his hand that way soon he will get over his shyness and know that you love him he might stop flirting with other girls because then he'll know he can kiss you @ first he probley didn't know if he should because he might have thought that you didn't want to so he didn't do it that's why YOU need to kiss and hold his hand
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