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perfect boyfriend...?
this can be a really long story, so i'll try my best to shorten it
i've had the most PERFECT boyfriend for the past year and 4 months of my life. seriously, he is the best guy ever. before he met me, he was kind of bad and didn't really care about anyone or anything, except for his mom. but he really liked me so much, that he was willing to change for me.. and he did! his bad temper went away, and only came out again if he got really mad. now whenever we get into a fight, it usually ends up with one of us breaking up with the other one and then eventually crying and getting back together. :) haha. but anyway, this past thursday (today's saturday) my dog got hit by a car and needed surgery on her hip, which she had and is now recovering from. my family was obviously very stressed out and upset about this, so i had been crying to my boyfriend about it a little.. and he got a little upset with me for always crying to him (which i'll admit, i do that alot.. and i didn't realize until today that he has stress too.. and it can't always be about me.) so i got mad and broke up with him because i didn't feel like he cared about me and stuff (again, i didn't realize he has stress too) so he was calling me back, being stranger than ever! whenever something like this would happen in the past, he'd call me back crying and wanting me back all sweet and baby i love you and stuff.. this time, he called me back to say 'tell your mom i said thanks for the condoms cause i might need them tonight' cause he told me some girl who likes him was coming over and stuff.. then he went on to call me back and ask if i wanted to talk to her and i said sure cause i know she's not there. and he said yeah she is but she can't talk she has something in her mouth. i got so upset because even though i knew he was lying (which he was) it still hurt that he would say that to me! he was my first EVERYTHING and i still can't fathom how he would say such a thing to me. he called me back later in the night crying saying how sorry he was and he was just mad cause he didn't wanna lose me and this time he knew that he really was.. all the other times he knew it wasn't over but this time he thought it really was forever. and he wanted to talk to my mom.. they're really close. and he apologized to her crying because he loves me so much and he really didn't mean to hurt me so bad and all this stuff.. and my mom knows he's sorry because she knows him.. this was SOOOO out of character for him. he seriously NEVER did anything even close to this to me before. EVER. i can't even explain it, you'll just have to believe me. but my dad, he's the tough one.. and basically, i just wanna know how to make him warm back up to him and realize that everyone deserves a second chance.. maybe not now, but in a couple weeks or so. idk i just really don't want me dad to be holding me back from what i think i should do. this boy means the entire world to me.. i don't wanna lose him as a friend or at all for that matter. i know he's sorry and it will heal over time, but what do i do about my dad!??
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR ANYONE WHO READ THIS ♥ I LOVE YOU!!!
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I know how you feel me and my bf do this to but we never brake up we just tell each other we need our space and we give it to each other but when we need to cry we both cry togather so no ones hurt because if one of us is sad even were both sad we feel each others pain and happyness that's why they call them our other halfs lol so you both should talk and say that you won't brake up unless you Aren't GETTING BACK TOGATHER ok if your not then cry with each other ok
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well this is just me but (i don't do anything my parents tell me haha) but um... mayb he will grow to like hhim over time no matter how long it takes if u love each other as much as you do your dad should grow 2 like him 2
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