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I'm honest, out-spoken, open-minded; whatever you would like to call it. Some people say its being a bitch; save it, I dont want to hear it. I will answer your questions with truthfully. If I hurt your feelings; I'm sorry. But please try to understand I am just being honest. I don't like when people aren't themselves only because they're trying to "fit in". This world starves for some originality. I've been through things; so I can try to relate to whatever. I can see things through other peoples eyes; so I will try to help any way I can. =]ABOUT ME: Hi! The name's Emily; I have a lot of nicknames though, lol. I'm 14, and a freshman. I'm just having fun in life; it's kinda my thing. You only live once, right? So I'm intend to live it to its fullest! I love to meet new people; it's like finding money! Friends, brothers + music are my life; they pick me up when I'm down. I'm short and quorky; I love it. I make wierd faces; I sing and dance anywhere. So what? I don't get embarressed anymore; natrually because I've too many embarressing things and its a waste of time. I don't care what anyone says about me; I find it funny. I'm clumsy; I'm always falling for something. I'm always cold too; it's annoying and wierd. I wear a bow in my hair almost everyday; I'm sorta known for it, lol. The little things mean the most. I'm way far from perfect; and I wouldn't want it any other way. I make mistakes; everyday. I learn from my mistakes, so I think of them as a good thing. I'm incredebly ticklish; but I secretly love it =]. I want to make sometimes of myself; and I will. I'm going to open up my own cafe; its my dream job and I'll do it some how.
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ok well i'm my boyfriends 1st girlfriend and he's not my first but the only on i actally cared about and & none of us never tongue kissed before ... like he tries 2 but i break a way cusz i feel like i dont know wat i'm doiing becuase i dont!!!!
all we do is tap and yeah i want 2 go deeper and us tounge but i dont kno how??? & our friendsz keep asking if we did it yet and itsz so embarrising 2 saii no since i really want to. so how do u tounge kiss?????
www.wikihow.com. and then go to make-out. it has tips and what to do. But like the others said, you really have to be relaxed, like sleeping, you can't sleep if you're nervous and stressed.
me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months i'm 16 he's 17 and we've done everything....but lately he's been acting weird....sometimes when we hang out he is amazing but last night we were with my best friend and her boyfriend watching a movie and he was being sooooo weird most of the time he was high and i know that but idk if that really changes anything...he has cheated on me 2 time possible three...the last time he doesn't know if he did or not cause he was drunk...blacked out drunk....but last night i went to look at his phone and he had deleated his call log..and he recently changed his password so i can't get on his myspace...can anyone give me any insight on what is happening in this relationship? and can anyone give me any advice on what to do with those sercumstances?
ohhhh p.s. yesterday is the last time he could smoke weed cause his parents caught him saturday when he came home high..
He's probably cheating on you. Thats what it seems like to me. And he might find another way to smoke. But you need to talk to him, when hes acting amazing like you said. But not when hes drunk or anything. But it deffently seems like hes hiding something from you.
okay so im in 10th grade mi a size 3 and b bra
and all the older guys tell me im just so sexy and stuff like that but i just don't understand why they wont try and getting w/ me its like
if im so hot then why not try getting w/ me
and how can i get hot and sexy for them but w/o not being slutty??
or more of what am i trying to saying is how can i get a good boyfriend??
I asked my guy friend and he said; Guys won't just walk up to you and try to get with you, you have to talk to them. Be flirty, but not too much. Don't make it obvious. Playing hard to get works sometimes too, only with certain guys though.
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my parents won't let me have a boyfriend only because they didnt date people until they were in college. i know they want to protect me but this is really bothering me because everyone else is going off and having fun with there boyfriends when i can't have one.
so does anybody know any things i could persuade them with? i dont want to bring it up like I WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. i just want it to kind of..come into the conversation. if you know what i mean, but any help is fine. THANKS IN ADVANCE!
When I was that age, my parents were the same way. I got a boyfriend that my parents liked, and they met him and his family. That changed their mind. You have to prove to them that you're not stupid and you're not going to let guys walk all over you. Another way is to go on group dates with one of your friends, it makes parents feel more comfortable with it.
I go to a very small high school (100 people)and I'm know as a very quiet, shy person. Usually I'm reading or doing my classwork and not really talking to anyone. I'm probably crazy but I think a very popular, sort of punk rock boy likes me. He always sits very close to me on the bus and in class (not right next to me) and I catch him looking at me from the other side of the room quite a bit. I like him a lot but I'm not really sure what to do. I'm very shy and it would be very awkward for me to just go up and start talking to him. How do I find out if he really likes me? And how do I very subtly let him know that I like him?
If hes looking at you, he probably has an attraction for you, so you're pritty much in to talk to him. Sit next to him on the bus and talk to him about stuff going on in class, just to strike up a conversation. Maybe even ask him for help on it. Then that will lead to talking more, and being friends, and probably more! But it wouldn't be awkward, just go up and say "hi, whats up?" or something like that. Like I said, you're basically "in". Good luck!
okay.. so im a varsity basketball cheerleader and theres this guy whos a varsity basketball player. well the first time i saw him i thought he was hot.. i didnt really know it at the time but i couldnt stop staring at him and when i had to take my players there stuff on the bus i got nervous around him. well ive never even talked to him--ever!! the only way weve interacted is i asked where one of my players was and he kindof blurted "hes over there" and i said thanks of course and thats it. well usually im shy unless i get to know someone and until i say something to them its so hard to talk to someoone. its like its a barrier. well only one of my friend knows. you see- im a freshmen and hes a junior. he has an older bro whos a senior and hes also on the basketball team. well the one friend who knows doesnt like his older bro. but i know this sounds weird or stalkerish but i had this dream about him. and for some reason 2 of 3 of my captains were in it and one used to talk to him (in real life) (but nothing ever happened)and she doesnt anymore but (in the dream) they were like ugh i cant believe shes with him and all this stuff. well another one of my friends used to talk to his older bro. well to get to the advice part -- idk what to do.. i really want to talk to him but i get really nervous and i dont know what to say. i kindof want to see what my friend who used to talk to his bro says about it but im afraid that it will get back to him.. so what should i do about this?? i really need your advice!!! please answer ASAP!!!!
Just ask your friend, if she is your friend, she won't tell, and it won't get back to him. If you're nervous around all guys, start talking to ones that don't matter so you can get comfortable. just be yourself around him, just a little flirty. Good Luck!
this guy just moved to my skool from oklahoma adn he is way hott, i meet him today and i was talkin to my friend and was like damn hes sexi, and he overheard, and was like ¡wat! but he was happy bout it cuz i could tell he was interested. later on the bus my other friend said she saw me talkin to him at skool and said that hes a man-hoe. i know its bad but like that made him so much hotter to me cuz i love sex, not only was he a man-hoe but hes also goth adn thats even better its like hes my perfect man. cept he dont want a girlfriend he'll only screw you. i really like him, even though i only meet him for like a minute, wat should i do?
If he's in one of your classes or something, start talking to him more. Get his number, chill with him after school. Its fun to go to the movies, but if you want to get to know him, go other places where you have to talk. He may say that he doesnt want a girlfriend, but you can always be the one to change his mind!
i just got a new boyfriend (my first)..and we've been together for two days (lol) and i really really really like him. we were holding and caressing each other's hands today, and he told me "kiss meee"...and i was kinda shy...so i turned away and didnt kiss him....now im afraid he doesnt like me anymore :( even though i know he does..lol...since i'm new to having a boyfriend..these little things get to me easily :/ what can I do?
well, if you turned away cause you don't feel ready to kiss him, thats completely fine.. and normal. You've only been together for two days. But if you want to then next time you're with him, kiss him; out of no where! It will surprise him in a very good way. haha.
I'm in love with my boyfriend. He's amazing. He really likes me, too.
But he's so high maintenance.
I'm sixteen. I don't have my license yet, and the possibility of me getting it sometime soon is very slim. He's not exactly thrilled with this situation. In fact, he's actually been fairly rude about it. He just gets upset about things easily.
So last night I was at my friend's house; my best friend drove me there and we were all just hanging out. My boyfriend texts me and asks me if I want to go to his house, and I tell him to just come over. He replies that he can't because he's been out and came home late the past 4 nights... (which a couple of times were my fault because we were hanging out) and tells me that he isn't even getting home until ten.
My curfew is 10:30. So I said "If you won't get home till ten, why would I go?"
I don't know if that was a mean thing to say or something. But he got upset and hurt about it and I guess I can see why.
It's like. he's the one that always has to drive to me. It's up to him whether or not we even see each other. And I'm not exactly worth all the trouble. I know that to him it just feels really unfair, but I can't really do anything about it. Like honestly.
But he's always been pretty easy to upset. About little things that I'm hoping most people wouldn't think twice about. Like if I don't talk to him for a day. I think he's pretty insecure.
It's just. I care so much about him. I really. I don't know what to do. I'm turning into a whimp who takes a ton of shit from him and apologizes for nothing, all because I like him so much. I want him to be happy. Why is it so hard for him to be? I don't know.
I don't even know what I'm asking you people. I guess I just needed to vent.
well.. since there was really no question; I'll just tell you what I think! I know what your going through.. I dated a guy that was the same way (i think my guy was a little worse though! lol). We dated for three months and I really liked him; but I had to end it. We ended up dated again.. and I could on about it. But thats the main point lol. I'm not saying you should end it, but just do whatever you have to so that YOUR happy. And maybe you should try talking to him about it. Hope I helped!
((15/f))okay so there is this guy named christian, hes a senior and im a sophomore. we have liked eachother b4 and we started a realtionsip....kinda sorta....it was "complicated" and then one day he decided that it would be better if we stayed friends. so i went out with another guy for two months. i went out with him at first cause i really liked him, but then i realized that i was thinking more about christian then my current boyfriend. so i used him to get christian jelouse.....follow me? well i recently found out that he likes me back, and i really like him. and we got close over the break when we went paintballing with a bunch of people. he like held me when iw as cold and he flirted with me ALOT. i feel like it was my fault that the realtionship ended last time, so i dont know if i want to do anything about it this time. hes going off to college in state, but i can't help but wonder if i should see what we could be. what should i do?
maybe you could try going on date or two with him. Then you can decide if you actually want to have a relationship again. And you're not still going out with the other guy, right? lol.