Hi!
I'm a 23 year old woman who is really confused about this guy (he's 25 years old) that I really like at work. I started working for this company during the first quarter of this year. This guy was already working at that time when I started working.
The first few months where pretty normal for both of us. We just treated each other as co-workers. But at that time I always thought that something special could happen between the both of us. I could say, I was already pretty much attracted at him at that time. Then he left for a month to go on vacation.
After he came back from vacation, he was really pre-occupied with a lot of things. To the point that we ended up not talking for like a week or two unless it was something related to work. Besides that no personal chats/conversations or whatsoever was involved.
After a couple of months, our relationship started to pick up. He started to email me at work even though we were just one cubicle apart. He also started to call me on my workphone just to ask me to accompany him and assist him with his task. He's been hanging around me a lot lately. He has asked me on a group date a couple of times this month. He even wants me to hang out in his cubicle more often compared before.
This guy keeps asking me about bands and love songs and ended up singing a love song beside me. He let me borrowed his cd with mostly love songs in it. He smells my perfume, notices my clothing and my shoes (by the way we both like the same line of clothing and said he wanted to buy the same kind of shoes that I have). He frequently calls my name and says it a couple of times. He even has a pet name for me.
I don't know, my instinct tells me that he likes me. But I don't want to assume and rush into conclusions because I might just end up being hurt and disappointed.
I am really confused. Does he like me romantically or does he only treat me as his work buddy? Or maybe he just enjoys my company? I think I'm really starting to fall for him. Can you please help me... Do I just wait for him to tell me he likes me? What if he doesn't? What should I do? Please advice!
Thanks!
Well I'm pretty sure he likes you. It looks obvious. He already asked you out on group dates, so he's probably thinking the same thing you are, and isn't sure if you like him. Try to flirt a little more to let him know you like him too!
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ok, my names danielle and im 13/f. theres this boy i like in a prep course i go to, his names daniel (lol). someone in his class read my xanga and read an entry that said i liked him, and she told him. he wasnt sure which danielle it was so he asked me for my last naem and i told him and then he smirked and left. today at the prep course, he was walking with me on teh way to class and told me that he knew i liked him. he didnt act weird or anything, but when we went through a tight dorrway, he tried to squeeze through with me and i think he tried reaching for my hand. now my question is, does it seem like he likes me? i rate. smartasses will be reported and given a bad rating. thanks. nellie x0x
I'm not sure he likes you just because his hand might of gone by yours while squeezing through a doorway. But then again, maybe he did it on purpose. If you wanna know if he likes you, ask one of his friends that your friends with, or ask a friend of yours to ask him.
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14/f
okay well theres this guy in my spanish class.. and i mean ive kinda talked to him.. sorta**. well i think he likes me , cuz like he stares at me alot, and its soo soo cute but i dunno how to respond to that.. i mean i have had alotta guys like me before.. but he seems so different. i mean he like looks at my whole face and then goes back to my eyes.. its so so cute.. but my question is what would some other signals be that he likes me. and how should i talk to him.. since i barely ever say anything.. i mean i like dont even no how to talk to him.. and thats really weird cuz im not shy at all. i guess its just him and i dont wanna come out like a loser.. PLEASE HELP ME *** i rate for good advice*** thnks and heartz
well i think that he does like you, but all guys are different. he might just think your hot or something, but my guess is that he likes you. If you catch him looking at you and then he looks away, then thats a BIG sign that he likes you. If you wanna flirt/talk to him, just start a conversation. say something like "hey what was the spanish hw?" on the phone or on AIM, and chances are you'll start talking! you could also say like "ugh dont you hate (your spanish teacher)" and then start a conversation. If this wasn't the advice you were looking for or you want more just drop it in my inbox again. hope i helped
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ok i love this girl i was going out with her for 9 months and then she broke up with me but i found out she still loves me and i still love her but she odesnt want to love but she does and i dont know wut to do...i need help....i dont know wut 2 do.....
go out with her.
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This kid just "broke up" with me. There's like a 3 yr age difference, and I just talked to him on the phone, and I asked him out. Well, he's like, I have football everyday. Which, I know is probably true. But, now I know I won't get over it. What can I do? I'm ready to cry. : / I thought it could work. =(
o im sorry. i know how rejection feels. if it makes you feel any better, you'll get over it sooner or later. to some people 3 years is nothing, but to others its a lifetime. if you really think its that big of a difference, then you have to move on.
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this quesiton goes out to the boys :]
This or That??
--blonde or brunette:
--long or short hair:
--personality traits??:
--front or back??(lol):
My question your Answers (Q&A?)
--whats the ONE thing you want in a girl?? (or you can say 2 whatever works ha!!)
--first thing you notice on a girl:
ok thats just some information I was just wondering about. Plus really bored ha!!
1)either.
2)long
3)funny, can take a joke, smart, fun to hang out with, (easy going)
4) haha both if possible, but if i had to pick, front.
1)umm someone i can just talk to without the worry of "crap shes gunna think im weird" or someone who accepts you
2)her smile ;-)
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okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!
yea like blue eyed said, my parents are 9-10 years apart too. in the long run, its all bout the love haha
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well u can say its not the first time we tried this relationship....and i hate thinking negative but thast all i have right now and it hurts when he says hi to me cuz i know ehs not mine
i felt the same way about a girl. we went out three times, and i was crazy about her. when we broke up i felt the same way, but now i cant even remember y i liked her.. she was a bitch to me.. you'll get over it. stay strong.
same thing happend to me. if u need more help u know where to drop the q's.
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ok well im usually good at giving advice and i hardly need to ask for advice but i really need it........ ok well i was with this guy and i felt that the relationship wasnt the same anymore...we spaced out for a while and i kind of thought he might have someone else on the side...so i made the decision to let him go even if i really didnt wantt o but i felt that it was better than to hold on and keep hurting myself with doubts...but now im kindda confused cuz he didnt do anything to stop me when i broke it off....so does that mean he wanted to break up?? or he just didnt want to hurt his ego by trying to stop me???...and people say we made a cute couple and they ask me if they want them to find out anything for me..but i dont want to do that because it feels like im obsess or i dont know ... what should i do? how can i find out if its going to happen again or if its over for real
if i had to guess, i would say he's probably with another girl because it seems he didnt really care about you breaking up with him, but i dont know how good your relationship was before all this. If you still have feelings for him and you want to find out more, go ahead and ask your friends to do so. It doesn't mean your obsessed, i know a ton of people who do the same thing. comment me back.
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This quistion is for guys.
I'm 15/f and i was wondering why some guys dont like to ask girls out, and if most guys are shy, and what guys like about girls.
I'll rate fives for non-gay answers!
~Melissa~
OK here goes.
1) A lot of guys don't like to ask out girls because their afraid of being rejected, and the ackwardness of that later on.
2) I dont know about most guys, but there are a lot of shy guys. Like I said before, fear of rejection is a big issue, along with embarrassment, and humiliation.
3) Every guy is different, but there are a lot of general things that guys look for in girls.
Nice body, athletic, pretty, smart, funny, fun to hang out with, and other things.
Glad to help.
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i cant understand why i cant attract any boys.Alot of my guy friends think im hot but they just think im not the girl a boy will go for as a girlfriend.i dont know whats wrong with me.if im friendly they think im desperate for friends if im not im a snob.i just cant seems to do it right.my girl friends who is less preetier seems to attract more boys.i just want to feel special sometimes.i think ill never will.
It just might be that you can't spell or that you have no proper grammer.
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I really like this guy named Zach. Zach is my best friends older brother. I am in 9th grade and he is in 12th grade. I really like him. He always gives me hugs becuase like he thinks of me as his little freshman friend. I want to go out with Zach, but I don't know how to ask. I know people are reading this saying "Ask him out..." It is not that easy, if he says know I will be imbaressed and I doubt he will want to go out with a freshman. What are some ways I can let him know I like him, not just telling him tho, LOL!!
Thank youuu!
Kayla ♥ ♥ ♥
well hes not going to go out with you if you cant spell embarrassed ....
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ok this is for guys mainly, unless girls have any idea
what would you want as an anniversary present?i have no clue what to get my b/f. any opinions?
How about a new computer game? something with dragons in it. or a new album of a band he likes.
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I want to hang out with this guy that I like over vacation but i dont know how to ask him. Were like best friends but he has a girlfriend (but hes thinking of dumping her). I think he might like me, my friend thinks he has a "thing" for me but i cant tell. We dont talk on the phone much or hang out out of school. So how can I ask him to hang out? -Sandy S./13/f
Just act casual. Dont act nervous bcuz he might get the wrong idea, so just go up to him and say "so wht are u doing this vacation" or sumthing, and if hes free, just ask, "do u wanna come over?"
simple and easy.
-Huse
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