Question Posted Saturday November 26 2005, 8:51 am
I'm a 23 year old woman who is really confused about this guy (he's 25 years old) that I really like at work. I started working for this company during the first quarter of this year. This guy was already working at that time when I started working.
The first few months where pretty normal for both of us. We just treated each other as co-workers. But at that time I always thought that something special could happen between the both of us. I could say, I was already pretty much attracted at him at that time. Then he left for a month to go on vacation.
After he came back from vacation, he was really pre-occupied with a lot of things. To the point that we ended up not talking for like a week or two unless it was something related to work. Besides that no personal chats/conversations or whatsoever was involved.
After a couple of months, our relationship started to pick up. He started to email me at work even though we were just one cubicle apart. He also started to call me on my workphone just to ask me to accompany him and assist him with his task. He's been hanging around me a lot lately. He has asked me on a group date a couple of times this month. He even wants me to hang out in his cubicle more often compared before.
This guy keeps asking me about bands and love songs and ended up singing a love song beside me. He let me borrowed his cd with mostly love songs in it. He smells my perfume, notices my clothing and my shoes (by the way we both like the same line of clothing and said he wanted to buy the same kind of shoes that I have). He frequently calls my name and says it a couple of times. He even has a pet name for me.
I don't know, my instinct tells me that he likes me. But I don't want to assume and rush into conclusions because I might just end up being hurt and disappointed.
I am really confused. Does he like me romantically or does he only treat me as his work buddy? Or maybe he just enjoys my company? I think I'm really starting to fall for him. Can you please help me... Do I just wait for him to tell me he likes me? What if he doesn't? What should I do? Please advice!
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