I'm 16 and a bruised member of the Sun Valley guard. I like rock climbing, camping, white water rafting, pretty much anything to do with the outside. Most of the time I'm at school, the rest I'm at guard or with the friends. I have a little brother that's 13, we pretend like we don't like each other, but really we're pretty tight. I tend to be my friends soundboard, so if you want someone to listen or if you want advice, talk to me! Signing out, Em'lee
Gender: Female
Location: Matthews, North Carolina
Occupation: Bertucci's
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 25
Last Update: November 21, 2004
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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No, atleast in my case. My current bf used to be a huge player, cheated on ever girl, flirted all the time, all that jazz. But when we started going out he completely changed. We have been going out for 6 months and are actually thinking about marriage! When you meet the right girl, or the right guy you won't be able to look at another person! Hope I helped, Em'lee
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half months...and I love him so much. But lately (since we will be in highschool together next year) he is afraid that I am going to dump him for another guy. WUT SHOULD I TELL HIM! I dont really like gurls that much cuz they are snotty in my eyes...so i have guy friends and he gets jealous and we fight. I am a gurl and im 14 wut should i d0?
PLEASE SOME ONE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Me and my boyfriend of 6 months went through the same thing when he realized that most of my friends are guys. That was a month ago! Just remind him that he is the only one you could ever love and make sure you show it! When your around your guyfriends and him, pay extra attention to him just to make sure he knows he's the only one on your mind. And if your friends and him don't really hang out, how about you invite him on a trip to the mall or bowling with all of you? That way he can see for himself that your friends are really JUST friends and that may calm him down a bit. Hope I helped! Em'lee
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I have never open mouthed kissed or made out with a boy before. but i think that i will soon. but i have a question, how do you know what to do?( how to move your toung and what to do to the guy)i have seen it in movies and all and articles in magazines. i know some people who just tell me to do what the guy is doing to you, but can a guy tell if you have never made out before? those are my 2 questions...oh and P.S. i wont ask my freinds because beleive it or not, i know more about it than my best freinds. (link)
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Frenching a guy is common sense, don't worry about it. My first make out session I was so freaked out! But it really does just come natural. Just like regular kissing you some how just know what to do! And to answer your second question, guys don't have the attention span to notice if it's your first or your hundredth, so don't even think about it. Don't worry and just relax and have fun! Em'lee
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot... (link)
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Hey honey, I have to say I went through the same thing with my current boyfriend. We had been dating for 4 months and broke up because we "grew apart". We ended up getting back together after 2 weeks, couldn't stand being apart. If you love this guy so much then why arn't you with him? Love is accepting the bad times with the good, this was just a bad. And about your "friend", if she's willing to take your ex that you dated for a year and tell him that you arn't friends any more she isn't much of a friend. My advice: forget your friend, tell your boy how you feel, and see what happens. Good luck!
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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Child I'm going through the same thing, don't worry about what your friends think. They just care about you, they don't think anyone is good enough for you. You can't just get them to stop, for me it took 4 months of going out with my bf before they realized that he wasn't going to go away just because of what they say. If it really gets to be to much maybe your friends really arn't as good "friends" as they should be. As for spending time with friends and boyfriend, have you tried dividing your time? Spend one day with your boyfriend then spend a day with your friends, if you can't deal with both- then deal with one at a time. Good luck!
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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance. (link)
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Rather to love and lost then to never love at all.
Sound familar? Honey don't call it off, if he caught your eye on the cruise then there must be something about him worth keeping around. Many long-distance relationships work out great! Even if it wasn't meant to be, at least you won't have the "what if I had stuck with it" nagging you later. Give it a shot and have fun!
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
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2 years is nothing honey, go for it! Tell him how you feel, you may have a new boyfriend on the way! Good luck, have fun!
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