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hey im almost 14 and im doin this cuz i LOVE giving advice and helpin peeps soo u can ask me anything and i will give u a truthful answer! u can ask just me a ? and it will go to me! IM me on muh sn ditzybrunett341 if u wanna tlk to me!

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Location: idaho
Age: 14
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Member Since: October 16, 2004
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Last Update: November 5, 2004
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well my bf and i are really happy together and i donno wht i would do with out him! But there is sumthing that bugs me about him and i kno that not all guys dont have the characteristics you want them to have but... whenever i invite him places he always has excuses like he has his stupid band practices with his friends or is doing sumfin else and seems to never make time for me... so i donno wht to do or if i should say sumfin to him and if i do say sumthing i don't want him to get mad at me or sumthing because when he gets mad at me he gets in the accuall depressed and pissed off stage where sometimes he wont talk to me for a while even if i appologize a million times... so wht should i do???

i think u should tlk to him, u knw tell him how u feel be all u seem lik u always have somethin to do and i really wanna spend time with u. try to stay calm through the whole convo if hes lik no blah blah just go to a past few times u wanted to hang, just try to work it out u knw for the band practices set days for them maybe but just tlk it out.

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ok my b/f smokes and i dont know what to do b/c im not around him much only at school and he says hes quiting or trying to but how can i know 4 sure if he quite...he really loves me i dont think he would do that though...help

~help!

well i mean oviously u will prolly be able to tell, u knw but ya if he does love u then he will quit!

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hey well....my ex boyfriend and me were best friends b4 we went out...(the entire reason i didnt wanna date him) but now that we broke up after almost a year of dating every time i read something about relationships being torn apart i break down and cry...but now that he broke up with me ive started to cut myself and go into deep depressions...i want him bak bc when i was with him...there was never a time when i wasnt happy...he could make me smile no matter how sad i was...he might have made a few mistakes but so have i...i juss want him to b happy but i also juss want him to say that in order for him to b happy he needs to b with me...i also started smokking when he broke up with me...idk what to do...my life is going to hell since he broke up with me...idk waht to do...i want him bak but i want him to b happy...

signed ~*lost...

P.S.- y cant i b happy???

k the first thing i have to say is cutting yourself and smoking is totally not the answer to your problems! i mean see if he still likes u, be friends again, tlk to him, u knw i mean trust me if u rnt together right now maybe hes not the one 4 u, and tht means tht theres someone out there who is gunna rock your world and be better than your ex did! soo u knw just stop cutin, stop smokin and just hang with your friends, maybe go to some clubs and meet some guys or somethin.

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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?

haha well i mean i cant just answer tht 4 u, u knw i mean if she doesnt lik u then she doesnt lik u, if she likes u as a friend, then u knw giver her some time, maybe she does lik u and u knw hangout with her mor and tlk to her let her get to knw u as u knw lik maybe a bf then u can try askin her out.

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i kind of like this guy, well i really like him... a lot. and i think he knows that i might like him. but im not sure, i dont want to like him, but everytime i talk to him it makes me like him that much more. it sux and i dont know what to do. oh well i guess.. life goes on right? i just really really like him :(

well i mean whts the reason u dont want to like him?? answer me tht soo i can lik write u more

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but i like him and whenever i am around is when he gets all over her and when im not around hes not all over her i think hes trying to make me jealous! but o well ill try to stop liking him maybe things just arent meant to be thanx so much please respond soon!!!

haha yep!

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kk so i really like this guy and he knows that i like him and i talk to him alot and he talks to me alot and he acts like he likes me but then it turns out he ends up liking one of my really good friends and he asked her out and she said no but he still likes her and is like all over her but hes not all over her when im close by him but when i come around he duz it and i dont kno wat to do!! i dont know whether to keep liking him and just ignore wat he duz w/ her or if i shuld like sum 1 else and give up on him?? pleaze help me soon!!!!!
x0x0- broken heart

i think tht he oviously still prolly likes her and maybe he doesnt do tht around u cuz he knws u lik him and he doesnt want to be an ass or somethin soo maybe u should tlk to him about it or move on,cuz your friend prolly said no just cuz u lik him soo if it doesnt seem to be workin then give him up and let your friend have him and like someone new

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okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks

i think u might just wanna tlk to him, tell him wht u r feelin and u might even want to say r u ever gunna kiss me he might be feelin the same way as u. he prolly is to shy to kiss u cuz he thinks u dont want to or somthin

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okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!!

ok i totally knw how u feel!if u wanna tlk to me mor IM me on my sn ditzybrunett341 i think i can help u but for this i really dont think tht there is anything wrong with u though. u were sayin tht the guys dont approach u well u knw thts one of the things, u gotta have confidents, and guts to go up to the guy u lik u knw! and theres alot of people who havnt had a serious bf yet or there first kiss yet. look at jessica simpson, her first kiss was in lik 200o or 2002 with nick lachey and shes beautiful.

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holy crap people i want to beat the shit out of everyone at my school.

There is this grl that i sit with every single day at lunch and i chill with her at school all the time and i really like her cuz shes 1.REALLY HOT..but 2. shes the nicest n sweetest person i have ever met in mi whole life and like seriously i love her..ppl r like kid ur so shallow u just like her cuz shes a cheerleader..when thats not even the reason...wut do i do?? beat the shyt out of all these gay kids or just ignore them cuz theyre just people and i shudnt care wut they think??

no i wouldnt just go off and beat the them up and stuff, cuz i mean tht will prolly just make matters worse so ya i would totally ignore it! i mean there not worth it at all. maybe next time they say tht say somethin lik y u lik her and be lik and if u think its just cuz shes a cheerleader than w/e and just ignore um

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