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Hey Im Missy,Im 13 and I live In Texas! I dance competitivly and I dance for my dance team at school. My whole life is pretty much dancing. I also Sing and Play the trumpet.I dont at the time have a boyfriend but hey not every1 does so its cool. I am really good at giving advice so feel free to ask away!
-missy-
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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
Hey
I think nothing is wrong with you its just maybe the guys dont realli kno you. So make some guy friends and kno that when your thirteen you shouldnt have to many bfs or ppl might think you are a playa or somethin. I thave had lyke 7 bfs in the last year and not that anyone thinks im a slut or playa but i think that guys kno it wont last long. So dont worry about getting bfs just make some new guy friends even the cutie your crushin on. Then they can realli see wut ur lyke!!!
-Missy-
Well, I'm really good with guys when we're not going out. I can think of anything really quick to make them laugh and to have a good conversation. But when we start dating I freeze up. i even try to pretend that I'm not dating him and he's just my friend so I can act like I was before. But i get so speechless! its like i dont want to say anything stupid or embarassing..
Hey Gurlie
I gte the same way and so does my bf. You just got to think of something to talk about like ask him if he likes sports im sure yall could talk about that for hours but just think of something he is interested in and bring it up that conversation can lead on to many other conversations. Hope I helped!
Much Luv
-Missy-
Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do
Dont let anyone pressure you into making out or kissing someone if you are not ready cuz my bf tried to pressure me into it but i just couldnt and it ended up we broke up like 3 days lata. So plz anything even a break up or a fight is better than doing something you dont want to. Wait until you want to and dont let your friend and wut she does pressure you.
much luv
-Missy-
im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
Hey
Gurlie you havent gone wrong i mean im 13 too and i havent made out with a guy. And its not a big deal i mean when you are 13 you should be you know like not exactly dating but well as far as bf and gf go at my school nobody ever really makes out with their bf/gf they might talk on the phone or aim or somethin but dating and making out shouldnt come till lata.
Much Luv
-Missy-
right now im single all my friends have bfs except me and i really feel left out I think i want a bf just to have one but I dont feel comfortable around my friends and their bfs what should i do?
kaci
You shouldnt want a bf just to have one you should really like a guy and get to know them well before bf and gf even come up in a conversation. And dont hang out with your friends when they are with their bfs cuz most likely they really dont want you their. You should makes some other friends that dont always spend time with thier bf or even have one. You will find that guy you will be dying for him and you to go out and your friends and their bf and you and your bf can all hang out together but right now just dont rush things!!!
-missy-
I really love this guy but i am not really involved with him. Is this really love or am i just trying to make it seem like it is? Also should I tell him or just ignore the feelings???
please help!
-anoymus-
Oo this is a tough one... I have been in the same situation. I think you should tell this guy you like him and dont automatically say I Love You cuz that might scare him. Love is a special feeling and I think you are just really deeply liking this guy a lot! Im not sure if love is really the right word to describe how your feeling! Just take it slow and hang out with him get to really know him and become his friend. Who knows maybe he likes you too and doesnt know how to tell you!
-missy-
Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.
Just tell him your not interested in going out with him. And if the guy you keep thinking about is single then try hanging out with him more! He might just be feeling the same way about you. Maybe you and him will go out and the other guy wil know to back off. You just might be a lot happier!
-Missy-
I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?
Wut u dont want to do is go ahead and go out with him before you know how your friend feels! So just ask your friend if she still has feelings for him and if she would mind if you two hooked up. If she says she still has feelings for him back off and just be friends with the guy and wait untill she really doesnt have feelings for him that way nothing will stand between you two as a couple and friendship will still be there just incase it doesnt work out! Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
f/16
Well the good boi and bad boi sound like they are really great guys. You need to ask yourself which you would rather sacrifice,having a guy with a bad rep. for drugs or a guy that isnt always the most interesting. And if that doesnt work pick which on is cuter....jk
And if you dont like that the good boi is so boring then you start up an interesting conversation. Or if you dont like that the bad boi does drugs then urge him to stop and help him quit! This is really up to you and which one you would rather have as like a boyfriend!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!?
The same thing happened to me! My advice to you is try to be a really good friend to him. He might figure out how you feel and soon enough relize he wants you too!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
I have another friend that needs help her name is chrystal and she is 17..she had liked this guy named Ken..since he was in the 7th grade and he graduated in 2002..and he say he think of her as a lil sister..and she dont think of him like that.Her uncle herb told her to keep trying and go after what she wants..and never give up on him..any ideas?
-Hal
I think you should introduce your friend to a whole bunch of really great guys so she will not forget about Ken but will find a guy that will think of her as a future girlfriend and not a little sister.