do friends suggest to each other that they should fall asleep on the phone together?
My guy friend and I were on the phone last night and he suggested that we fall asleep on the phone together. We are both single and same age.(18)..We been friends for about 16 months>
Me and my ex used to do that. It sounds like he likes you. (:
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My boyfriend and I are 16 and have never had a relationship before. We had our first kiss recently. It was nothing special and he used tooo much tongue. Is it too soon to tell him that he uses too much tongue? Or too late since it was 4 days ago and we've hung out since? I don't want to kiss him again til I talk to him about it. I plan on just telling him to close his eyes so I can show him how I like to be kissed. How can I word that though?
i understand that it can sometimes be hard to be open with a boyfriend about stuff.
maybe ask him how HE likes to be kissed..and then show him how YOU like to be kissed.
that way he wont think that your trying to show him what he's doing wrong..he'll think that you're just trying to make the kiss better for the both of you. (:
i hope i helped!
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im 14 and my bf is 16 and weve been together for about 5 months we make out and stuff and i ask him if i could see his penis he got a bit shy he says its small he's worried about showing me his penis i told him i love him no matter what i dont want to push him what can i do?
If he's worried about doing that kind of stuff with you..then dont push him too. Just let him take his time. If you push him, it can make him feel like all you want him for is sex. And that can make him not want to be in the relationship anymore. Just give him time..and he might warm up to you soon.
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Sorry to be so blunt about it, but its beginning to piss me off. We've been dating now for over 8 months, and she seems incapable of completing the smallest tasks (like operating the ice maker on a fridge for instance) or even dealing with the smallest insignificant issues that come across the average person in everyday life. She cries all the time, and whenever i'm anywhere near her friends (whom are also my friends) she gets EXTREMELY jealous and basically pisses me off. I've never yelled at her, and i've been nothing but the kindest, sweetest boyfriend i can be, but sometimes i feel like our relationship is going nowhere, and i honestly can't see us even making it to valentines day :(
Am i crazy, or are there girls out there that are emotionally stable and don't feel like they need to make me feel that i'm prince charming every time i put ice in my glass? I just wish sometimes that i was with a girl that was a little more outgoing and less clingy. One that can just "hang out" without having to figure out what we're gonna do before coming over.
By the way. What she lacks in emotional stability, she makes up for in physical intimacy, and i feel trapped. We haven't had sex yet, and i know we both would be okay with it if we could ind somewhere other than the top of a parking garage to let it happen... but now, i'm almost afraid to be any more intimate with her than i already am, because i don't want to hurt her so badly if we break up.
All I can think of..is to be honest with her. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 8 month's..and when he broke up with me..he didn't tell me the honest reason..he just made up a bunch of excuses. PLEASE be honest with her..
Tell her you dont like her jelousy..and how you dont like how she's clingy..and all about her not being able to complete simple tasks.
If you be honest with her..it wont hurt her as much as breaking up with her and not even trying to fix it.
So please just be honest with her..tell her what you like about her..and what you dont like..what she can improve on..that kinda thing.
I wish you two the best of luck. :)
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I don't know what to do. My boyfriend was gone for 2 and half months and came home about a month ago or so, you think my sex drive would be through the roof but it isn't. I like the fact that we don't need to have sex to be a happy couple but I feel so terrible about not wanting it that much. He doesn't really complain unless it goes on for 4 or more days but I feel terrible in the mean time.
I think it is mostly because of my diet (not very healthy) but I guess I never really had a really big sex drive. I need a lot of four play to get horny and I am sick of it.
The thing that gets me the most is that he sometimes refers to us as an old couple (we've been dating for almost 3 years) and I hate feeling that way.
I guess what I am asking is for maybe some encouraging words or maybe a good way to solve it. Like I said I think it is a little worst because of my diet but I still don't get it. I hate being this way!
You shouldnt worry about this. It's fine. Since your boyfriend was gone for 2 months, you probobly just got used to the fact of not having sex all the time, and it made you crave it less.
Dont worry. Everything's fine. Maybe talk to your boyfriend about it?
Hope I helped!
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My bf and i are 14 and recently he sowed me his penis its about 5 inches long hes a bit nervous about it i told him that it doesnt matter is taht about the average?
Yes. His is average. It really just varies from man to man. But 5 inches on a 14 year old is pretty normal.
I hope I helped. :]
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Recently, there is a rumor circulating with the male population at my school that I like this guy named.. let's call him 'Bob'. Bob and I talk a lot, and we're pretty close. There's this other guy, Dylan, who noticed us talking [when we talk, we stand very close]. So, supposedly, Dylan talked to Bob, and was like 'Hmm, so you and [my name] were flirting again?" and Bob goes "Yeah." Dylan is convinced that Bob likes me.
Today, Bob confronted me and was like 'Yeah Dylan is a pansy, he said that you like me, whatever, he's gay', stuff like that. It almost seems like Bob is avoiding me. He and my other friend talk a ton, but I'm pretty sure that they're really just friends. Every time I try to start up a conversation with Bob, things just get really awkward, it's not as comfortable as it was talking to him now.
I really don't want to lose my friendship with Bob, I really do like him [maybe even more as a friend], but I've seen him kind of act like a jerk. My friend jammed her finger against her locker, and he kind of smirked.. I'm thinking of just moving on, and letting him come to me, because he's sending me mixed signals. I really don't know if he likes me, or not...
I need advice.
Maybe you should just talk to him, and tell him what's on your mind. Maybe, after you talk to him, and he tell's you what's going on, then you will both have that connection back that you used to have. There's nothing that you cant solve by talking.
I hope I helped.
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HI its going to be my bf's birthday really soon and we wanted to go out in the country sort of and watch the stars but i dunno where to go and im scared if we go out somewhere we'll be on somebody's property.
well, i dont relly know how to check if your on someones property. you could maybe ask around. i know that some people in town know where everything and everyone is. so if you have a certain spot that you want to go to, then maybe ask someone if they know if anyone lives there.
-hope i helped!!
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Me and guy are long distance lovers... we've been having a relationship for a year now.. and we love eachother alot.....
I only met him once in this year i've had the relationship with him.. and we couldnt spend more than 5 mints together at that time either because we didnt get the chnace... i'm hoping to meet him again soon...
I've never french kissed ever in my life... and we've planned to french kiss when we meet again... how do i take of my nervousness...???
How i touch him to show him i truely love him???
Please Give me tips on what i should do when i meet him?
try www.wikihow.com
type in " how to french kiss "
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heyy guys,
well I have a boyfriend who I love SOOOOOO much!!! and he literally means the world to me, and he feels the same way about me, he says were gonna get married and have wonderful children, and that just puts joy in my heart but anyway for some reason these past couple of days he's been acting weird, like he looks pissed at the world, and when I told him what's wrong he goes nothing stressed with school and stuff. and trust me he tells me everything that's wrong, but for some reason when he told about being stressed with school and work, I get upset because I feel like he maybe doesn't have time for a girlfriend, which upsets me very much, all my friends tell me its ok, he just is stressed with this. but honeslty guys (from your opnion) do u think he'll break up with me cause of this? oh yah and he tells me he's gonna visit me (cause I'm sick) and then he tells me I'm coming over and then he says I'm not gonna make it tonight, he pretty much bailed on me 4 days already, and I'm sorry if you guys think im crazy and stuff, but I also feel like he doesn't care for me anymore, but he calls me and says hey baby, I miss and I love you, but I don't know I'm just so confused, what's wrong with him? what's wrong with me? why doesn't he come visit when I'm ill, and I think he makes up excuses, I'm so confused just please help me guys, I really need your opnion, and did you feel like that with your girlfriend? and he says he feels bad and stuff, well I started crying and so did he cause he felt bad, and it made me feel so terrible making me accuse him of not caring for me anymore (well I said to myself not him) but I don't know just so confused!
pleasee helpp
thanksss soooo much!!!!
Well....uh....i really hate to break this to you, but....it sounds like hes 2 timing you. cause he dosent tell you anything anymore, and he always says he " cant make it tonite" im sorry, and you may get mad, but thats what it sounds like to me.
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On july 13th, 2005 I started dating this boy who I really liked. I was so in love with this boy, even though I was so young. He is in my grade but he is a year older than me because I should be in a grade lower than I am in. I liked this boy so much because he was my first love. We were so open eachother and I told him more than what I would tell my best friend or my mom. If I needed help, or someone to talk to, he was the first person I'd call. Same for him towards me. We were inseperable and spent everyday together. We hardly ever fought, and if we did, we would make up the next day. Me and this boy dated for exactly 1 year and a week. We both just needed a break and dated other people. After about a month or two, we started going back out. Then we were on and off until February 21st, 07. He broke up with me because he thought I liked another boy but I didnt. Ever sense then, he has made out with some of my so called "friends" and he has completely ignored me. I want him back more than anything in the world right now. My friends have tried to talk to him but he says he hates me. Even I have tried but he just ignores my texts, or walks away. I've tried everything. I've tried ignoring him, ive tried making him jelous with his friends, he doesnt care. I dont know what to do and im dying inside, please help me get him back !!! =/
Well, sweets, there really is no way for us to help you get him back. All you can do is just accept what he wants, and move on. And really, It sounds like he still likes you. Look at the facts, he made out with your " friends ", and he just ignores you. Sometimes guys do that if they like someone. I hope I helped!
-Shelby
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so for starters im 17. My boyfriend left about july 10th to basic training, i wrote him for about a month and a half and he never replied back, i missed him like crazy. He got back about 10 days ago he didnt call he didnt message me or anything. My friend said she had talked to him, and he seemed really happy. So i had her ask him what his problem was, and she said that he said that he never got any letters so he thought i moved on... so i finally talked to him and now he says that he doesnt want me to worry about him all the time, and always having to wonder when the next time we would talk... so he said we should just be friends..but i was like how can you be friends with someone who you were absolutely in love with. i dont know what to do, because i love him so much but i dont know if i should just move on or continue with him, i've tried moving on and it just seems like i always compare him to other guys and other guys just dont even come close...i just dont know anymore
I know that your in love with him, but you need to just do what is best..try to move on...
Since your in love with him, you'll want what he wants....and he just wants to be friends.If you give yourself time, you will move on and be happy.
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17/f
hey i think i have a crush on a girl my age on my rec softball team. we keep making eye contact with each other but we never talk. like i like the idea of me liking her but i dont like the idea of me kissing her. so i basically like the idea of her doing anything sexual with others..except when as its with me.
GOD ITS COMPLICATED.
so i want to be friends with her but its really awkward to be near her because of 2 reasons. 1) the eye contact thing makes me feel self-conscious around her and 2) her eyes are this deep deep hazel-green-blue mix and its hard for me to look away from her eyes. i knoww the 2nd reason is kind of BS but the first reason is true.
and sometimes i feel like she's following me, like ill sit on a place on the bench first and then she'll sit next to me. or when we do throwing drills ill pass/catch with my partner and then she'll lead her partner next to my group. anyone would think this is purely accidental but we've been sitting next to each other and doing drills next to each other for FIVE GAMES IN A ROW because of her! (well once it was because of me but thats because i wasnt paying attention lol)
shes a cool person and when we talk she usually starts it because this entire situation is too awkward for me for words.
um so ~in conclusionn~...
LOL i dont know what the hell im asking. this crush & the awkwardness is driving me insane and i just need advice..guidance..understanding words of wisdom..plz and ty
Well, just because you have a crush on a girl, dosent nessicarely make you gay or bi. You could be a lesbian, or you could just be going through a phase.
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