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I'm Katey and I'm a pretty outgoing person. I am usually always on the computer and i love to help people. I'm defiantely very out there!
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I am really bad at seperating boyfriends from friends. Is the only difference between having a boyfriend and having guy friends is that you can kiss and hold hands with your boyfriend? I guess I have a problem..cause I treat my boyfriend the same way as my guy friends. Does anybody have an ideas how I can let him know that I really do like him as my boyfriend? Cause I am starting to convince myself that we should just be friends. Thanks.
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Well thats not the only difference between a bf and a guy friend. With a boyfriend you have to be more caring. Just like give him little pecks on the cheek and just like look at him differently...do you know what i mean? Like stare into his eyes, treat him like you dont want lose him basiclly. Like if he's not really the romantic type than just like kno when to like hold his hand and junk ya kno? Just like show him you are there for him. I hope i helped a little. Let me know how it goes!
Kayte


Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??

Should I really be this pissed? (link)
Yea he probably should of be smart and gotten the tickets ahead of time so yea. But then again you should be soo mad because it was just movie it'll come out later and you can rent it or just have him actually do what you asked.


well anyway im a sophmore guy and i like this girl. i was gonna tell her on the phone the other night but i couldnt bring myself to do it. how can i build up enough courage to tell her? i told her friend and she wants to tell her, should i let her? help! (link)
If the friend tells her you like her than that may help you because then you will know that she knows and that may give you courage to tell her. But if the friend tells her than you should still tell her. So why not just tell her and get it over with?


Hey, I'm a 13 year old girl & my birthday is comming up really soon. My boyfriend wants to know what I want.. but I can't possibly think of anything, because I already have him. If you could give me some ideas that a 13 year old going on 14 would want. I'm into sports but I'm also girly. If you could give me ideas it would be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you! Thanks lots♥ (link)
You are really askin what YOU want?? lol. That makes me laugh. But no seriously. Just tell him that you already have what you want and thats him. Then tell him to get you somethin that he thinks you will like and that is from the heart [ex. like a necklace/locket, a promise ring, just somethin from the heart].


Ive known this kid for a while lets call him joe. Me and joe have been on and off friends for 3 years now. He really means a lot to me. But he doesnt really know. Were in highschool now and he has a lot more friends now that dont like me so he doesnt like to talk to me when theyre around. My friend just recently told him i liked him like more than a friend. So now he knows and its weird when we talk now. Last summer he sent me pictures of his dick so he said i owed him so about a week ago he made me send him pictures too. He really liked them but hes still not going along with the whole more than friends thing. We almost hooked up a few times but someone else always comes in the way. I really like joe and ive tried getting over him but i cant forget about him. And its christmas break and he told me that we would hang out but he never did ask me. I asked him a few times but he always said he couldnt for some reson. I dont know what to do. I cant forget about him, i think about him all day. Help please? sorry its so long. (link)
Well if he wants nothin to do with you and always has a "reason" not to hang out with you then he's not worth it. And if he MADE YOU send him pictures than hes a complete jerk. I know you said you cnat get over him but i think you should try. Yeah it's gonna be hard and yeah its gonna take a while but he's not worth it. I think. Who knows i mean you could find a really great guy that likes you and you completely pass him by because your stuck on a guy who isnt stuck on you. He seems like a complete creep to me so i think i would keep in on a friends basis.


Thanx hun ur advice is totaly awesome! your a sweetheart! but i just dont know how to approach the situation. we might go out tomorrow and it may be the last time i see him before he leaves for school again! im just worried im going to scare him away! even as a friend (link)
No problem. Just follow your heart hun. If he really likes you he wont scare away easily. Make his last night with you last. You really like him so show him. Intrigue him and let him know that you care and it should work out...I hope they do work out. Keep me updated sweety!


Hi there
iv gotten myself in quite a bind. Iv never been so confused before..well here it goes.
Im 16 years old and live in toronto, now i have this family friend whom iv known for 10-12 years, we recently became reaquainted in May; since than wev talked alot, wev seen eachother at various occassions, at these occasions we always hang out or dance together...he says sweet things to me, and hes just a great guy.
Just after christmas he asked me to go see a movie with him, he said him his sister and her bf were going to see a movie and he wanted to knw if i wanted to come, (i accpeted of course) so he came and picked me up and we all ended up spliting up and we had a great time. So than we went to the same new years party together, at this new years party his family seemed very intrested in me;like always smiling at me etc. He asked me to dance a few times and we did,but at one point i was dancing with another guy and he was staring alot, but we overall had a blast together (i also ended up taking him home). Wev talked a bit after that. Hes a great guy but the only problem is hes 20, and he goes to skool in london (which is about 2.5 hours away). so i guess im in denial! like why wud he be intrested in me?! but i like him soo much and i just dont wanna make a fool out of myself and i dont wanna get hurt! so does he like me? is he intrested? wat shud i do?
HELP!!!! (link)
If he was staring at you while you were dancing with another guy and you guys arent ever definied as "together" than he likes you. Defiantely. If your worried about the age difference then that may be a problem for you but if you really like him and want to be with him than go for it. And with the whole long distance thing i am actually in a long distance relationship right now. Yes it's sometimes scary and you dont know if you can trust the guy but if he truly likes you and wants to be with you then he wont do anything and he'll wait for you. You just have to talk. That is the key thing in a realtionship talk and be open with your partner. It'll work i promise.
Do you wanna follow your head and possibly give up a great guy or follow your heart and take the chance of being with someone great? It's your decision follow your head or you heart?
Please let me know how it goes!
Kayte




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