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Age: 16
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(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be? (link)
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Sounds to me like he's not ready to go any farther yet. Just talk to him and tell him you want to go farther, and if he doesn't, then you'll wait.
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Hi I'm Adam and 16 Years old. heres my question:
I like (ok love) this girl. I have tried working some kind of relationship out with her but she didnt want it. Shes not dating anyone and she likes me as a friend alot. I want her so bad though. Shes the only one I want and nothing will make me change that. What is there I can do to make her go for me?
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Shock her. Remember little things about her and when you guys are talking, relate something you remember about her to what you're talking about. Not only will she be shocked that you would actually remember something as little as that, she would be touched because you took the time to pay attention to her. Don't buy her stuff because you can't buy her love, but if you guys are walking, and you see a pretty flower or daisy, pick it for her and tell her you'd like her to have it. Now, thats only an example, you dont have to get all cheesy if you dont want to :) Little things like that will show her that you truly care about her and she'll hopefully go for you too. But it's awesome that you guys are already close! My boyfriend and I were good friends before we had a relationship and now we're closer than ever. Just give it sometime, sweetie
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ok so there's this boy i met on a cruise a few days ago and well i really didn't meet him but he's tall cute kinda shy which is like the oposite of me the only problem is i can't remember his name it's really weird and i think it starts with a E. well here's my real question...how do i get him out of my mind? i think about him non stop he is the only boy i have ever cried over and i beat myself up menatly becouse i didn't make better friends with him. i need help forgeting him and moving on i have no way of getting hold of him so it makes it much worse i'm so upset please help i rate.
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Aw, these situations are always heartbreaking. You might not ever see this boy again, so it's better just to think someone three hundred times better is gonna come along and meet you and make you feel amazing! In all ways imaginable! I know it's hard to forget about someone just like that, but you just have to think more positive. You'll meet someone so wonderful one day that he wont ever cross your mind again.
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im going to be 17 years old in a week. and ive never really had a "real boyfriend" before. i mean i went out with like 3 guys, but that was all in middle school, and it wasnt anything like people have now in high school.. tomorrow im going to this party with my friend, and ive been praying all day to let me find a guy that wont just try to get in my pants and then leave. thats what always happens. it would make my birthday soo much better if i could just find a guy that i connect with, and that is actually interested in me and not only sex. especially the first night we meet. there are guys that want to meet me in person and hang out that are from myspace, they are my age and live by me but for some reason i always turn them down. every single one of them. does that mean that non of them are "right" for me? or am i just shy? i dont know.
tomorrow i want to get to know a guy and maybe even go on a date or two after the party. and then hopefully it can lead into my first real relationship
but i dont even know how to get started with that. i dont know how to act or what to say or anything..and how do i know that they actually want to get to know me and they arent just using me to get some? how can u tell the difference?
if anyone and everyone could help me in any way possible to make me think i might actually meet someone tomorrow night i would appreciate it soooooo much.
i always wish on stars that i see and i pray that i find a guy, but it never happens.
i really really think i deserve this. i know i can get a guy, because i do think im pretty. so thats not the reason.. but i dont know why i cant ever find someone that i like enough.
thanks sooo much xoxoxo (link)
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It seems like you've got a good head on your shoulders, my dear.
All I can say.. is just let it come to you. Dont worry the whole night about that certain guy approaching you. Have fun, flirt, smile, be yourself and eventually someone will notice you. Don't let it bother you :)
I think you can tell when they're using you. I mean, if he only wants sex from you, he'll be trying to get down your pants before the relationship, I'd assume. If thats the case, drop him. But if he takes the time to listen to you, to talk to you and to hear what you have to say, then give him the time of day.
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