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Name:cemetarydrivexO0x

Age: 13

Birthday: may 29

Eye Color: brown

Height: 4'11

Weight: 96

Sign: gemini

Location: texas

Pets: smores =D

FAVORITES

Song: too many to name

Book: harry potter

CD: ipod

Color: pink, lime green

Body part: eyes

Website: don't really have one..

Car: lexus

Style: mainly preppy?

Celebrity: rachel bilson

Zodiac Sign: gemini

Shape: heart

Food: chinese!!

Piece of clothing: "trust me i'm a girl" shirt

Band: a lot

Show: the OC & laguna beach

Flavor: strawberry

Smiley: =D

Channel: mtv

Person: me duh. jk lol

Sport: volleyball

Hobby: drawing & singing

THIS OR THAT

Pizza or spaghetti? def pizza

Basketball or football? basketball

Heart or star? heartt

Learn or know? know

Computer or TV? computer

Lips or eyes? eyes

Girl or Guy? guy

X or O? X

Xanga or MySpace? i dont have a myspace so guess xanga?

Love or hate? love

Gun or knife? gun

Baby or adult? baby

People or animals? uhh people? lol but animals are cool too =D

70s or 80s? 80s

Power Rangers or Ninja Turtles? ninja turtles

Funny or gross? funny

Horror or Romantic? romantic

Family Guy or Real World? real world

Rose or tulip? rose

Cash or credit? cash

Mall or store? mall

CURRENTLY

What are you wearing? school uniform >:O

What are you doing? typing, and drinking milk =D yeah i know i'm cool

What are you thinking? about this survey i guess??

How are you feeling? okay

Are you upset? no

Is anything bothering you? yeah my english project..

Are you on other websites? yes

Are you talking to anyone on AIM or MSN? yeah

Are you bored? i guess

Are you crying? no

Are you listening to music? yes

Are you watching TV or a movie? no

Do you feel clean? no i just came back from gym

Do you want to be somewhere else? yeah

Is anyone watching you take this survey? no

What time is it? 4:44 pm

What day of the week is it? friday

Are you annoyed with anyone? no..well maybe yeah

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU

Watched TV? yesterday

Cried? a few days ago

Went on vacation? a month ago..NYC!!

Took a shower? last night

Got a haircut? don't remember, but i'm getting one tomorrow

Felt lonely? now..like nobodys home

Felt dirty? now lol..i feel all gross and sweaty haha

Wanted to slap someone? today bc this 7th grader was being really annoying >:O

Gotten in big trouble? definition of big??

Gotten an A on something? today on my math test =D

Gotten a bad grade? last year sometime?

Listened to music? now

Watched a movie? yesterday

Shaved? a couple days ago

Washed a car? like never lol

Talked to a friend? today

Went to school? today

Painted your nails? 3 days ago i think

Hung out with family? yesterday

Played a board game? literatiii!!! um yesterday night lol

DO YOU

Like to be active? yeah

Get online every night? yes

Think you are pretty? no

Play any sports? yes volleyball!

Watch TV a lot? i guess..?

Usually do your homework? yeah
Get upset when you get anything lower than a A on a test? depends on which test

Wish you could fly? YES!

Want to live in another country? kinda

Like the summertime? i kinda do already lol

Know how to snowboard? yeah but i'm really bad

Know how to surf? i think..

FAMILY

How many siblings do you have? 1

Are you the youngest? yes in my ENTIRE family (counting cousins)

Do you get along with your family? mostly

Do you hang out with your family a lot? yeah

Do you wish you had a twin sister/brother? noo

When you move out will you plan to keep in touch with your family? yes

Do you have family reunions? yeah for my dads family but i dont come

Do you wish you lived in another family? no

Have you ever told someone in your family that you hate them? no

HAVE YOU EVER

Wanted to kill yourself? no

Cussed? i shouldnt

Been embaressed and people still make fun of you for it? YES haha

Hurt someone close to you? i might've

Talked to someone on the phone for more than 3 hours? yeah

Cried for more than an hour? yeah

E-mail: crazygirl75@myway.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: sappyacorn2
Member Since: September 1, 2005
Answers: 15
Last Update: September 3, 2005
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what do you do when you have sex?does the man stick his dick in the woman's vagina?

what is head? _(link)

yup that's what happens... and head is like slang for when a girl does oral to a guy's penis, the rest is pretty self-explanatory lol. hope this helps!! =)

is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? _(link)

yeah i guess but you should realize that you two date for a year, and the guy becomes 18, it could be illegal. like it'll be a 15 year old girl dating an 18 year old, and i doubt you'll be prosecuted for that or anything but i'm just kind of warning you. i'm sure nothing will happen tho. just watch out because sometimes older guys tend to use younger girls. but if you two love each other, then yeah it's fine. it's only a 3 year difference tho, so whatever =D. hope this helps!!

hello. i have a boy who is like my best friend thats a guy. me & him are starting to fall in love more & more but he has a g/f who he is so fed up with && i have a friend who likes him alot. but we really want to be together :: what do i do ..i love him, he'll break up w/ her && ik my friend wouldnt care at the time since she has a boyfriend?? _(link)

ok your friend has a boyfriend but likes the guy. the guy has a girlfriend but you're positive he's going to break up with her right?? then you two should get together then. i mean, it's not illegal to have crushes on other people when you have a boyfriend, but you have the right to go out with him. the girl already has a boyfriend. is she planning on breaking up with him soon? or is their relationship bad? if that's the case, you could be in a bit of a danger spot. talk to her about it, how you two really like each other and how you know she likes him, and ask her if she's ok with it. if she isn't, she isn't really a good friend, plus she has a boyfriend. maybe give her some time then to get over it, then you could. you should always follow your heart (corny line i know lol, but seriously it's true). if she won't let you, she's not a true friend...sorry. anyways hope this helps-good luck!! =)

what are the bases..?

not like baseball, like..
kissing
french kissing
making out
sex

etc. etc.
_(link)

everyone thinks of the bases differently i guess but this is what i consider them as...

1st base-kissing, making out
2nd base-feeling and stuff..like handjob, etc..
3rd base-oral, like head, etc..
4th/home base-well sex

actually that's pretty much what everyone considers them as anyway lol. hope this helps! =)

how do u make mac n cheese? do u put the butter or milk or the cheese in? it confuses me _(link)

um milk?? lol i've never made mac & cheese before except for the microwaveable-kind like stoffers. you could try buying those, they're frozen and you can get them at like any grocery store. i don't think you use milk tho haha. maybe some butter i guess but i'm not sure and def cheese...it is mac & cheese after all. and buy some macaroni pieces too duh. maybe somke salt too?? sorry i can't cook for my life, i'd just buy the frozen microwaveable kind. sorry about that!! =(

well me and my boyfriend recently broke up .. about a month ago maybe .. and he still likes me .. but im starting to move on .. and ive been talking to this other kid .. but the problem is the kid im talking to now .. likes me a little bit but also likes another girl .. is there any way i could get him to notice me a little more .. and kind of focus more of his attention on me .. instead of her .. ? _(link)

ok well you could just keep on hanging out with him and being friends i guess, because if you get all mad about the fact that he likes this other girl that'll just be a pretty big turnoff. just act like you're all cool with that fact, because guys like confident girls, not whiny complaining girls. he already likes you a bit, so just become better friends with you. then he'll see what a great person you are and start to like you more. finally, he may start liking you more than that other girl, and who knows waht could happen between you two =D. make sure you don't stop being frineds. even tho i know you don't want to be just friends, being friends at first is a pretty big deal in cases like this. ok just stay cool, be yourself, and hope for the best. good luck!! =D

is there a difference between when...

*a guy and a girl hugging when they say hello

*&& a guy and a girl hugging when they say goodbye??

just wondering thanks! _(link)

um i don't really think it's that different. i mean, like hugging when they say hello may be if they haven't seen each other in a really long time (COULD be). as for hugging when they say goodbye, that could just be that they won't see each other again for a really long time (once again, COULD be..). if both times, i think they might really care about each other as either family, friends, or girlfriend/boyfriend. hope this helps!! =)

ahhhhh i was pressured to have sex recently. im very scared about diseases wut do i do?? my parents cant find out!!!!!!!!???? _(link)

what did you already do it?? did you use a condom or any birth controls?? if you didn't, then you can't really do anything about it now but you should definitely use a condom or something next time. you should go to the doctor and check and do a pregnancy test or HIV test or something.. if you can't do that without your parent's permission ( i think you do), you may have to tell your parents. but if you were pressured to do it, then that's considered rape!! and it's not your fault at all. it may be really embarassing to tell them, but it's better than ending up pregnant or some STDs and telling them later. the sooner the better i guess?? and who raped you?? taht person could be in jail for that because that is definitely a crime. IM me at sappyacorn2 k because you didn't give that much info??? hope this helps!!

i dont know what to do. i like my best friend, whose a guy. and his other best friend, whose a guy. its really weird to me & them. i dont know what to do! _(link)

well do they like you back or what?? if they both do, then that could be a problem. you may have to choose between them, because you can't go out with both guys. if only one of them does, then i'd probably go out with whoever that is because if you don't, you may lose your one opportunity and who knows if the other guy will like you back anyway?? if none of them do, then you can try flirting or hanging out with them to make at least one of them like you..hang out with your best friend a lot and see what happens. do they even know you like them?? if they do, then yeah it is kind of weird then. but you should just keep on hanging out with them like friends and see what happens. many good girl-boy friendships turn into relationships. you never know, life is full of surprises. anyways you didn't relaly give too much detail...so you can IM me at sappyacorn2 if i didn't really explain too much. sorry. hope this helps!! =D

Well my boyfriend broke up with me & i miss him so much. like it hurts so badly & knowing he doesnt want me back & i dont think i can make it. when he smiles at me it feels so good bc it seems like everything is guoing to go back to normal, but i no its not. so i no theres not but like if you have anyuthing to help me try & gethim back or his attention ... pleasee help ♥ _(link)

why did he break up with you?? is it because he just wanted to be friends or didn't think it would work out or what?? i don't know the reason, but he may still like you back..who knows?? but i think that he still likes you as a friend, if not more. he still smiles at you and all. you two are still friends, even if it's still really awkward between you two, you should still keep on hanging out with him and talking and stuff. keep on being friends, don't let this get in the way of everything. you still like him a lot, and make him sorry that he ever dumped you by being the greatest person you can be. if you two remain friends, there will still be a chance that you two will date later on. if you seriously can't hold it in any longer, then you can confess your feelings to him about how you still like him. see what he has to say about it, you may be surprised. stay friends, that's for sure. i'm so sorry about all of this though =(. but for now, just try to pretend you're over this and act like a friend, and he'll start talking to you and you two could get something going =D. hope this helps!! IM me at sappyacorn2 if you need more...x33

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