Honestly, I have a little saying: There's a reason he's in your past. Don't go back to him. I've seen people do it time and again and get hurt every single time. If he was worth everything, he'd be in your present and in your future.

Now, as for your bf, you need to sit and think about whether or not your feelings for your ex are affecting your feelings for your bf. Are they fair to him? Is he going to stay by your side while you attempt to get over your ex? Ask yourself questions like that and decide if you should still be with your current boyfriend. You can even go so far as to tell him how you feel (only recommended for VERY FEW boyfriends), and he might be willing to help you.

Hun, to put your fears aside, HE DOES NOT HATE YOU. He wouldn't get that mad if he did. It sounds like he might actually love you. Guys can get really protective when they are in love. He's probably not answering his phone because he's trying to calm down. He cares about you and he hates that you weren't willing to tell anyone that someone hurt you. What you need to do is just give him time. Chances are, he will come back to you. To me it sounds like he will. Time is all you can do right now. And when he comes back, don't bite off his head for doing this. Just be understanding. Trust me on this, he cares about you. A lot. Please let me know how this turns out.

In my honest opinion, you'd almost be better off by yourself at this point. And you will always love Justin. That's just how it is. If you truly loved someone, you will never stop loving them. But obviously you did worry about him cheating on you, even if he denied it. And if yall were fighting all the time, then that's not a healthy relationship and it can damage you in the long run. As for Kyler, yes, he sounds great. But if you don't really like him, then you only do damage. You're leading him on, which will come out sooner or later. What you need to do is break it off with both of them and just focus on you for a little bit. Think about what you want in a guy, and don't settle for the major problems (like continuously fighting). Set your standards and look for someone to meet those standards. Although you just need to keep in mind that some of those standards will have to be bent every now and then. For example, I have the standard two years up, one year down, but the guy that I really like right now is four years older. But because that one's not a major problem for me, I can bend on it. When you set your standards, make sure you know which ones you are willing to bend on and how much you're willing to bend, and which ones you're not. Now, all of this is in my opinion. I am in no way telling you that you have to do any of this, but I really think that it would be healthy for you and any and all future relationships. Good luck and please let me know how this turns out!

She's flat out lying to you. I'm sorry, but she is. If she changes her story after she finds out specific information, it's a lie. I hate to be blunt about it, but she is.

Ok, first off? Please use periods. The run on sentence gets kind of confusing.

And you wanna know what you should do? Quite simple really: talk to him. Truly talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he feels the same great, if he doesn't, that just gives you the incentive to move on. Because, trust me, you're not going to move on until you know for a fact that there's no chance. I know, because I'm the same way. If I like someone and I can't get over them, I just tell them. If they like me, we end up dating, if they don't, I move on because I know. It's a lot easier to move on when there's no hope. That sounds bad, but it's true. Just don't get defensive about him flirting; that just might be the type of guy that he is and it will put him on the defensive and then yall will get into a fight, and it'll just get messy. Nerves are a given, but that'll only make you stronger.

I really hope you take my advice. Either way, you'll be happier in the end. Good luck!

You have food poisoning. If it were morning sickness, it would have hit you then been gone, and it would have been affected by movement or smell. Also, if you've felt bad all day, that's another sign that it's food poisoning. It also takes around two months for you to get morning sickness. But if you're still worried, you can always take an at-home pregnancy test.

I used to be the same way. All I can say is:

FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT

Seriously. It works. Especially if the guy has no idea who you are to begin with. Take a deep breath, walk by him, smile and say hi. Then just keep walking. Great way to start, and it will definately get the guy's attention without you coming off deperate. Good luck!

Ok, first off: props on knowing that you were, indeed, in a slutty position. Proud of you for that.

As for your help? You just need to move on. This guy is a jerk. He DOES NOT deserve your time. If he goes around trying to destroy your reputation, remind him that he wanted it, too, and his girlfriend would definately get doubtful if it were to be brought up. To make yourself feel better, there is nothing better than to hang out with friends that care about you. This will cheer you up. Then, when you're alone, don't let the voices tell you that you're a slut. You are what you choose to be. If you tell yourself you're a slut, then you are a slut. If you tell yourself that you are better than that, that you deserve better, then you really do. Don't allow other people to decide who you are. The only person who's opinion matters is yours, anyways. If someone is going to try and bring you down, or they don't except you for who you are, then they are not worth your time or energy. And allowing yourself to feel ashamed is letting them have all of that.

Keep in mind that I am not, in any way, telling you to forget what happened. Just the opposite. If you forget this whole 'incident' then you really are stupid and you need to get help. You need to forgive yourself for making a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone deserves to be forgiven for them. That is all this is: a mistake. Granted, it has some major reprecussions, but it is still a mistake that you should learn from and move on from. Accept it as part of your past and something that you will not go back to. Once you do that, you will be able to stop feeling ashamed for a mistake that you made. I wish you luck. It sounds like crap, and I really hope you take my advice. Remember: friends and self-thought!

First off? Learn to spell. No offense, but I can tell that you're in eighth grade by the way you write short-hand. It's also rather irritating to read.

But that's off topic. What I would say is that who you date is not up to your parents. You really can't control who you like or don't. But you can control how you tell your parents. Approach them maturely, letting them know that you like Kenny, regardless of how he looks. After all, who really needs to be the one that likes him? You or your parents? Let them know how you feel about him. Just, make sure not to use the word 'love.' I know you've probably heard it before, but you really are too young to truly understand what love is, so be careful around that word. I don't know if that's how you would describe how you feel about him, just warning you: that will definately get you a no. Let them know that you care about their approval, and tell them about him. If they still tell you that he's the ugliest person on the planet, tell them that it's not what you think, and it's your opinion that matters in the relationship. Whatever you do, make sure to be mature about it, otherwise you will come off as a bratty, complaining little kid that just needs to shut up. So be careful how you approach it. Good luck!

I would have to agree with everyone else. Honestly, my first thought was that you're a jerk. If you're that unhappy with the relationship, end it. It doesn't sound like you feel guilty about it, which means that you definately are over the first realtionship. You should at least take a step back and figure out what you want. Then you can figure out who you want, and you can be in a relationship with the one that will make you happy. Just a warning though: the second one will always wonder if you're cheating on her. After all, if you're willing to cheat WITH her, why wouldn't you cheat ON her? Just, be careful.

Ok, I'm going to say this as bluntly as possible: it does not sound worth it at all. If she isn't allowing you to do the things you love, or she's controlling your life this much, then she is not the one that you want to be with. And if you have problems finding someone to talk to, just find someone that you pass on the street and say hello, but not in the creeper way. Just talk to someone, you just might meet your next girlfriend or a new friend. As for the kind, caring and respectful part? If she really were all that, she would let you live your own life. I don't mean to get down on the girl you love, but she doesn't seem to be the one that would be good for you. And as a last point, you should never have to TRY to stay with someone. Yes, when you get into a fight, it will take work, but you should never stay in a relationship for the other person or because you feel like you have to. You have to be happy, too. In reality, everything I just said has nothing to do with your choice: you have to make the right choice for YOU. I really hope you do. Please, let me know how it works. Good luck.

Hey everybody! I am a 17 (almost 18!! :) ) year old girl that is here because I hate it when people look for help and there's no one there to give it. I am here for anyone that needs help, even if it is just venting. My goal in life is to make a change in at least one person's life, and this is one way that I hope to do that. If you have any questions or advice or just need someone to talk to, just message me. I'm always here to listen and help.

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