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I like him so much. We have been through so much. He turned me down once but we didn't really know each other then. We have become good friends. When we aren't around everyone we talk and smile and flirt. But when we are we don't talk but we do look at each other except apparently I look too much b/c he said that my eyes were like lasers and he can't sleep at night. I hope I didn't push me away by doing that. Do you think we could have a chance? (link)
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heyy. yes you do as long as you keep the relationship heathy. dont push anything. dont be too attached either. i knwo your excited about having a boyfrined but dont push it. keep flirting and smiling tho.hope i have helped. please rate.
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ok so I really like this kid and he likes me. He's supposed to be coming over before school starts with my cousin and her bf. The thing is, my mom doesn't want us in the house because it's "nice" outside. I really wanna do stuff with him but where and how?? And also, if we do happen to do stuff what can I do to make it not feel so awkward?? thanks (link)
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hey. if you have a woodsy area then go there. and also start out with a little gmae of spin the bottle then if it feels right make out with him. hope i have helped. please rate.
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OK i have been going out with this guy for a few weeks and we havent gone anywhere or anything he also goes to a different school. SO then i wouldnt know if hes cheating on me or not. Hes really nice and all but im not shure if i should dump him or not. I RATE HIGH!!!!!!
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heyy. uhh t seems to me like he is cheating on you. but im not sure. answet thhis question. has he called you emailed you imed you or wrote a letter to you. if he hasnt he doesnt wanna stay in contact with you and he isnt intersted he probably just went out with you so he wouldtn be single sorry if things dont work out hope i have helped please rate
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well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I?? (link)
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hello. i think you should tell him how you feel. its not good to keep it all bottled up inside. always express your feelings. also if you always keep in contact with him you wont grow apart. use the phone use aim use emails use letters. hope i have helped. please rate
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ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me. (link)
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heyy .. normally its the girl that would do something first and if your guy is loyal enough then he wont go through with whatever the girl is trying to do so just try to relax and trust your guy and his sister would tell you so just ask his sister for a full report when she gets back or even ask your guy about ti if you feel comfortable enough to
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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?
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heyy .. you cant make somebody like/love you so your just gonna have to flirt alot smile alot and keep eye contact alot and just let it happen
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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger? (link)
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heyy .. no it is not wrong trust me my dad goes out with a girl that is 5 years older then him there is no problem with that and if anyone does say something to you dont pay attention to it and just ignore them they are jealous of you and that guy
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MY ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he said he wanted to be alone and needed to "grow up" some. I understand but he wants to be friends, he left me with this and said that he wasnt in any attempt to get my hopes up that he meant this " you are my first love and i want you to be my last" How would you interpret it? (link)
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heyy .. umm it seems to me like he is sending you the messgae he doesnt like you anymore sorry but that might not be it im not always right you should confront him about the whole situation that would help alot
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I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me (link)
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heyy .. umm maybe you need a quick and short weekend break away from him you should plan a trip with a few friends and go away from the weekend your boyfriend should do the same and then once you guys get back you will realize how much you truly miss each other and will plan a romantic night togehter
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okay i no this guy and we have been friends for a few months and he asked me out one time and then we broke up after 3 days and like a month later we went out agian and i broke up wiht him because i didnt like hi anymore and now i like him agian and he went to france and is coming back on july 8 , but when he gets bac i think he is giong to ask out this other girl (not my friend or anything) ......what should i do ...do you think he will ever like me agian?!?
signed ..reply fast !! i need hep! (link)
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heyy .. umm it seems like you guys dont make a very good couple if you keep breaking up and chances are that if you end up back togehter you will break up quick and early again but if your heart is telling you otherwise and to go out with him then go for it and be bold and just ask him out
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ok my step bro (hoo i reallllllllllllly like) os going to camp for two months and i will miss him so much what do i do to stop thinking about him (link)
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heyy .. uhh go out with friends and have funn and just know that he is safe and he will be coming home before you know it
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OK, i am 14, and just going into highschool.I am going to an all girls school. I have never been boycrazy, i havent even gone out with a boy or anything. I do have a lot of friends who are guys. I really want a boyfriend, but going to an all girls highschool will make it harder. I am also an EXTREME tomboy, and i'm not really fat, just bulky and muscular. How do i get guys to like me? And what can i do to get a bf when im going to an all girls school? help me, i rate high!! (link)
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heyy .. it doesnt matter what school you go to you can still get a boyfriend you just gotta kinda be at the right place at the right time have your guy friend or girl friend introduce you to some cool guys and maybe you`ll learn that one of them is boyfriend material once you get to know him and since your a tomboy i think you would go best with a skater boy
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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
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heyy .. okay DO NOT kill yourself or hurt yourself 1st it solves nothing a perfect example is this quote i found for youur problem : -->>
&& as the blood ran from her veins
she realized he wasnât worth the
. xX p a i n Xx .
okay just think about it after he called you all those hurtful things you really want him back? tehre are better people out tehre for ou and your dont deserve him or his shit he is putting you through read this quote -->>
" yeah,there will be people in your lives that will play games with your head, they will say one thing & then do something completely different that makes you change your mind on everything you ever thought of them. Sometimes you feel so alone even when your surrounded by people, deep inside you feel hurt but can't describe the pain.. the ones who really do care about you will show it. Don't assume they care, if they do things to show it then they proved they do. Don't tollerate things people do or say to you that you know you don't deserve. Lifes too short to put up with peoples bullshit basically"
that is so truew for you and everyone so just basically dont put up with him and just find a better man then him have a guy friend indrouce you to some new boys
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i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference? (link)
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heyy .. umm you should ask your parents for permisson to invite him over to meet him and see how nice he is thats the 1st thing you have to do and then maybe ask your parents if you could all go out to like dinner and then a movie have them sit a bit away from you too and have them watch your actions so they can see that he is nice and then maybe they will understand your point of view then but dont nag them
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What exactly does it mean when a guy gives a girl his jacket? Does it have any significance because you see it alot in movies & stuff. Is it "guy code" for anything? (link)
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heyy .. he is just showing a girl that he cares about her its just a kinda flirty thing
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ok so i went to camp and thought this guy was goin to ask me out. turns out he asked out one of my bff's. o well like goes on. so there was this really sweet guy there and i like him. my 2 guy friends told me that he liked me. but he like never talked to me after they told me. and he started flirting w/my friends. so i told my guy friend to tell him that i liked him but since it seemed like he liked my 3 friends i didnt like him anymore and other stuff. my friend didnt and now i really wished he did. well i cant stop thinking about him but i like this other guy 2 and hes moving. i dont no what to do.
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heyy .. okay the guy at camp doesnt like you sorry to say but you are wayy too good for him so move on and about teh guy that is moving dont get involed with him because he is moving and when he moves you will be sooo upset so dont do that just look for other guys and keep your options open ad your guy will come someday
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ok there is this guy who is really nice and smart...we dont really talk and i havent thought of him as a love interest until recently..hes going to my parrty im having in a couple weeks..any advice on how i can see if he likes me too?any ideas of how i can flirt with him? (link)
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heyy .. uhh just have allot of eye contact with him and smile alot towards him give him the idea that your interested in him
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The other night at my sleepover I called this guy that I really like. My one friend that was there really likes him too. I told him that he should come over and watch movies with us. We didn't think he'd take it seriously, but he did and he asked if he could come. We told him that my dad would kill me if he did and I know that he really wanted to come over. We told him there was enough room between me and my friend that liked him for him. We think he likes both of us, but we dunno. Does this sound like he likes me more? or what? plz help!! (link)
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heyy .. you dont know until you ask him so ask him and make the 1st move and hpefully it will work out
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I am now fifteen and the last time i liked a guy while we were going out was when i was twelve. its fucked up cause i've gone out with guys since then; and i've had crushes; but as soon as we're actually together the idea of commitment totally turns me off and i stop liking him. And even when we've broken up i remain totally possessive; i get jealous of him and tell him to wait for me and not date anyone else. It seems like I only want what i can't have, and i never want to keep anything thats too easily won. it's nice for the first few days... but then it actually seems like im tired of being involved. what the fuck is wrong with me? could it have anything to do with my mistrust in love, or perhaps my broken family? (link)
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heyy .. maybe it has to do with your broken family maybe your dad your sad or worrying about is making you think of boys your age bad or reminding you of a divorce thats totally possible but just follow your heart and dont change for anyone and you will find the right guy and go out with him for a long time
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Me and my best friend both like the same guy, and obviously we both know about it. We think he likes both of us too, but we're not 100% sure. If he does like both of us we're not sure what to do because we both like him. I was thinking that we could let him decide, but if he picks her (which I figure he will cause I think she's pretter than me) I'll probably feel hurt. And it's probably the same with her! Does anyone have any ideas?? (link)
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heyy .. let him pcik like you said and just because you think she is prettier doesnt mean he will pick her he could be looking for personality or something
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