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Q: I'm going to the movies tomorrow with my BF. I really wanna make out with him but idk how and i find french kissing discusting (Ive never done it but still just the thought of it creeps me out) Is there anyway to make out WITHOUT using the tongue?
PLEASE ANSWER THIS! I RATE HIGH!
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Sure, you can still give open-mouth kisses without using tongue. If he tries to french you, just bite down real hard (j/k)! You may want to try it a little bit, you might change your mind about it once you've had some.
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Q: this might seem weird, but i fell in love with a guy i met online. last night we talked for like 7 or 8 hours, maybe longer. but the thing is, today i remembered that i had lied to him about something. and i felt bad so i e-mailed him and told him. he just kind of laughed it off, but then he was like "so does this mean i can go out with someone else?" so then he explains to me that this whole time he liked another girl and that he can't trust me now...yet he still "loves" me. it makes me feel awful, i told him that i was a year older than i really was. he says it doesn't bother him, but yet he's confusing me by saying he loves me but he just wants to be friends so he can go out with this girl. i guess my question is..what can i do to get his trust back? i'm really going to miss talking to him the way i used to...
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In order to love someone, you've got to completely trust them. If he says he loves you but doesn't trust you, one of those two things is a lie. It's not even really your fault at this point, and there's nothing you can do to repair what you did. If anything, he's at fault for throwing around that word love while saying he doesn't trust you and is interested in someone else. I know it sucks, but you probably know this already - it really does sound like he's just trying to figure out how much he can push your relationship and date two women by calling one "just a friend". Trust is funny, because it works both ways. I think he's broken yours as well. If he hasn't, you may want to consider breaking it for him. I'm not sure if this other girl is real or not, maybe he's just trying to get back at you because he's hurt, but if it's true, then people in love don't blackmail each other like that, and he's pretty scummy for using that word with you.
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Q: I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade. Im not really skinny but medium. I have never been asked out by a guy and I dont really want a bf but I want to be liked. I play sports and am kind uf tomboyish. Also usually I panick if I find out I guy just likes me a little and say something mean. How should I handle a guy that like me w/o bursting on him, is it bad ive never had a bf or been asked out, and should I be more girlish?
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No, not at all. Guys are just as scared as girls are when it comes to asking people out, maybe moreso. I knew lots of girls (myself included!) that didn't really have lots of boyfriends in school, but it turned out later that there were a lot of secret crushes we didn't know about until we were much older. Don't panic if you find out someone likes you, you don't have to give any kind of answers to him at all - just take a step back and watch and listen, which also gives you a chance to see if they really do like you, and what you might want to do about it. Don't try and be more girlish, guys obviously like you, and I'll bet there's a lot more you don't even know about.
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Q: There is this one guy I REALLY like and he likes me too. Part of me wants to just ask him out cause I KNOW i like him. But, Part of me wants him to ask me. We are BEST friends and right now I feel like I can tell him ANYTHING. So I'm kind of confused on if I want him to be more than we are? Or if I should just ask him out? Or how can I get him to ask me out? Or what do you guys think?
Thanx in advance
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Why not just go out somewhere together, as friends, maybe a little more romantic than somewhere you'd usually go, and see what happens? You can be a little flirty to encourage him, but I think that sort of thing works best when it's not pushed too hard into formal askings-out.
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Q: Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks.
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Have you talked to him about this at all? You don't have to be all up-ons, but I do think you should let him know you're pretty confused, and you want to know why he did that, and what's in store for the future, if anything. I'll bet he's pretty confused too - it sounds like he's got feelings for more than one person, and it might take time to sort out what he wants to do. (You'll probably need to figure out what you might say to him if he asked you to go out with him while he's going out with/pursuing other people too - some people are OK with that, some people just can't do that.) But: If he's a good guy friend, your first duty is to help him through whatever he's going through.
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Q: I really like this guy. Whenever he IMs me it makes my heart jump. He know a WHOLE lot about me and my life. I think he knows to much though where hell think that im not good enough. Also I dont know if he likes me back. I have 2 classes with him tis year and Im scared ill embaress myself in front of him. How do I know if he likes me? Also hes a different race. Like not mexican but like sometin around there. My family doesnt really support mixed races but I really would like yo go out with him. I really dont care what they say but if I ever go out with him should I tell my family right away?
BTW>Im 13/f...8th grade
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See if you can take him on a "date" - it doesn't have to be a "real" date, just go out somewhere with him and see what happens. You won't embarass yourself if you remember that you like him, but you're also close friends. I wouldn't worry about your parents until you know exactly how he feels about you, and if you're going to be bf/gf. Then you should probably tell them what you like about him and see if you can do something all together, so they get a chance to like him. (If I were in your shoed, I might not mention anything about his race at all - if they start liking him beforehand, then it's hard for them to go back on that later, but I don't know if that's a really good idea.)
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Gender: Female Age: 24 Member Since: August 21, 2005 Answers: 25 Last Update: September 20, 2005 Visitors: 2570
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