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Someone told him i liked him and so i had a friend go ask him if he likes me and he said he hates me. I still like him and the girl who told him is my friend. What do i do?


13/f

one thing for sure is to get over him because if he said that to your friend you must feel humilated but you like him to much to let go anyhows you cant let a guy make you look bad just show him that you dont care about him and that he is not important cause who knows just maybe your friend can be lying to but you cant let a guy do you wrong like that so just be strong and dont let him bring you down and also find out if your friend is saying the truth

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Ok here's my situation! Sorry if its long!

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together 18 months this month! I'm 18 and he's 20! I live with my grandparents and my Nan is strict! She has this thing where were only allowed to see each other on the weekend but since I have turned 18 (May this year) things have slowly started to turn and i'm allowed to see him throughout the week but I always have a curfew.. which sometimes doesn't bother me!

She doesn't know that I sleep at his house nearly every weekend, she thinks I stay at a friends house. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, everything was and still is perfect.

Because my Nan is strict we do everything to spend every second together! I know it sounds like high school love but we really love each other.

The thing is its nearly time for our sport season to start again.. My trainings are on Monday and Wednesday nights and his are on Tuesday and Thursday nights and our games are on Saturday afternoons! But my boyfriend has to travel every second weekend to play his sport and because mine is on the same day we can't always give up our sports and let our teams down to see each other. He leaves really early in the morning and gets back late at night.

We also work during the day, I work from 9 til 5 and he works from 6am til 3 in the afternoon. So during the day is out!

I guess i'm just scared of us growing apart if we weren't to have anytime together anymore! I'm probably just being stupid but it's just how I feel.

I have spoken to him about it and he understands but then he said he wont play his sport this year.. I told him not to be like that, I don't expect him to give up his sport for me! That's just out of the question!

I just don't know what to do! We love each other so much, I was a bit insecure and had a few issues with school and home before I met him and I feel like I can just be myself when i'm around him! I love him and his company and his family and we just have so much fun when were together. I can't stand to let anything come between us!

I know that if we love each other as much as we say we do nothing will come between us but how do you stay as close to someone if you hardly get to see them anymore? I don't want him to grow apart from me!

Thanks so much for your help :)

tru love never falls apart.ok what you did was wrong doing things behind your granparents and your nan because they give you there trust and you took advantage of them but anyways goin to the subject sometimes in love you have to do scrafices it may be seeing each other less or your bf quitting is sport but if you think anout it if hes willin to do the scracfice to give up his sports for you i think distance wont make ya apart.you should think are you insecure of him cheating on you cause you dont see him alot and know wat hes doin or is it really wat you say, its hard sometimes to go threw this sitiuations but sometimes with love and trust you can overcome anything .also remember if ya brake up it was meant to happen n eventually you can avoid braking up but you cant avoid whats meant to be think of this as a test and then if ya pass this ya was really meant to be
hope i helped a lil

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i just got asked out by this really tall guy. like really tall. i dont kno if i like him, but n e ways.. im gunna c.
so, about kissing. iv never kissed anyone let alone someone so much taller than me. what do i do?

its going to be werid but most important before you kiss him make sure you are comfortable with him and let him kno that you never kissed a guy before so that when you kiss him you feel confident and comfortable and if this dont help you just follow what he does and try to play it off lol

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i think i like this guy but i dont know, how are you sure if u like something?
13/f
ill rate. thanks

the onlt way you know if you like a guy is if you think about him a lot and when he talks to you , you get real happy or if hes with a grl you get real jealous and when you dont see him you kind of get sad, hope my answer helps you

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I still really really like my ex grilfriend from the beginning of summer and i havent stopped liking her since. Well i was thinking next time i go over her house and im with her and maybe 2 other people, is if i bring one of those ipod radio setups where you hook up the ipod and play it in the radio. Because me and her have a song from when we used to go out which she is still in love with so i was thinking why dont you turn on channel so and so, and then ill have the song playing on my ipod while it gets sent to the radio and i wont let her know i set it all up?? hows that?

But i also have to find a way to get bak over her house again. Thats a whole different story...

that so cute she will like that but make sure she dont have a boyfriend or is talkin to some one because you dont want to feel dum but you should definetly do it

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Hey, i NEED help. i really like this guy. but he has a girlfriend. but he made a move on me. i dont know what to do. i think i do have feelings for him. but i dont know what to do. Should I tell him how i feel? or should i just be close friends??????

Thanks...*

what ever you do do not be his gf while he has one cause u wouldnt like to get played anyways tell him how you feel if he feel the same way he will leave his girl 4 u

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