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I'm a 13 year old boy and I don't have a girlfriend when mostly everyone does. I like some of the girls at my school do not think they like me as much as I like them. How do I get the girls to like me?
I'm in texas by the way. (link)
The boy I like got me by flirting a lot. Always comfurting me, reconizing my emotions. ALWAYS ALWAYS making me laugh. Hes not the hottest boy but hes got the best personality. He is sweet to those he cares about like me but a jerk to other people. He pokes girls and tickles them a lot. Good luck!


how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks. (link)
Try to like surround yourself with friends, and a lot of other activities. Don't let yourself have like free time. When you are doing like something where like you are just doing nothing and you have a lot of time to think, think about other things like mulitpictaion problems. Make up problems in your head complicated ones and try and solve them. Its challenging and distracting and if he does come into your mind just come up with something anything else. If you like a certian tv show think about the hot guy in that show but only for a little while. After a while he will fade away and you will be able to study more easily again. My best friend is going threw this exact same thing right now. Good luck. Don't ever give up maybe he is ment to be on your mind. But good luck.


k, theres this dude and hes like... SUPER hot. But hes making my grades go down cus i can't focus on anything but him. He has a gf and theres only a few weeks left of school, so thats how long i have any chance of getting him cus he problly wont ask me out ova summer break. so ya, wat do i do???

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-brittany (link)
Dear So Hot's Lover,
Keep your hopes up, but study more. Instead of distracting yourself by thinging of him pay attention to your homework and in class. Try going to the library at lunch to help yourself get more done. Also listen to your wonderful amazing smart beautiful talented best person ever friend Kayla. She knows everything, so listen to her. And give her a 5! Have fun lover girl get smart. Love ya!
XOXOXOXO
The wonderful amazing smart beautiful talented best person ever


I lovee my current girlfriend soo much! SHe has been gone for 10 days on vacation with her parents to Canada. Last night I had two friends over. One is an ex who I am still good friends with. The history on us? It was a short 1 month thing. The classic friends giving the 'somethin more than friends' thing a try that didnt go well.
Well me and her were laying on my bed and my friend was next to us. Her body was not close to mine..but i was resting my head close to her and my hand was on her shoulder. I was extremely tired about to fall asleep. Is this cheating in some way to you? I mean i have other friends that are girls who will rest their head on my stomach while playing video games..and it is absolultey nothin romantic about it because we are strictly friends and both have different love interests and 'types.'
My ex thinks it was nothin..but should i tell my gf about this? If she ever found out she would flip out because she is extremely sensitive on the topic of me and my ex. She finds it odd we hang out because we are exes. *keep in mind its not like i hang out alonnne with this girl* I have a big group of friends kind of and we hang out together kind of thing.

well..do i have anything to feel guilty about? (link)
If I wear your girlfriend I would want to know. I think you should tell her. Explain there was nothing ment by this and you weren't alone someone else was there. Tell your girlfriend you didn't want to hide this from her because then it would seem like you should be guilty like you did something wrong. I don't think you need to feel guilty but you shouldn't hide it. It will haunt you then. It wasn't cheating tho.


Ok well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He says that he loves me and wants to be with me forever!! But the problem is is that he is a sweet kind loving boyfriend when nobody is around and when he is with his friends he acts all Mr.Big Shot and treats me like a dog or dirt. I kind of feel like a booty call to other guyes cause thats all that they seem to do, but when I am with him I don't feel that way at ALL!! I don't know and it is starting to bother me. I have had talks with him and he says that he will stop,... but it seems that he never does!! SO SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok, my friend had this same problem. Sweet boy, not so sweet around his friends. Sometimes boys have an apperence they have to keep up. But it is not ok for him to treat you this way. Tell him that if he does this again you will not hang out with him and his friends. It isn't fair to you. I hate to say this but if he continues to do this I think you should dump him. You are too good to be treated like a booty call. Best of luck to you.


ok there is my bff fo life friemd jaime and she lieks me and i like her but im not sure what to do cause i havent been in a real relationship in awhile so im nervous.....i also want to remain friends so idk if i should date her.....but i like her shes the best person ive ever met....but i dont want to lose her...wat should i do...? wat should i do/
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Well me and this guy were bffs and we both liked eachother and I waited for him to ask me out, and he never did something always came up, everytime he was about to ask I was upset or something and we just never could get to it. Eventually we gave up and with that our friendship went out the window. For awhile we didn't talk much, now we our back to talking everyday, I think we would have been better going out and breaking up then doing that dance. I say ask her out, once friends always friends. Good luck.


this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks (link)
I wouldn't hope that she would leave him for you because if she does then she will mostlikly be a drifter and just leave you for someone else. Just wait it out, hope for the best that they break up. Good Luck.




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