Hi,My name is Beck and I am 23 years old. I am currently attending a RMIT dental school in Melbourne Australia to get my qualifications. I have been with my partner for nearly 6 years now and have been married for 1 of those 6 years. I love to help people in any way that I can. Please don't be afraid to ask me a question.
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how do you prove love to someone you love? (link)
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It is hard to say how to prove to someone that your love them. It depends on how long you have known them. The best way to do it is to say those three little words I Love You. Wanting to be around them and cuddling also makes a nice love scene for you and your partner.
Good luck
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ok, so i am 15 now and ive never had a boyfriend. and im a girl, obviously.
but anyways, i really like this one kid and he knows and has for like a year now, and ive liked him for about 2 years all together. but overall, i dont know how to flirt without it being awkward and obvious. i feel really wierd when i do.. i mean, i feel obvious. i have so little confidence in myself that i just try to avoid it all together. but it really became clear to me that i have to do something when my friend said that i 'flirt more with girls than guys' and that hurt me.
so basically, what should i do!?
i want SOMETHING to be different this year :/ (link)
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Ok. To flirt you just need to be yourself. Laugh at things he says (even if its nots funny), and do minor touching. Maybe when your laughing give his arm a little tap. Normally that can give them a little hint that you like them.
For the second part of your question it is hard for me to say what to talk about. Since you have known him for a while you should have an idea on his interests. When interests have finished then go onto friends or teachers and what he thinks of them. Then hint in by asking what movies he likes and if he would like to go and see one with you.
I really hope things work out for you.
Good luck
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I met a girl at a party this weekend and ever since, we've talked for hours every day. I know she really likes me, and I'm starting to feel the same about her. She seems like she's the kind of person who dates for fun, though..and doesn't take it seriously. I'm all about having fun, but that's not all dating is, and I'm afraid she might think it is. I'm afraid she'll drop me quickly because she seems like she gets bored easily.
Any advice? Thx.
16/m (link)
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Ok. I think you should date her if thats what she wants but take it slowly. Don't get your heart set on a relationship with her too quickly. Taking it slowly will also mean your heart won't be broken too easily. Bear in mind you are only 16 and have the rest of your life to find the perfect girl.
Good luck
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okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great one. but this year i had the feeling that he still liked me because he would flirt with me all the time. but then he is now dating another girl who i really do not believe things will work out with. but my question is that do you think i should tell him my feelings toward him? im not sure because he is dating a girl who he seems to like but i really want to let him know how i feel. and the girl he is dating is one of my semi-good friends too so i wouldnt want to hurt her either. but i dont know. i just want to know if there is a chance of us ever being together. but i dont know how i would talk to him about this. i need advice on what i would say. or the fact that i should even say anything at all. im just so confused.
it would be greatly apprciated if someone would give me some advice on this. it means alot to me. i will rate high too if you give me some good advice.
thanks,
juliaaaa (link)
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Hi julia,
I suggest not letting him know how you feel. Since you have known him for such a long time and you are pretty much best mates, telling him how you feel would ruin your friendship with him. Even if you did date him, if you broke up it would become rather awkward for you both to talk to each other.
I hope I have helped
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there isa guy in my art class who i think likes me and he is relly sweet but he is engaged i don't know if iam getting mixed signals or what i am so confused!!! (link)
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Two words. "Don't bother". There is one thing you don't do and thats mess around with an engaged or married man. If you were to hook up with him and ruin his engagement it will come back and bite you eventually. Men think with their little friend then with their brains.
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okay okay okay. so sorry if this is a bit long. butttt. um so my friend has this boyfriend. but she likes this other kid. and i like the other kid too.. =[ and i justt kinda realized it. cuz we were at a party and me and the kid, we`ll call him D.. we were flirtingg and stuff and i eally like him. and eh might like me.
Oh and Friday we were at a football gamee. and D was thereee. and two of my friends was like you two would look soo cute together. and he juss looked at me and smileddd.
what do i do? =[ (link)
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I am curious on how old you are but I will work without age for now. I think you need to tell him how you feel. Just tell him you really like him and see what he says. His answer to that will pave the way for the next portion of the conversation. Good luck
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i know this is long but i really need some help.......hi im a soph guy and i like this freshman girl and i met her 2 years ago and just met her again this year in math class..anyway theres something about her that makes me really care for her i havent told her that yet but the problem is that we were talking since school sarted about a week and a half and on saturday we were supposed to hang out but her mom made her go to her neighbors get together and that same night a guy asked her out and she said yes...we talked a little since then but it seems like its not the same since i dont know her thta well i didnt think this would bother me but it really does so i dont know if i should tell her how i feel and risk her either not talking to me or possibly have her feel that way about me too...but if i dont i feel like i wont know whta could happen..or should i wait until they break up? please help im so confused thanks in advance (link)
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You need to think. You don't know her that well and letting her know how you feel will not ruin anything. In this particular situation she will either be flattered by your feelings for her and say she is involved or she will accept your feelings. You don't know unless you try.
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To many boys. I don't know. I just got done going out with this really nice kid. He was a player though. He broke up with me 5 days after. He said everything was going fine before. We watched a movie, snuggled, swam. The usual. Well that night he broke up with me and was like " I can't take the rumors " I shouldn't have gone out with him in the first place, for 2 reasons: 1 he took this toy thing and won't give it back, and 2 he is a player. He said we were goin to last forever though, psh. whatever. now he is going back out with his ex. CRAZINESS! because she isn't aloud to have a boyfriend so they won't ever get to do anything together. ugh. back on topic. i like only a few guys at my school. i don't know how to tell if they are players or not. I really hate breaking up with people and i hate when they break up with me. i don't know if i should like someone this year...the hot ones either have girlfriends or they are going to. and the ugly ones that are nice, aren't experienced. what do i do?? i need your advice. (link)
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To know who is a player can depend on how many girlfriends they have had in the past. Normally attitude shows alot. In my experience love comes down to fate. Don't think about meeting a guy. If it's going to happen it will happen. Be patient and Mr Right will come to you and sweep you off your feet.
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i dated my ex for 2 years.
he broke up with me around 2 months ago.
during the day i feel good about myself, like i can get over him, but one the night time comes around, i cry, alot. he still kisses me and holds me and stuff, but he talks to these 2 girls that don't like me, and they always talk a lot about me, and seeing him flirting w/ them and stuff hurts me alot. so i have 2 questions
1) how can i make nights any easier for me? i'm so sick of feeling sorry for myself.
2) how can i just ignore who he talks to. i try so hard not to, but i can't help it. (link)
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The answer to question 1 is...If he can get on with his life then so can you. Go out and have fun. Find a nice guy to talk to or even just have fun with the girls.
The answer to question 2 is...Lift your head up and stick your chest out. You need to realise you are better then those people are. If they don't like you fine, they don't have to and you don't have to like them either.
Don't worry. I know you'll be fine.
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