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I am 13 years old and a girl that needs a lot of help. Today at lunch I found out my best friend likes me and he thinks I like him back. My Best Friend is the nerd if the school. He asked me out and we have been friend for 5 years. I like him as a friend but all of my other friend said to go on pity date with him. you know dance with him once at a dance then say this won't workout. I don't want to though because my other friend told me that he thinks I like him back but I don't! What should I do please help me. I want to be his friend but not his girlfriend! (link)
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tell him to his face that you want nothing more than to be a friend. and who says regular friends cant dance? tell him you dont feel that way about him but you care about him tell him that you dont want to date because dating ruins friendships and his is just one you cant lose.
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I have a so call boyfriend but i don't think me and him are actually going out,because 1 thing is i see him trying to flirt with a girl,me and this girl were friends but not no more because see talked about me and she is a backstabbing girl and anytime i have a boyfriend she is trying to flirt with him. And i asked him was going on with you and her and he said nothing. But i don't believe him, how do you know if a boy is cheating on you or not? (link)
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honestly if there is a sitaution in which the only person you can trust is yourself then its not worth looking into that deep. if you cant trust him or her then drop them both they are not worth the struggle
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I am from india.I am a college student.I am having a boyfriend.I started the relation two years before.It was cool then.But now a days i have a feeling that we will make a good relation.I don't know why,but i am always fighting with him.I need some help (link)
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the reason why things have changed is because you two have become comfortable and you dont overlook the little things anymore. you may have a problem with being on a different emotional level than your partner. in this case sit down with your partner and ask what they want to see done differently. dont push the subject if you disagree smply listen and try to discuss a compromise thst works for both of you. but your partner has to want to make things better too not just give up.
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mkay. well this is katas fran. but I neeeeeeed help now!
Okay. Well there is this guy I like and I have known him for about 3 years. We were okay friends a while ago, and then I started to like him. I was to embaressed to tell him though. Eventually it got around school that I liked him, but he didn't believe them because we were such good friends. So I got over him. Then I find out that he likes me, and he asked me to the dance, but I said no :/ bigg mistake!
But anywats we became really good friends. Now this year, he recently wrote in my yearbook saying that he thinks I'm cool, and that it sucked that we liked each other @ different times. And that now he wishes we could get "closer" with a ;) face at the end.
He keeps touching my hands on "accident" and stuff.
And I like him again. But the other day he was talking about how he wants to date my friend abi's sister.
Wtf? Is he tryin to make me jealous?
So my guy friend tyler told him and tyler said he didn't say anything. Now when I see him in the hall he always smiles and flirts with me.
So, my overall question is does he like me? And what should I do? Make a move? Whhat!! Lol. Help me :( (link)
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ti think he likes you he jusdt doesnt know exactly how to confront you maybe he wants to get reaction out of you and you havent showed him that you like him back enough i think you should talk to him and tell him the truth about how you feel
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I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but we were friends for years before that. I've never loved a guy this much, and our relationship is pretty serious. He lives with me, but he has a room outside of his parent's house that he pays rent for (it's in like a shop thing on his parent's property). My family is fine with us living together, but his parents are huge Christians. We live with my grandparents, but sometimes we like to stay over at his place just to have a little more privacy. His mom doesn't say anything, but his dad says that no girls are allowed to say overnight with him on his property. I respect his dad's religious beliefs and go out of my way to please him. He doesn't allow women on his property to wear anything that he considers indecent, so no matter how hot it is, I wear jeans and conservative shirts when I come around, but it's a little ridiculous. He doesn't say anything about us living together at my house, but he does not allow us to say the night together in my boyfriend's room. My boyfriend has paid rent for it, but he says it's his property so it's his decision.
Is there anything I can do about this? I know it may not seem like much, but I always feel like he's judging my every move and it drives me crazy, since it's not very christian-ly to judge, anyway. Should we talk to him about this or just let it go and do what he says? (link)
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no i mean its his parents so just respect thier wishes
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Okay so I been talking to this really cute guy, I'm really starting to like him. Like his really nice and we talk on the phone like all the time, but the problem is I guess you can say his been know to be a player and none of my friends want me to go out with him, but he I asked him if we were to date will he cheat on me or anything and he said "No, because I know how much im really starting to hurt girls who really like me when I do that." thats what he told me plus my parents know his parents pretty good so I don't know if he'll do anything like that, but now also I guess his the kind of guy that you have t watch out on him trying to make " the moves" on you, but I know how to handle my self. So do you think I should give this guy a chance and see how it goes? And if that's a yes, how do I tell my friend's that im going out with him? XOXO, someone [: (link)
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start off as friends with benefits and start off slow and see what he does just dont get to attached just in case he lied
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how do you know if a guy wants to kiss you? (link)
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usually the guy will make the first move to lean in and i can kinda tell with my boyfriend by the look in his eyes and the way he says something cause his voice gets a little softer
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I am joining cheeleading very soon, and well that and my academic team will take up alot of time, in my life were I can't text my almost boyfriend. I don't want to loose him, or I don't wanna stop giving him all day attention, but i've always wanted to be a cheerleader and here is my time. I joined the school academic team when school started so i can't do anything about that, that takes up 2hrs a week (mondays and wensdays) but cheerleading takes up to about 2 hours a day (every day) and then 1 game per week. What time do I have for him?? (link)
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you have weekends and holidays together and you could drop academic team so you have a little more time
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15/f.
ive made out with like 7 guys since my first kiss right before i turned 14. and each time my best friend hadnt been watching and most times she wasnt with me when it happened. but one time, her and her bf and i went to the movies and they brought a guy for me and she wanted us to hook up so bad and she was trying to make me kiss him but i felt weird with her there right next to me cause i know she would be watching. i wasnt nervous about kissing the guy. i know i shouldnt care that she watches but i do. like she was so into me hooking up with guy(oh she wasnt like staring the whole time either, they would glance over for a little then go back) how can i get over this "fear" of having people watch me when i makeout with a guy? (link)
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ok let me tell you a quick story... one time i was dating this guy who liked pda not that i was against it i just never did anything in public before so i told him that and so just to be a jerk he took me to the mall and right in the middle of the food court he grabbed me by my ass and started kissing me
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okay. so what are some good songs that like say thata you met this really great guy and you like him but you don't think it's ever even a possibility for him to like you like that. so you're afraid to tell him.
hahaha.
also, when i like read the lyrics to a a song, i can't put my mind around it as well as i can when i'm listening to it and reading it at the same time.
does anyone know why that is?
don't forget the songs though! (link)
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maybe you could explain your question a little better to me.....i could think of many songs like that is it the title to the songs you want?
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iv ben with my boyfriend for almost two months. we kiss n makeout alot n i was his first, n he tells me to take lead n show him how n stuff. he is a great kisser but he slobbers alot, n his braces cut me. how can i get him to change that? (link)
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try to remind him to swallow so he doesnt slobber so much and to not open his mouth so wide so the braces to cut you and you could suggest that maybe if his lips are pressed to hard against yours that he could kiss softer and that might make a difference
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how I can get my boyfriend back when he only give excuses about seen each other again (link)
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umm sorry to break it to you but the reason he might be making excuses is cause he really doesnt want to be together even though he may say so
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what are some things to talk about when you're just getting to know a guy that you're attracted to? i dont want to be boring or have long awkward pauses (which always happens) so im kind of nervous (link)
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just be yourself dont say random things that are going to make yourself nervous like if you ask a question about family and then you realize that they dont want to say alot about it smoothly cahnge the subject like ask about what school they go to whens there birthday or you can say something about yourself and a great way to get a guy involved in stuff is if you ask them to go hang out with your friends for a day and then you can switch and hang out with his and the if things go well you guys can find something to do together alone......i usually start a conversation with asking thier name age where they live....if things go well after that i ask for their number and then usually if the guy asks for mine too its a go but if not i txt them a few times and if things seem like they are going no where then i stop
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Okay so this guy and I had been best friends for a year or two. We decided to date. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I finally got over it and moved on. Now I am dating my best (guy) friend's brother. He's the best. Like my true love. =] It's just that my ex told me he still likes me. I told him I was in love with my boyfriend, but he just won't give up. It's been like this for THREE months. What do I do? He makes my life horrible sometimes and he makes my boyfriend really mad. It's getting better now....but he still likes me and he won't stop telling me things that I don't want to hear. What do you think? (link)
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well you can straisht up tell him that he is the one that left you and he hurt you you had to learn to get over him and move on in order to be happy again and thats what you did and if he doesnt like it oh well he left you not the other way around
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josh 17 me 15
Ok so i have this BF we will call him Josh. Well He asked me to home coming like 5 mins to home coming because his date ditched him for his friend.We will call her Jess. He was going to ask her out but changed his mind because she went after his friend named Zach. Well Josh asked me out at home coming and I told him yes.its been about a week and Zach and some of his other friend said that josh might dump me soon because thats how he is. I stoped worring about that because he dosnt seem like he will. Well Jess found out we were dating. She has 2 BF's and is still going after Zach. Well now she is going after Josh and I am afraid he will dump me for jess. Today she confrunted me about it and I almost punched her because she said she wouldnt stop till she got Josh. I dont knwo what to do. I mean he thinks she is stupid now but i dont know if he still likes her and I cant ask cause its been a week. i have liked him for a really long time so I am already head over heels. What do I do? (link)
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ok well if shit hits the fan and he leaves you for that whore then you definetly deserve better but if she ditched him then i doubt he will take her back so quick but you could mention it to him that she told you some stuff and you were wondering what he thinks you should tell her
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I like this guy alot, and I think he likes me back.
He flirts with me like play footies, smiles at me, stares at me, and is always near me and almost hugged me on accident like three times!
But I just dont get it, he never actually told me he likes me but my friends think he does.
They catch him looking at me and stuff like that.
A gave him a note saying Hi and he never gave it back to me he said it is at home.
What do I do? I want to ask him out and make sure he likes me because or else it might be too late! (link)
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i think you should talk to him about how you like him and see if he opens up about liking you back....dont be to direct when you say it though cause then you mught catch him off guard and he might shy away from the subject but if you kinda bring it up in conversation like you can tell him how much you like the way he treats you then work your way up to telling him that you want to be his girlfriend but you really should make sure your on the same page
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ok so i'm 15f and already relatively turned on most of the time but i obviously control myself.
but recently i've been playing a game with one of my guyfriends where we ask really awkward personal sexual questions to each other and that's really got me heated. not for him, but for the subject, for the conversation itself.
i was talking to one of my other guyfriends today and i just got so turned on that i accidentally kept glancing at his groin area in school today and i guess he noticed because he half jokingly like, "can you keep your eyes up there at the teacher?" and i felt really embarrassed.
what do i do to just tone down my mind a little? i'm really hyper and excited all the time now and i keep replaying those conversations in my head. i know "masturbate" but besides that. everyone seems so hot now i feel like i'm going through puberty all over again! (link)
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lol take a chill pill jk well i dont know if this will help at all but maybe cutting back on that conversation with your guy friend....yeah i know youre like what ever its so much fun.......it really might be what is getting you so hyper like that maybe try distancing yourself from guys alittle......youre probably like yeah this person is insane.......i felt like this too but i calmed down after i got a boyfriend i guess cause he took up alot of my attention and now im not so much like that after we broke up things just changed
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17/f okay so recently my bf broke up woth me because i cheated on him a few times. i know what i did was bad. i get it. i learned my lesson because i lost someone i truly care about. my problem is i just dont know how to sayy no. my bf lived 2 hours away and i didnt get to see him very often. and he SAID that once i get my life together we can get back but i dunno. im sooo hurt and he doesnt talk to me anymore. anyways i am trying to get my life back on track but theres a little problem. my best friend is a guy who also knows my boyfriend. they live by eachother, and recently he told me he really likes me. and i dunno. i mean i know im not going to cheat again that isnt the problem. the problem is i kow my ex would never get back woth me if i went for my bestie. but he makes me soo happy. lke he is here when my ex isnt. so i dunno soemone pleaseee help me =( (link)
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well ther is two ways to look at this you can surely ruin a friendship and hook up with your bestie and also lose your ex completely or you can wait things out awhile and tell your bestie that you just think that you need to get things back on track before you think about getting back into another relationship i really think you need time to heal yourself from this
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Ok, this is really long but if you answer this you will help me get my smile back.
I broke up with my boyfriend 'A' of 2 years. Things were'nt working out between us,. However we continue to be friends.
The thing is, immediately after the break up I fell for his friend 'D'. They're friends but not that great. It's not that it was sudden. I had liked him for almost six months but always tried to convince my self that it was just infatuation.
But now I realise its way more than that. Way more than even liking him. Its more like Im in love (yes, LOVE) with him. Its not that he hasn't shown any signs. You know the way he looks at me. Its not like normal looking its the kind as if he wants to just hold me. Even when he talks to me there is this softness in his voice which I noticed isn't there when he talks to other people.
'D' has a gf. But she's in India studying. So far away from him. She's been a bitch to him. She broke up with him and then got back again and then left for India for the next 3 years.
The thing is I want him to know I love him. But I'm afraid f the following:
1.He might think I'm desparate.
2.I jump from one guy to another.
3.Im a player.
4.He probably loves his gf.
5.HE MIGHT TOTALLY FLIP.
6.I might lose him as a friend.
7.'A' might try to tell him stuff about me which might freak him out.
In what way can I approach him.
Ps- I dont talk to him or meet him that much.
I hope u understand I love 'D' and Advicenator people are the only ones I can turn to when such miserable things happen to me.
Thanks a lot. (link)
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OMG!!!! i hope i help cause i just got out of this crisis! ok so dont be stupid and do what i did.......you really dont need to know...........so anyways the thing that i needed to realize but didnt is that maybe you should hint to him not exactly tell him but hint at it and see if you guys can ever hang out alone if you can then confide little things to him but dont give him the whole picture just yet and if you guys start to grow closer then tell him how you feel about your ex and how you think your ex feels about you and then he will know ahead of time what to expect from your ex after things go smoothly for a few weeks then whenever you guys have time alone you can tell him lightly (dont just blurt it out cause that might freak him out)
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16/f
The guy i have liked for about 4 months now (and we "talked" a week over the summer), well like i was saying, i really like him. He is really cute but he has a really nice personality to go with it to. He is a big flirt with girls but he isn't a player. When he has a girlfriend, he dosen't flirt with other girls. Anyways, well my best friend has a flirty personality. They both are like that. Well when they are around eachother, it seems like they flirt. A bunch of people think this, it's not just me. Whenever i confronted her about it, she was like "No! I don't like him like that, i consider him as my brother, he is my best guy friend!!" Well, he tells her everything since they are "best friends." Everytime someone is like "Do you like eachother?" Brayden(the guy i like ) always tells lauren (my bff) "They are just jealous that me and you are best friends and that we hang out and stuff..." and she's like "yeah, since we are good friends." She talks about him being her best friend in front of me all the time and is like "people are so jealous of our friendship." I wouldn't even have the nerve to say that to her if it was the other way around. I wouldn't flirt with the guy she likes and say "oh, i can't tell you who he likes because we are bestfriends." She would have told me 2 months ago if i asked her because her and him were not as close friends then. She even once tried to hook me up with him. (Didn't work) It makes me kind of upset when i ask her who he likes and she won't tell me. A couple months ago, she would have, but now they hang out a lot more. I know she dosen't want to betray his secret but i am supposed to be her best friend and i think about who he likes all the time and she knows that and she won't tell me. She's his "best friend" obviously more than she is mine. They always hug and he hugs me to but her more. I get jealous..i will just admit it. I mean, i know i am probably not the girl he likes because he dosen't really show it, so now i just want to focus on just being his friend. I can't do that because lauren keeps getting in the way. Everytime he needs help with something, she is right there by his side, she automatically drops what she is doing to go help him. I would do that if i had the chance but i don't because she always gets in the way. She is supposed to be my best friend and help me get to be his friend more and stuff but whenever i get that chance, she always takes it from me. Best friends shouldn't do that. If it was the other way around, i would help her get the chance to talk to the guy she liked instead of me constantly being by him. I know she would never go out with him because "they wouldnt want to ruin their friendship." I know that they wouldn't go out, it's just the fact that they are such close friends and why i can't ever get the chance to get in when she is supposed to be helping me with him. Also, not telling me who he likes. Am i being selfish? Please somebody tell me what to do or some advice so i can finally feel good for one day!! Thanks!! (link)
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t5his might not make you feel much better but that sounds like your just jealous and thats not an easy emotion to deal with -trust me been there!!! but the only way i can see this going to work is if you let him go and just move on if your friend is getting in the way then maybe you should find someone else to occupy your time im not saying look for a guy who is going to take the other guys place or use somebody for attention but i am saying maybe you should widen your range a little
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