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I really like this boy and he says he dont like me but i love him and i think he dose but dont want anyone to know.What should i do?
Signed:Hopeless (link)
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Well, if it were me I'd just talk to him and get to know him more and eventually something would come up. However, if you're really sure he likes you then I'd talk to him alone about it. Tell him you like him and wanted to know if there was anything there. Hope I helped.
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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~ (link)
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talk to your boyfriend. tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Then if you don't think yall going out is the right thing, tell him that. And then definitely wait awhile before going out with your other friend, but I'd say after awhile you should go for it. Hope I helped.
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do u love me!? (link)
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who would you be?
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there is this guy that i absolutely love! like every person i talk to either say he's hilarious or sweet or nice. and everytime i get nervous around him and i like freeze, and ive NEVER felt this way around a guy before! hes just so awesome and i just love him (not love but you know) and i don know what to do! i think he knows i like him, i don know. but some people say hes not ugly, but not hott and so they always ask stuff like "why do you like him?" and they always say that kinda stuff and it really bugs me. and im getting mixed signals from him like my friends think he likes me. like they say “omg the way he looks at you you can just tell” but he never talks or anything… what should I do?
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I think you should talk to him. You would be shallow to like someone only based on looks so fuck what your friends say and talk to him. Plan ahead on what you're going to say. Have the conversation with a friend before you go talk to him. :p It'll make it easier. Guys can't make up their mind so mixed signals are always going to be there. Just talk to him and then if he likes you, he likes you. If not, you're at least you're the better off for it because you got to talk to him and there is a potential friendship building. Hope I helped.
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sorry this is so long but i REALLY need ALOT of help...please read it...=(
my friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me with TWO other girls..we dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT and her cousin goes to his school and said that he has other girlfriends. i love my boyfriend so much and just before she told me all this my boyfriend was on the phone telling me how much he loves me and stuff. i asked his friend about it because hes my really good friend too and he said he didnt know anything about it and he doesnt think my boyfriend would do something like that to me. i dont know. he wasnt home last night when i called so it kind of made me suspicious. i'm going to call him today and ask him about it but i dont know how to ask him. i dont know if i should believe him if he says no either. what if he is? i dont THINK my friend would lie to me, but i never even met her cousin. and lately my boyfriends kind of been blowing me off though to be honest. like hes too busy for me. so i dont know im really confused. i dont know like if he says no im not cheating on you if i should believe him because what if he is? but i dont think he would admit it if he was. not many guys would be like OH YEA I AM CHEATING! you know? please help me.. (link)
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Oh wow. He sounds like a bastard. I think you need to confront him. Tell him that you have been hearin stuff from your friends and see what he says. It sounds to me that you have every right to think he's cheating on you. If I were you, I'd just break up with him and tell him it's not working out because he doesn't sound like he's worth the hurt. But if you're not ready to end it without proper evidence then definitely confront him. Hope I helped.
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Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date? (link)
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As soon as possible! She likes you, so she's probably waiting by the phone for you to call! Don't keep her waiting! Go now! :) Hope I helped.
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I like this guy at my school. But he doesn't know. I told my friend, who is really good friend's with the guy I like, and he said that I should tell him, or have someone else tell him, to see if we have a chance of every going out with him. But I'm not so sure that I want him to know just yet. But then there's this other girl, also my friend, who likes him to. But everyone know's he doesn't like her because he has told us before that he didn't! So if we do have a chance of going out, what do I do about my friend? And should I just get the guts to tell him?
-Confused Lover (link)
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Ah! Definately go for the guy. Big deal, your friend has a crush on the guy, if the guy and you have a chance, go for it! So tell him, cause other wise there's no chance ever...right? Hope I helped. -Manda
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ARE YOU A VIRGIN? (link)
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See below
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ARE YOU A VIRGIN? (link)
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Haha, wow...okay. I don't believe it's any of your business. Sorries.
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ummm...my friend said it was stupid that i dont have a boyfriend...it that true? (link)
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Yes, only in the fact that you're stupid. :) Just kidding. I think it's perfectly normal to be single. I'm single, and I don't feel any stupider than normal...or something. I dunno, but yea...no, you're not stupid because you don't have a boyfriend. I'm sure you and Zach will get back together eventually. :p
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i have this friend who likes this guy abd they went out but then he broke up with her and now is flirting with her and she is flirting with him like alll the time and he wont ask her back out case he has a g/f but says he doesnt...but he does the stupidest stuff to her and then she goes through the fazes of hating him then back in love with him! soooo what should they do?
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Haha wow...I think that this guy sounds like a really, really dumb guy. :p I think, that he needs to get over himself and thinking that this chick is in love with him. In reality, she probably just wants to be friends anyway, because he's probably a shit of a boyfriend. Hope I helped! And I hope the girl you're talking about ends up with the right guy in the end! :p -Manda
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Can sum1 please help!! Am 16 & female so i probably sound silly but am not.
About 3 months ago I meet the most amazing guy ever(Ryan),wat i've always wanted,funny,caring,wild & deep. We started seeing each other rigt away.
We went out for a month in this time he told me he loved me & done everything in his power to show me it was true. Then we broke up!! He told me he still loved me & would go back out with me soon. Then my mum was speeking to his mum & she said that I was the first girl that he had realy bothered about & that he was oviosly in love with me. Then a mouth later people were telling me he was engaged. He says this is not ture. Then 2 weeks ago we had sex at a party. His mate was teling me that Ryan did like me & wasnt shure if he was seeing sum1. Then the other week I aked him if he was seeing sum1 he said yeah. The thing is am good mates with him & his best mate Darren but it hurts me not being his girlfriend coz am in love with him. And was gona cut him from my life but realizied it was way to hard. So am wondering what to do:1- cut him from my life (hurting him & myself) 2- Wait for him or 3- Tell him how I fell. What one should I do? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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You should stay 'mates' with him until him and his probably loser of a girlfriend break up. And then you tell him how you feel and it'll all hopefully work out. Because it sounds to me like he likes you, he just is scared by how much he likes you. :) Hope I helped.
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ok i like my guy "friend" and i've talked to him maybe 1 or 2 w/ a big group of friends b4 this year and a few weeks ago we had this realllly long convo at like 11 pm and so i've been taking to him on the internet becusse i dont have any classes with him or anything and he blocked me but i didnt do anything! my "friend" ( not the guy frined) says that he likes me, but i now that's bull because he doesn't... and why else would he block me? and the other day he didn't sit with us while the other OTHER day he did and we laughed and everything and we would say stuff in one class that would makE EVERYONE turn around, which they did... every one EXCEPT him!! and i have NO clue what's going on... i really want him to be my close guy friend or even more ;) lol i didn't say ANYTHING to him!! and im not mean or anything ESPECIALLY to him! im just soo confused!!
please help
if you know that it's me.. don't tell any1 ok?? (link)
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Aah! I think that he does like you and you need to just talk to him whether or not you're comfortable with it, cause soon enough he'll realize his feelings!! Haha yea, and OF COURSE I know who you are. It's okay though, I think you need to get some sleep and stop obsessing. :p Just kidding, but still...I think he likes you. Nana nana boo boo! Hope I helped! :) -Manda
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okay recently i had this boyfriend who i thought was my everything. well everything was apparently nothing at all when i kissed someone else so now i am broken up with my boyfriend and the other guy my parents never want me to see the other guy again but we both really like eachother. We arent going out right now bwcause neither one of us want a relationship. Oh yeah and i have liked this other guy for about a year.So i have liked him b4 i met my boyfriend. I am 13 years old and a female!Plz give good advice!!!!!!!! (link)
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I would say you're dumb for going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place. I also must call you dumb for then not hooking up with the other guy. =p I would say you need to just like talk to him a bunch at school and like stay after school with him or something? I don't know, just don't let your parents know. Do that once or twice and then see if he and you want a relationship. If you don't then the whole first break up was pointless, unless you really didn't like the guy. Maybe you two could stay friends with benefits. I don't know. But yea, hang out and become better friends then decide if a relationship is really where you guys want to head. Hope I helped. Though I felt my advice just kind of ran around in circles, so sorry bout that. -Manda
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ok well a guy found out i liked him and he likes me but im not positive i like him becuz i like other guys too. what should i do when i see him tommrow? AHH ill rate u a 5! (link)
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I think you should just pretend like you didn't hear about him knowing you like him. If you don't want him to ask you out or something then just don't bring it up, and he probably won't talk about it either. Yep, alls you got to do. It almost always works that way. Hope it works out and I hope I helped. :)-Manda
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okay Amanda my ex broke up with me cuz he thought i was ugly and for once i actually really really liked this kid and i still do and he wont get out of my head anywho now im really scared or whatever you would call it that other people think im ugly too and i dont want to be ugly cuz like no one wants to be ugly yeah it just sucks....what should i do????????? (link)
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Wow. I don't know who you are, but I don't know many ugly people...you're not Emily Stern, are you? lol ...just kidding. But umm...no matter how much your love for your ex expands, you should abruptly start hating him. He's a dick for saying he broke up with you because you were ugly. If that's what he thinks, then screw him. In the long run his opinion doesn't matter. I'm sure it's wrong anyway. Don't be scared because of what someone might think of you and that shiz. It's kind of lame to live your life by what others think of you. I know people hate me and think I'm a loser, but I don't let it bother me...so you shouldn't let it bother you if one guy called you ugly. It was probably a false statement. Come on, haven't you ever just been like well...you know what...you're ugly and I hate you! -hmph- -sticks tongue out-, to someone? Right? I mean, I still do that all the time. lol Yea, so he's a loser and you should move on. I'm sure you're not as ugly as he says you are. (And being ugly could be an endearing quality...take Eric Idle for example! lol ...I'm sure you don't know who that is, but that's cool, cause he's cool and ugly to boot!) Yea, so hope I helped! And uh...you don't sound ugly? lol -Manda
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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do? (link)
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He sounds jealous, but he doesn't want to get rejected again. I say you need to make the first move. He'll probably go for it. Hope I helped! -Manda
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well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way. (link)
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Umm...yea. It sounds like he was just trying to flirt with you. I doubt he would've done anything to your phone. And if he had, you could've told on him then and then he'd have to pay for something he did. This was just a case of him trying to flirt with you. It was kind of lame to tell on him, but you know- you did what you thought was best. Maybe if he really, really likes you he won't hate you, but I doubt it. When he gets back to school just apologize over and over and maybe he'll forgive you. I dunno. Hope I helped. :/ -Manda
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hey ive been going out with my boyfriends ernesto since may 15th and i really like him.. but he always ditches me for hsi friends.. he never even thinks about ditchin them once for me.. it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do i always tell him it hurts me and hes like im sry ill stop.. but he keeps doin it.. he never really talks to me in school and we dont really have a real conversation.. i know i should dump him butt ill probably regret it:-/ (link)
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Don't let him ditch you. Sit him down and tell him, if you ditch me again it's over. I might regret it in the long run, but I deserve better than some ignorant loser who always just leaves me to hang out with his friends! This same kind of thing kind of happened to me, and I almost regret not breaking up with him! If he's ditching you and never talking to you at school, the whole relationship is pointless. If you break up with him, I bet it won't hurt as much. Yall can still be friends, I'm sure. And then maybe one day he'll ditch his girlfriend for you! :) Hope I helped. -Manda
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I know this girl,Carly, we were friendly, but we werent really friends. Then we went to a mutual friend, Gavin's party. There, I found out she had a very big crush on Clay, and that night there was serious flirting between me and Clay. The next day teher was another party, and Carly was telling me that she thought Clay liked me. I was so happy, but I couldnt tell her. At some point throughout the conversation, I said it doesnt matter, its not like I'd go out with him if you liked him. The last day of school, me, Clay and two other friends hung out after school for like 6-7 hours. It was crazy, but soo much fun. And then, I went out of town. ME and Clay were talking online and he asked me out. I was like. I have to think of one person, and how it affects them. But Carly didnt sign on. So I just said yes. When I told her, she started warning me telling me hed break my heart. I was going crazy. She was bragging about her relationship with him in teh past. He doesnt even like her as a friend. So, whatever. I was always nice to her. But I never truly liked her. She was always trying to break us up. So when I came back to town, I was crazy about him. Pretty close to love. And he felt teh same way about me. At school, we'd hug in teh hallways, but I didnt wanna kiss him. She found out and told me how when they were in THIRD grade they made out through like 3 movies...proibably not true. But still..gross. I was like, okay whatever. My world was going great, everytime something bad happened, I'd think of him and my wolr dwould be complete again. I could face anything knowing he was at my side. All my friends told me he ALWAYS talked about me, and that we were the cutest couple ever. One of my firneds even told me that he looked at me different, he was my first boyfriend, so I wasnt used to this. I loved it. I was crazy for him. But then...my feelings truned into doubt, everyone was feeding me crazp about him. Telling me he was only different around me, but soon he'd be himself again. I didnt like who I heard he was. But I loved who I knew he was. After a while, my two best friends told me he wasnt worth the pain and doubt, so I decided to break up with him. I was kinda nervous, honestly,I'd never done that before. Just as I was about to do it, he signed on and we started talking he broke up with me. I'm grateful that he did, because he really wasnt worth it anymore. My feelings beacsme less and less, but they were still strong. It took me like three weeks to get over the break up, and I'm still not sure I'm complteley healed. However, hes a jerk to me now. He doesnt talk to me, he blcoked me when I finally got the guts to tellhim how I felt, and yet still, when I'm flirting or hugging or anything touchy with guys, he gives me this look. I dont know what to do about any of this. Not Carly, and vertainly not Clay. I may not think of him like that anymore, but I still care for him and want to be his friend. How do I do that? Not to mention, some of his friends are ditching me now. I just wanna feel teh same way I did when he used to hold me. I miss the feeling I had when I was around him. I miss him. But more importantly, I miss how I felt about him. (link)
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I don't think you miss him, you miss the idea of him. The idea that you had a boyfriend. He doesn't seem to be totally missing you, because he's kind of acting like a jerk with the whole blocking you thing, but he might still like you just because he's jealous when you talk to other guys and what not. You need to confront him and tell him that what he's doing to you is bullshit and that you want to be left alone. Also, don't tell ANY of your friends you still like him if you don't completely trust them to keep a secret, because with me there's been at least two instances where they've told the guy I still liked who broke up with me that I still liked him. And it might've been true before, but you know. You don't want to come off desperate. If you're all: But I can't live without you! I love you still! Please go back out with me! Waa!, then he won't want to go back out with you at all because things that a guy can easily have don't interest them, right? Yea, hope I helped. :) -Manda
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