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Q: 13/f ~ Much help needed
Ok, so my best guy friend and I have gotten together 2 days ago. He was always kinda shy even when we were just friends, but when we IM each other its like we can talk about anything, ever since we got together we have been talking for almost 3 hours, on AIM, but we don't seem to have that kind of convo in person. What kind of topic starters could we talk about in person.
Secondly,
He is shy but I want to hold his hand or hug him so much, (I am not really wanting to kiss him until we can have a good convo in person.) but I don't know if I should make the first move or if I should wait for him, should I say something about it on AIM, or not? Help please!
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Well,,this is definetly typical..at least thats what Ive heard,and if the guys shy,Maybe youre the one having to make the first move.And on AIM you should ask him if he feels uncomfortable with things like that.And then ask him if he feels uncomfortable talking to you in person because you guys just started going out.And if he never talks to you in person..try starting the conversasion.He prolly wants to talk to you..he just doesnt wanna mess up and say some embarrassing thing and make you hate him or something.And dont think of him not talking to you that much in person of him being ashamed of you or something stupid like that...He prolly REALLY likes you,and like I said..he just doesnt know what to say.
And sorry I really dont have any good conversation starters..besides asking how his day was,,and 'what's up.'
Sorry I dont have anything really that clever about starting a conversation.:[[
Lol.
Have a great day..
And GOOD LUCK.:]]
:]]PEACE.
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Q: okay so i really like this boy named mike and hes really doesnt know me. so im sitting here like umm okay. and like hes in band and im in guard im an 8th grader and hes a sophmore. soo. and he made out and has had sex before and i dont want to go that far. then i like this senior thats a crack head and i dont know what to do because other people like him and i just got over him and only like him as a friend but i dont know what to do about mike because i really like him but my friend sean was like umm no he will make you cry. HELP
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To start off,
Your friend Sean's just trying to help..[I hope you know that.]And it sounds like the guys youre attracted are not very great guys.What about some 8th graders,or maybe even some freshman?.Otherwise,talk to him..and if its just a thing like you think hes hot or something,,its not real like.Im not sure how to give advice to this one.And if this guys a jerk-face,theres better guys out there.Im in 8th grade too,and I would definelty not take the risk of going out with a sophmore thinking nothings gonna happen if it already has with him and so random other girl.
Just be careful.
God Loves You.
:]]PEACE.
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Q: im having some boy troubles here :] ok so i am 15/f and im in tenth grade, just to let you know. yeah so i have asked a bunch of my friends about this, and they're all giving me their opinions, but id like some more pleassse. ok so its kind of long, and i will love you if you read it and help meeee:
i dont know how to start this off but here it goes. as i told you, im in tenth grade, and theres this really cute boy in ninth grade. we have two classes together but its totally awkward. i really like him and im pretty sure he likes me, this is what i need your opinion on. he's given me some signs, but im not too good with this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing, but this kid is so cute. ok well we have lunch together, which is lunch and study hall, and we have band class together. he also sits one seat away from me in study hall, but i cant really talk to him there. so after lunch one day, i was standing with my friend in the hallway waiting for another friend, and he was walking down the hallway with two of his friends, and they shoved him into me. i know its corny, but hey it might mean something. and everytime i pass his table at lunch, all of his friends just stare at me. ive talked to him a little, but im so scared to because i dont want to get hurt or something. but heres the catch, his best friend thinks i like him. i actually dont, i mean hes cute, and we flirt, but its just not there really. and now i think the kid i like thinks i like his best friend? make sense? i hope so. and so yeah, do you guys think there might be a chance he likes me? and do you know anything i could really talk about with him, like to start a conversation? i dont really know, ive thought he was really cute ever since band camp, and im not sure what to do. ive never had a real boyfriend, unless you count a silly elementary one. but ive never been kissed and stuff. i dont think he has either so if neither of us are experienced isnt that bad?
it would honestly help me so much because my school dance is coming up and if he doesnt ask me im seriously gonna ask him, its so not like me, but i want to really bad. any ideas to help me with that too? haha thanks so much if you read this and actually replied.
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Hey..:]]
And just to start out;,.
He prolly likes you.
And just because someone likes you doesnt mean you have to like him back.
[Please dont be one of those people that always listens to what other people say.Its always the same stuff.And it usually NEVER works.]
Anyways,,
If he's never looking at you and always hiding from you[meaning hes the shy-type-a-guy]it prolly shows he likes you.[this seems like the type of guy youre talking about.]
Or if he's always trying to find a reason to talk to you or always sits with you and stuff[meaning hes the outgoing-type-a-guy.]it prolly means he likes you.[the other type sounds like this freshman.]
And yes,he is CUTE,but is he smart[and I dont mean in the school way.]?.Does he know how to treat a girl.He might be sweet.Get to know him first.It ALWAYS makes it easier to be later his girlfriend.Talk to him alot.Sit at his lunch table with a couple of your friends[whatever you do,,dont let them leave you there by yourself..you dont want him to think you are totally into him if youre not.]..and that would totally be cool.
So hurry up and talk.Then be like "hey,I was wondering if you wanted to go to the dance with me.It would be really cool."
He'll prolly say yes,but if not..[punch himm,,[haha..Im totally kidding.Lol.]]ask him why.Dont be too anxicious.
Haha..Hope ALL this info helps.:]]
[Sorry its soooo long.]
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Q: oh kay. lol
i was just wondering theres this guy like we both like each other but its not really going anywhere. thats another story but i was wondering. what are some good like good and flirty questions to ask someone you like?
[they can be kinda perverted to i guess. lol not like gross weird stuff but ya know.]
lol
thanks!
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First...I would ask how his day was.In an anxicious voice,and he should laugh and tell you.
Also,,Id ask him who he liked[even if its obvious he likes you.]and act like you reallllllly wanna know.
Sorry if this doesnt work.
If he likes you,he should ask you out anyways.
Idontknow.
Lol.
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Q: Okay JJ and I were what you would call flirting..
He'd stop dead infront of me and id like chilmb his back and it was all funny. Then today he was helping me nail something and I was hammering and he was like AHH u shouldnt have a hammer.. AHh and flincing and it was soooo funny i couldnt help laughing! weel ogan (BITCHHHHH) came by and was aww how cute!!! and JJ like immeidantly was like I HAVE A Gf and went into every detail known to man about her to me.
i told becky and she was like he might be trying to make u jealsoe...
ITS WORKING
how do i know if hes just making this upp like the little child he is.. and if i know hes flirting with me...
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Well,
Some guys...[like alot of my guy friends]flirt with girls and dont even mean too, or theyre just like that.
But then again...they sometimes like the person.
Its stupid how unpredictible guys are,so you never know.
If you wanted to see if he really has a girlfriend you could ask to meet her.
Otherwise,just hang loose.
If he likes you,[and if hes smart]hed tell you.
Hope this helps.
Otherwise,,
Have an awesome day. :]]
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Q: so i like this one guy
but when we talk online and the phone and text
i dont know what to say!
its not that im so shy that i ike stumble over my words
its just that im not too good with coming up with things to say
so help!!
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Be cleverly yourself.
Like if the guy I like would text me:"So,Whats up?."
I would answer:"Im not sure."
So it would keep the conversation going.
Just remember to be yourself in this.
Its the best way to help him like you.
=]]
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bio
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Hey..:]]
Im Victoria Lejean Wood.Yess,,the middle name is kinda lame..but at least its not like everyone elses.
I wish to help you with things..I hope I give good advice.
I love cows.And Myspace rocks my world.
I love my school and all the people there.My church is also amazing.All the people there are so encouraging.Chicago is aweeesome..Ilovethecity.
I really like this guy.He doesnt even know it though.He would never talk to me again if he knew.Maybe its better he didnt.
Anyways..
Im in 8thgrade.:]]
And Im in a family of 8 kids.
and Feel free to ask me ANYTHING.Ill answer my BEST.:]]
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Chicago.:]] Age: 13 AIM: Member Since: April 26, 2007 Answers: 17 Last Update: September 29, 2007 Visitors: 2671
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