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Hey there. I really like this guy, Tony. I hang out with him sometimes but i don't think he likes me besides a friend. How do I get him to like me? I really like him but i don't know how to let him know. Please PLEASE HELP!!
haha i've actually answered a question exactly like this beforee..
"welll i've actually talked to alot of guys about this and i thought it was a little bit strange .. but their number one average answer is attention. dont be overwhelmingly stalker ish but when he talks, listen. when he asks a question, answer it with all your heart and ask him something back .. make deep conversations! be a little more touchy and flirty (like subtly) and see where things go and how he responds!"
if you've tried this or it doesn't work or something.. feel free to IM me- i'd love to chat :] my screename's amandaaxoox. luck!
okay so i have a major crush on this kid and i have since december. we are best friends and we talk everyday. he is really nice and extremely cute. but.. he likes one of my best friends. she went out with him last year but she really doesnt like him she likes his best friend.what do i do? xox thanks xox
yeesh what a little love triangle square thing you've got goin' on there! ;] the best thing i can say is to remember that what's meant to be will find its way. you can't force someone to like someone- hoping the guy you like will switch to liking you rather than your best friend is the same thing as someone hoping you will switch to liking the guy's best friend. So i don't really know what to say. but also, if your best friend (girl) really doesn't like the guy you like, he will eventually move on. and maybe that's where you can come in! ;] anything can happen, you can't fight fate.
do girls like it shaved?- ur love M.M
hahahahahahaha. yeah.
amanda, i have been friends with this girl for a few years and she's one of my good friends. i love hanging out with her and shes nice and stick's up for me and pretty much a really good friend... but she always takes my guy. not necessarily like my boyfriend and she takes him, but if i like someone she likes him too!! and its not even that she gets him and i dont (sometimes we both dont whatever) but its just the fact that she's liking the same guy as me. i'll tell her i like someone and then a week later she likes him!! she'll be all over him and it really bugs me! wouldn't you be annoyed if your best friend started liking the same guy as you the next week?
what do i do!? please help, i'm desparate!!
yess, i would be very annoyed, too. who says you have to tell her who you like? better yet, who says you have to tell her the RIGHT person? maybe it sounds a little mean but it really won't hurt anyone.. it will just prove whether your accusations are correct or not. i say you tell her that you like this really weird guy (but he still has to be believable) and see if she likes him next week! if so, maybe it would be best if you stopped telling her who you like until she finds someone of her own. if not, maybe things arent as bad as they seem to you.. you have to try to figure out what she thinks through all of this as well. maybe she isn't thinking in the back of her mind "oh my good friend lieks this guy, that means i definitely should too!" good luck, and i hope you find a way to put an end to this! :]
so there is this guy kyle in my grade and i like him and we have a dance on June 15 should i ask him to the dance now or wait and see if he asks me?
go for it! you have nothing to lose. i mean, what's the worse that could happen? he might say no. a two letter word. it's not much to be afraid of! :] just go with your gut xo
Ok so there is this guy, and i have liked him for what seems like forever, and i know i should like be getting over him cause like he obviously doesnt like me but for some reason i cant get him out of my mind. I thought i was finally done with him, but now all i want to do is to see and talk to him. I really have no i idea what to do. Like how can i get him to notice me? How come everytime i talk to him i forget everything i wanted to say? How come i cant get over him?
you don't need to get him to notice you. i really think you shouldn't worry about what he thinks and try to get over him. i know it seems impossible- but you really will be able to! likee i always say- REMEMBERRR if you are able to devote that much of your heart to a guy .. you deserve and need someone who appreciates it and can reciprocate it. just keep thinking that you have wayy too good of a heart to waste it on someone who can't see that. best of luckk xo and be patient! feelings are hard to change overnight .. but remembering little things like that will help the prosess move along muchh faster
I've liked this guys since the beggining of the school year. I told him & he was spuprised. He ended up going out with a friend of mine. at the time he & she had no idea that i liked him. They broke up after less than a week. I still like him, but he likes a good friend of mine, & she insists that he doesnt like her but its totally obvious. I dont want to make him like me but i want help on little things i can do to help us get closer.
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welll i've actually talked to alot of guys about this and i thought it was a little bit strange .. but their number one average answer is attention. dont be overwhelmingly stalker ish but when he talks, listen. when he asks a question, answer it with all your heart and ask him something back .. make deep conversations! be a little flirty (like subtly) and see where things go and how he responds! just remember to be who you are and dont change to make him wanna be with you .. guys like girls who can stand up for themselves and what they think. oh, and, you are such a good friend to consider their feelings that way and not be selfish! i hope everything turns out well .. what's meant to be will always find its way. so don't let it bother you so much on the person he ends up being with =]
k so there are these 2 BABES in school and i had a 3some w them one night and now its awkward to be with them at the same time cuase umm k lets say their names were Sami and Amanda......haha but um anyway they are acting relly wierd and the 3 way was great but idk maybe i should have one on one make up sex w them both?????? Help MANDY!
this is an extremely difficult situation, but amanda and samantha happen to be very greedy girls. they like it all or nothing. so, with that being said, you must choose between one or the other. post back with your choice and how it turned out! x3
i was a litttttle tipsy one night, and kinda... got with a guy... and now i have herpes. i really love sex and i want to be able to keep screwing, but i dont know what to do! i already spread it to one guy... and i feel pretty bad [he was TERRIBLE tho so maybe it was for the better :P] but what do i do? do i keep spreading the love? or do i get meds?
maybe herpes isn't the problem here.. maybe it's your abnormally high sex drive? first of all, herpes is a virus and even if you did get meds the disease won't go away and it's still spreadable whether it's visible or not. you can like, get your mom to take you to a therapist or someone like that who you're supposed to talk to (i know, sooo akward to ask your mom that). but your mom thinks youre innocent, so she believes and wants you to be innocent.. and since you aren't- she'll wanna get you help. after getting herpes do you really still love sex? like, look what it's done! thinkk about that before you spread it to other guyyss. goodluck x3
ok sorry if this is long...
so i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. and back when i was in sixth grade me and this guy jamie really liked each other. but we always pretended we didn't, but we both knew we liked each other. then, half way through sixth grade he moved to hong kong, like actually to live there. we talked online a little bit and we both admitted that we liked each other. then during 3rd quarter that year i started going out with this guy ben. well, school in hk wasn't working out for jamie, so he came back for 4th quarter. but i was still going out with ben then, so jamie stopped flirting with me. but i dumped ben before jamie went back to hong kong, and then we flirted. so anyway, during 7th grade i talked to jamie a little bit and we both play tennis, so he said that over the summer we should play tennis together. well i forgot about it, but over the summer i got a call from him about "taking me up on that tennis match". so we played tennis and then he asked me to go to a movie with him, then he went back to hong kong. so then this year, he came back here for a week for his friend's bar mitzvah. he kind of talked to me a little, but very, very little. i think he liked me over the summer (maybe) but he's coming back this summer and i want to know what i should expect. i am willing to have a long distance relationship with him, but what should i do about it? call him when he's in town? we go to the same country club, so i'll see him at tennis, but i really want to have a relationship with him. what should i do? thanks so much
helloo. :] hah, you don't have to apologize for the length .. the more detail the better! besides, i'm here to listenn. long distance relationships can work.. you have to be sure that you really really truellyy like jamie and have hope in the fact that you two will be together in the future .. both emotionally as well as physically. in a way, it's almost like an imaginary friend if you're never gonna actually get to be with this person for a period of your life.
but there are a few things that can get in the way at times in a long distance relationship- distrust, temptation, and loss of interest. one, you might find it hard to build trust with him because for all you know, he could be with plenttyy of other girls in hongkong and you would never find out. that thought tends to tear at people's mindss. also, you might have the temptation to be the cheater. with him gone .. you might think, what harm will it do to be with someone else if he's never gonna know? and that would end up overwhelming you with guilt in the long run. lastly, without excitement in a relationship .. you might just lose interest and realize that you've been with someone for so long and youve gotten nothing out of it. you might find it pretty boring after a while just communicating via email, IM, or phone every now and then.
if i were you, i would consider things like that before you commit to this relationship. i promise there are other fish in the sea, ones that you won't have to drill a hole into the core of the earth to get to. i'm sorry if this response was a little pessemistic, but it's just my view on it and i personally find a long distance relationship not much of a relationship at all if you aren't experiencing a head-over-heels-i-need-to-call-this-person-my-own kinda feeling. i hope ie helped somehoww !
Hey amanda,
I am 13. (in 8th grade)So i like this guy he is in a couple of my classes but i dont talk to him that much. When ever i see him i get butterflies. We are really good friends and have been since 6th grade but i have liked him since december. I really dont want things to change in our friendship && if he finds out he will act weird around me. what do i do?
haha, then don't tell him! but then don't expect anything to evolve between you two if you aren't willing to openly share your feelings with him. if he finds out you like him, maybe things won't be weird- he could like you back! you never knooww. it's all about taking risks.. you just have to figure out whether it's worth it or not. i honestly dont think telling him is a bad thing .. because even if he doesn't like you it will make it easier for you to get over it. and plus, if you're that good of friends.. this shouldn't ruin your friendship forever- you'll eventually become close again and even be able to laugh about this situation! good luck and just follow your heart. relationships between two people that have been friends first tend to work out alot better. hopee this helps! xo
hey amanda i need help i went out with this girl a while ago and then we broke up and we didnt talk at all for a while but all of a sudden since last week we are talking alot more and we're starting to be friends again and we hooked up for a while last night and i think im starting to like her again and her friends are telling me that she likes me but im not really sure, we both dont want to go out but we like each other, what should i do
hey! haha well i don't really understand. do you like the way things are going between you two now? like the talking/hanging out/hooking up without being "together"? if so, continue it! maybe you should talk to her first though to see how she feels about you and the situation and maybe you guys can decide together to eventually go out or how fast you wanna move thingss. if you've just started becoming friends again, my advice is not to rush into anything new too soon. chances are, that's the reason why the relationship didn't work in the first place. gooodd luck hopee i've helped! :]
hey amanda,
theres this guy and hes kind of an asshole and annoying but sometimes he can be really funny. and i know that he is like this but for some reason whenever i see him i just really feel like i want to be with him. i dont really talk to him all the time but i cant help the feeling. what should i do!?
aaww xo this happens too much it's so sadd. read the two comments below this one ! i can't believe how much guys really play with girls' heads. if i have foundd one guy to prove them all wrong .. anyone can! stayy strong kiddoo you dont really need to deal with a guy like this you can do betterr x3
so theirs this guy that i have been in love with forever and i think he loves me to but i dont know if i should move on or not. whenevar i try to move on i cant. but whenevar i see him i get all nervous and butterfiles in my stomak. he has hurt me so many times but i keep going back for more. what should i do?
if you think he feels the same way about you, why would you move on? firstt i suggest you talk to him.. see if he'll say who he likes and if its you congrattss! :] you can even talk to his friends or someone that owuld know as a last resort. if it turns out he doesn't feel the same way, then just read the answer below this. it seems like you can really care for a guy and there is someone out there that can care about you just as much. trust me. ;] it just takes timee. good luck!
i cant get over this guy. i try but just cant. i just miss him more when i dont see/talk to him. its probably hurting me more not letting go, but i dont have enough will power to just forget about him. i want to move on, but then i miss him too much. i dont know what i should do..move on or hang on. what's your advicce amanda?
i would definitely say move on, babee. i know it seems impossible- but you really will be able to! keep your mind on other things .. like sports, school, or hobbies - something that you love and are interested in that will help guide your focus away from him. the way i used to find helpful to get over crushes was to meet new people, try to make new friendss.. i'm sure you'll eventually stumble over a guy that will completely steal your heart and make you wonder what you ever saw in that other guy or any other guys in the worldd. if you are able to devote that much of your herat to a guy .. you deserve and need someone who appreciates it and can reciprocate it. just keep thinking that you have wayy too good of a heart to waste it on someone who can't see that. gooodd luck xo stayy positive! ;]
okay so likeee...im supposed to be reading a midsummer nights dream..but like im suppperr boredd..like you knoww?? what do i doo...read or watch tv..hmmmmm...
--guess who?!
my dearest janis, what has happened to your superior study habits? they seem to be deteriorating. i hope you choose to study, or mrs lindyyy will eat you alive when you fail that test and take you out of honors and move you into the stupid class. unless gilmore girls is on.. then that's understandable. ;]
basically, i love you. anddd, i want to express that in some way, so i thought that this would be the best. i love you amanda lee. and i always will :]
-your poptart/imbecile for life
yay i love you too, kelso! =] beeeeefff.
amanda, i know you have a boyfriend... but i need you. i can't stop thinking about you, and whenever i do, well you know what happens ;] damn girllll, you are just so fine!!! not to be cocky, but people tell me i'm hot - way hotter than that fag matthew mannella. please just dump his ass and jump my bones!!!
-- helpless in lust
sorry babe, i lovvveee matt too much and hes the best boyfriend in the world :] and i think you're a desperate hoe. always here to help!
okay so. i really like this guy but then the next second i dont!! like wat do i do.like omg like wat do i do?
--you know who =)
well try making up your mind you hormonal freak. ;] glad to help
So I like this guy in my class that im friends with, but i also have a boyfriend that i rly cant break up with due to complicated reasons i dont want to get into. I just cant break up with him. not now anyway. Problem is i REALLY like this guy in my class, a lot and i want to go out with him. i just cant break up with my bf.i think the guy likes me and im afraid if i wait too long he's going ot get over me. what shud i do?
honestly, the reasons why you can't break up with your boyfriend don't matter in this question. there really is no excuse or reason to be with him when you're wishing you were with somebody else. maybe you should talk to the guy in your class about this problem so he won't feel hopeless and move on, and also the two of you might be able to think of a way to fix this without hurting your boyfriend, since i'm sure you TRUST this guy enough to tell him your complicated reasons (a major part of a relationship, which is another reason why you should end what you have with your boyfriend because the two of you aren't exacly on the same trust level). but anyway i hope you keep in mind that the longer things are dragged on, the more effect they have on people and the more pain is involved. even though it won't be easy, it won't be as tough on your boyfriend now than if you broke up with him later because if he is truely involved in the relatioinship he should feel closer and more attatched to you as the days go by. and as you said, the more you wait, then the chance of the guy in your class moving on gets higher. then you would end up with no one. don't keep waiting for the perfect moment, or it will pass you by. you need to take the moment, and make it perfect. i hope i've helped!