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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?
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well uhm, i had the EXACT same problem bc i'm in 9th grade and my bf is in 11th. but the first time we went out we went to the movies and when we kissed it was just lyk PERFECT!...but basically just let things play out, and go with it. WHATEVER YOU DO...DONT DECIDE WHETHER UR GONNA KISS HIM OR NOT B4 YOU GET THERE! guys hate that...
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alright im really confused so anyone who can help me ill rate 5..here goes...kinda long
Okay i have really really liked this boy for like 4 months and over time i have gotten to know him more and when i see him we hang out..(i see him at church) ...but than theres this other girl who likes him also and he flirts with us about the same....but he grabbed her but which made me kind of mad.. but anyways he knowss i like him so he knows i get mad when he says oh "shes so hot" so he does that kind of stuff of purpose like joking around , but than i asked him for his necklace (it was a chain thinging you know?) and he gave it to me...not to have i dont think?..haha..alright well one time i was telling everyone a story and he was there and in the story cause i got in a fight with a girl and he said "oh your sticking up for me" and i siad no but i was and he said oh well i would have kissed you if you were...i dont know if he likes me, doesnt, or is just leading me on...and what do i do??!!? ..HELP. (link)
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wow, seems complicated. but it prolly isnt.
it sounds like he REALLY likes you...so i say stop being shy and if he asks you somthing like your sicking up for him ect. ect. then tell him the truth.
but it also sounds like he likes the shy type, so kinda smile a lil bit and maybe blush when you tell him, he'll come around fer sure.
idc about the rating just let me know if my advice works.
thanks... **ann jones**
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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well, it seems like you like him too...so i let him know if he doesn't already. then you could buy him a cute little gift. maybe something funny.
i hope i helped!!
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ive had a girlfriend for a little over a week now we fooled around allot for 3 nights prior everything but sex and she was mad because i teased her with everything but sex (which i refused because i had a bad feeling about it) after she harrassed me about not giving her what she wanted and her telling me that its what she wants and "dont worry about my feeling ill stop if its not what i want" i desided to go through with it so after a wonderful night which she enjoyed and left with a smile shes mad at me because she said she wasnt really ready and i should have known that. im not saying i have no fault but i dont think she can really be that mad at me for it (link)
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i think that first you should let her know that she was the who pressured you into having sex with her, but be gentle and make sure you're telling her in person.
let her know that you are sorry for giving in to pressure, but she should apoligize for being the one to pressure.
stay with her, and be entirley sensitive.
find out if there's anything else wrong. she may be mad at someone else and be taking it out on you.
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OK i have really liked this guy. I have liked this guy for 2 years my 7th and 8th year. In my 7th year i was a GEEK i dressed so UGGGG..BAD anywayz my friend told him i liked him and them he stoped talking to me. THem in the last weeks of 8th grade he started talking to me again. I was much prettyer in 8th grade then 7th. Once we ran down to the caf. and he said "YOur the fast i've ever seen a girl run" then when we got there.. some kid yelled. "Does she like you?" and he said " no, that was last year" and them i was crushed because i still liked him but i said "yup thats right" anyways. THem this summer.. he has asked my mom if i wanted to go bike riding sometime because he only lives like 4 miles away from me and stuff like "you should bring her down to your work sometime" and stuff like that. I almost always talk to him now. But he will never ask me out. He also has never had a gf or a kiss. SO what should i do to hint him on asking me out. or what should i do.. I don't want to ask him out or tell him i like him even thought he already knows because his grandpa told him.. long story there.but anywayz . please help i do rate.. (link)
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ok, so if hes never had a gf before, then he probably doenst know how to ask a girl out. if you reeeally like him, then you should give some obvious hints, say somthing like "by the way, you look really good in that color." or "i love the way you spiked your hair like that"
if that doesnt work just come rite out and tell him you like him, and that maybe sometime you'd like to go out(on a date).
but let him know that if he wants to be friends, that u would let it stay that way.
i love giving advice...and mine works almost 100% of the time. i know you might be kinda afraid to try this, but if it doesn't work then just come back to my column and rate me a zero.
if it does work though than i dont even care about the ratings. i just want to help ppl with there problems, so let me know
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i have been to my dads in the passed week and tere is a girl there who i think likes me but should i make the first move and if i should what should i do. we have been ok for about 1 or 2 years but i think she is getting a bit serious. because she keeps asking me for hugs and kisses but im not sure if it is a freindly hug and kiss or if she is being serious help plz..... by the way i am 15 male uk
*madly in love* (link)
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ok madly, i think that if you really like her, then you should follow your heart and go for it. also, if she sounds more playful when shes asking you for hugs and kisses, then it may be just friendly. but if she asks kind of seriously, and especially when ur alone it may be serious. i was in the same situation a few years ago, and it ended up that he liked me, but i didnt feel the same way, so we stayed just good friends.
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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you were so rite 4 pulling away, but he mite feel bad. dont say ur srry, bc you shouldnt be. tell him exactly how you feel, and why you pulled away. then if you can, try to slip him a quick kiss on the lips. you dont have to make out unless you both want to. but a kiss on the cheek or lips everyonce in a while is nice, and will remind him how much u love him. i know that my advice sounds really bold and you mite not want to do it, but trust me it will work. i had the same problem last year, but my bf had made out with people before.....
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