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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?

maybe you should just do what she wants when she wants and treat her like a princess:);)

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ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice.

hes an intch close to loving you that doesnt make sense. grow up first before you worry about love because what your saying sounds like a two year old. sry but thats the truth

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Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ?

ugh this was a situation my friend was just in. her boyfriend had cheated on her because he was drunk and broke her heart. most of the time ppl that are really into the drugs and alcohol thing get into alot of trouble in the end if thats who he is and u dont want to change that then get rid of him or maybe talk to him about it and tell him why you dont like him doing these things



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I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX

its not totally natural but there are pills you can get called, grow bust. my friend use them she was flat now has bigger boobs than me and i were a 34 c. in pa you get them at gnc's nutrient supplments strores.







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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!







flirting is the fun of it but you cant be :the other woman: move on for now and see what happens between the explain to him how you feel and see what he says

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OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was one of them on the list. and i really do like him i just dont know what to do I mean i dont even care if he likes me or not just being friends is enough for me. How do I get him to re add me and talk to me again like we used to??????

email him but the one he sent you sounded rude i dont know if i would even care for him anymore but i know how hard it is to get over guys


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ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a week now and hes really shy. i highly doubt he's ever going to kiss me so i decided to make the move. but how? how should i kiss him? i rate 5's. hurry with the advice!

best way i think start with hugs and kiss' on the cheek then bring your heads together talk a sec and kiss him






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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads?

im a red head two i do have freckles tho and my hair is straight my boyfriend is 18 and really good looking lol not only my opinion by the way lol

but anyways im fifteen so i think there are just a few really great guys out there that are attracted to us red headed beautys


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I'm not sure what to think. This guy that I'm kinda friends with imed me a little while ago and said that he was taking a survey, so I was like..ok.. then he goes, it's just one question. so, I was like, ok, go ahead. he said what would you do if i asked you out? (and he said he already got 2 other girls to take it)and so I go maybe..maybe not.. lol. I don't know if he was really doing a survey or not though, cause he wentaway after I said that. What do ya'll think? Should I im him back and say something else?
Thanks for your help! I rate 5's for nice answers!
*confused*

just ask him about it if hes a nice guy he wont be rude about it sounds like he does like you though in one way or another




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hey,
ok my boyfriend, Ben told me to call him in a half hour like, 45 minutes ago. His ex *who is my friend* Grace told me that she knows Ben and that i should play hard to get. Funny thing is, they broke up so i dunno if i should listen to her. She said just wait for him to call me, but i dont want him to think i'm dissing him. should i listen to Grace? PLEASE HELP! I'LL RATE HIGH!!!

deff dont listen to her but before you get involved to far make sure he doesnt have feelings for her anymore if you want to call do it be confident and dont listen to what other girls tell you unless you can one hundred percent trust them

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How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon!

first kiss' are the best with every new person you meet or date with my boyfriend right now who ive been with for six months i just did it went right in and kissed him signs just werent working with him he didnt realize how dying i was to kiss him so i did it some good things that let him know your thinking about it might be like lots of kissing on the cheek. and if you want to kiss him get your fourheads real close as your talking and when your ready kiss him and can be a peck first then see what his reaction is then you can kiss him again




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ok well me and my boyfriend have been goin out now for awhile but he still eyes other girls like we were on the phone and he was like oo shes soo hot I was like wtf?! and i told him i didnt like it but he cared for like two minutes I know he loves me and he tells me so. that just gets me I really dont see him were in seperate grades hes one grader younger hes my age but he started late.but he knows I box and fight and if theres som1 else i'd kill them same with me if I was with som1 else he'd beat the shit out of them and we love each other we play games on the phone and we see each other like on a daily basis like i go over to his house and we hav lots of fun weve known each other for almost three years and idk if we should go further in our realationship I dont want him to just think i'm here for a kissing partner or A booty call help me i'm totally confused
I'm 13 and i'm female(obviously) lol

if you really love this kid tell him its normal for him to look at girls if hes only 13 but tell him to keep it to himself. and as for going further is you mean sex of some sort you should wait thirteen is realllly young and sex realllly mess' with stuff if you getting mad about him looking at girls and if hes doing it you two are not mature enough no offense but although it doesnt seem it it is alot easier to wait











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I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward.

when your engaged in a conversation just say i love talking to you lets keep in touch next year and it will go from there

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this is so typical it kills me.....

i have liked this guy for the whole school year, we became really good friends and he found out i liked him and it brought us closer.. then he liked someone else. she broke his heart and now he hates her.. we became friends again and i thought things were going in the right direction and now i just find out my friend likes him and she didnt tell me , when she knows i have liked him for a long time (supposedly shes like him this long too) and now he has a "crush" on her, but he doesnt like her.. i dont understand..

what should i do?

thanks

id be soooo mad but ignore that confront them ask your friend what is wrong with her i had a friend who always copied everyone finally we just told her to be her own person it works. then i would make sure the boy knows you also like him if he goes out with her however i wouldnt let yourself be sloppy seconds cus then the dumping is all the harder on both parts


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Well, I met this boy through a friend..and me and him went out. I was shallow and wouldnt stay with him..it was about 3 years ago. and then we stopped talking and then started talking again..he was having problems at home and moved in with my family (hes 17 now). We became the best of friends..then all of the sudden "poof" he left out of NO WHERE. and now we are talking and stuff and i really miss him. i told him i didnt want him to leave and that i miss him. but do you have any ideas on how to really hit him on how much he hurt me? i need the help. That boy means alot to me, and i dont want the only person that was ever there to go away..

thanx

what you said up there is what you should say to him ive found (through experience) that when you love someone that much theres a good chance they love you back just as much be totally honest and express yourself at any point in the convo if you feel things are going wrong just say the phone got disconnected hahaha it does work tho goog luck i know how hard love is

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ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!!

okay well personally only you know if you would be messed up. when i decided to have sex my mom told me that it well metally screw me up i knew it wouldnt so i was fine with having sex if you think for even a second he is going to hurt you in a way you cant take then dont do it but if hes hurt you before it could happen again

help i helped

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