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alright so me and this guy are dating and like i have no problems keeping conversations with guys at all..like i never have in my life.EVER! soo im going out with this guy and we never talk at lunch or ever..we cant keep a conversation..we talk sometimes in the hallways..i mean its not awkward...but i want more to talk about. me and him are going to the mall together this weekend..how do i keep a conversation without trying to sound desperate or cheesy (: thankss

and p.s. we both like eachother and i think its nerves..but any ideas on how to get over them. cause i like him alot an he likes me too but i dont want him to stop liking me cause we never talk.. (link)
well i would say that u talk about how things are in life for you and ask him how life is for him you know what i mean?


My parents are divorced, but still have the same ideas on alot of stuff. I am white. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My parents both say that i can not like(have a crush on), date, or marry anyone who is Black, "Mexican"(I tell them all the time "HISPANIC"), Chinese, or Mixed. The thing is, I like ALOT of people! About half of which are not white. Its not because I like other colors, I just happen to like these people. my parents say they will disown me if i ever marry someone not white. The boy I am crazy about is Hispanic. I have a lot of different colored friends. So racism realy offends me. But whenever i mention this, they get mad. What can I do! (link)
You shouldnt worry. parents go through these things but they get over it. trust me i had that happen to me. but after a while they will let you hang out with them and then pretty soon after that they will let you date them.




Okay so I recently started dating a football player at my highschool. We dated for about a week, and while we were dating there was another boy (a black boy) who started to flirt with me and he asked me out everyday every chance he got, I started to flirt with this boy and I started to like him too.

I soon later, Broke up with my boyfriend to date this boy. I told my boyfriend I wanted to wait until after football season was over so I could actually spend time with him outside of school and he said he understood.

He eventually found out I was dating the other boy and he got mad that I left him for a black boy.


I really like the person I am dating now, but everytime I talk to him on the phone all he wants to talk about is sex. I told him I rather do the real thing and I thought it was stupid to do so over the phone, But everytime I talk to him on the phone he is telling me he wants me to get "horny" or talk dirty to him.


I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
Well you should break up with this guy beacause it's not right to talk about sex and i think you were better off with the football player.


alright 14/f.
boyfriends 14/m too
to start off me and my boyfriend have been together for more then a year and almost two years in december. trust me on this one, we really do love eachother. if you dont believe in this age of love then stop reading :) The past two weeks, we keep arguing. When the boyfriend and I are like with a group of friends somehow at some point of the day we'll start arguing. But i have NO IDEA what we argue about, like it must have been something stupid cause i dont remember. Honestly I think thats why were fighting, i dont know why but it seems we only fight when were with other people. Basically were not arguing anymore, but to prevent it where can we go to be alone? [my boyfriend and i live two blocks maway from eachother and many kids live around our area] (link)
Well I would hang out at his house or invite him to yours without anyone going with you guys.


okay look i like this guy im 13 hese 16 yes, i kno age diffrence,anyway well a couple of weeks ago i printed out a pic of me and him that waws on my compuuter and he saw it rite and then today he was jokin around wit me and gave me a tatoo well it was a gum and inside it a little tatoo he gave it to me rite as a friend im guessing and then after that in the end of the day i was still holding it i didnt throw it away
just holding it
then i see him pas by and from the corner of his eye he was lookin at the tatoo in my hand and i was like.. sh*t then my friend is with him on the bus and she was like talking to him like i love emily so much! shes soo cute and pretty about me and then he just looked at heer and didnt respond.. do u think its obviouse that i like him? do u think he knows?
thanks
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well you know boys can tell when you like them if you still have something they gave you. so he might know. have you given him any hugs? just e-mail me and i will help you there. just e-mail me at samisuqui@cox.net


My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a month. We never have anything to talk about. It feels weird. Hes in 6 of my classes plus lunch.I need stuff to talk about.

please help me!!
stuck in a conversation (link)
well my boyfriend and I are the same way but all you have to do is think of somethig to talk about. you know like start it out asking him how he is and then go to talking about random stuff.


I have been hanging out with this guy. The first night we hung out it made the moves on me and we hooked up. I didn't plan on that happening cuz that is kind of whoreish but whatever.. anyway we kept hanging out and it seems like every time we hang out we have sex. He says that he really likes me i had a feeling he was just using me but he says that he really likes me so whatever. He said that we would date but I'm too young.. we are like 7 years apart. I really like him but if we cant date for 3 years idk if i should stop messing around with him and just be friends i've tried that but i can never stick it out. I get jealous when he talks to other girls like he talks to a lot of girls he lives in a college town and goes to parties. He has pictures of him and hot chicks all over his walls. I don't know what i should do.. what do you think? (link)
well i think you should just be friends. Because like if he is seven years apart it wont work out. and when someone is that many years apart their just using you to tell all his guy friends that he had sex with you and then one day they will rape you. And i dont think you want that.


Look...i really like this guy and he really likes me but i also like this other guy...and i think about them both all the time....wat do i do? the guy that likes me back means the world to me while the other one is just a "man Whore" but i like them both...help me (link)
well i would just say that if you love this guy who likes you back you should date him. because if he would mean the world to you then you should date him if things dont go right brake up and date the other.


ok well theres this girl i like and she knows i do but i dont know if she likes me well looks at me almost as much as i look at her and she smiles at me and she does look nervous and just latley she had to take a test in my homeroom for my homeroom teacher and she sat 2 seats behind me the other one was already tooken by someone probaly but i try to say something but im just not sure what to say
i think she does like me but how do i talk to her more cause this year we have no classes together last year we did (link)
well i sugjest to talk in the hall. ask for her phone number. i had a problem like this before. but one day i got the nerve to ask them if they liked me. he said yes. its not that bad when they say no. she's your friend right? well she if she doesnt like u she will tell you in a nice way. trust me on this. it happens.


I like this guy lets call him "Phil"(random name). I have a crush on him, he's at my new school. He plays guitar, is short, but cute, and luvs the same music i do(fob, mcr, p!atd). So today he sits next to me and my friend Tori for lunch. He says I remind him of his ex girlfriend. Now, from what I know from talking to him, he only has had one girlfriend and she and him were together 3 weeks ago, but he asked her to go to homecomeing with him, she said no and she brokeup with him. He was evidently head-over-heels for her.

FYI: I have a short attention span. So i just hear him say creepy and point at me. So i turned my head and said 'What's wrong with me being creepy?' He threw his hands up in surrender and said "I said it's just creepy how much you are like my ex-girlfriend"

He's SO nice and cute! There's a Sady Hawkin's dance comin' up, so i was wondering what do u think he meant by that I'm like hisex, is that good or bad given the past. (link)
i think its kinda bad because if his ex borke up wit him he probally isnt on good terms with her
but dont tryto change urself jus cause a guy if he doesnt like you for who you r forget him you can do way better




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