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Ive noticed my friends all around me are starting to get married. Sometimes I feel the pressure from society that its a womans role or duty to define herself as a wife and a mother...but somehow I dont think I am equipped with those feelings. I feel like I had a taste of what living with someone was like. I was with a guy for 3 and a half years--I loved him to death and I honestly think I couldn't have found a better guy or even imagine it, and somehow every morning when I wake up and have breakfast with the person, I dont feel good--it feels weird..the night before would be exciting and wild and fun but in the morning I feel like a domesticated housewife getting ready for the day and seeing my "husband" off to work. Maybe I have intimacy issues. I like spending time with people and having fun when I feel like it and I like being alone when I feel like it. I don't want to live with someone that has to be exposed to my moods 24/7, I am just not comfortable with it nor am I comfortable with their moodiness. Girlfriends are a different story. I think that as long as I find plenty of friends and activities in my life I will be okay...but I feel a little weird for feeling this way because I love being in love. I dont know..maybe its because every single person in my family is divorced...or maybe because relationships are so fickle nowadays and everybody seems to leave one another..I am probably scared of the investment. P.S.--At some point in my relationships when they last a long time--I always do something to sabotage it..its as if I really dont want it to last. What is going on with me? Are these real indicators or am I just jaded or is it my age? I am 25 years old. (link)
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i think you are just scared of a commitment. since you know that nowadays when people get married, they usually don't stay together because most people just rush in to marriages and they don't take the time to get to know that person. also, since you have had a broken heart so many times, you are scared that when you get married your husband will just break your heart. but even though you feel you are forced to get married since everyone else around you is, just remember that you don't have to get married until your ready, and nobody will look down on you because you are not. but what my true advice to you is, just keep looking for a guy that makes you truly happy, and when you find him you won't feel like a house wife because you will truly be in love.
hope this advice will help!
best of luck,
adviceprincess
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I like this boy but i am in 8th grade and he is in 6th grade is he to young to go out with? he is real nice and cute and he is soupose to be in 7th. i really want to go out w/ him but is he to young?
Female
age 14 going on 15 (link)
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no. i don't think the age really matters. since he is really supposed to be in 7th grade anyways, that means your only really a year apart so i say go for it!
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THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE. (link)
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no! no! no! thats the worst thing you could do. just let them be. but in the meantime, keep talking to him and flirting a little bit, nothing major. and when him and his girlfriend break up, you could have a very good chance. good luck!
with love,
adviceprincess
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O.K i think i might still love my x boyfriend but one of my best friends is his girlfriend! whenever i get bak together with him she always ends up taking him away from me! they have been going on and off for like 7 months and i cant take it anymore. i mean i flirt with him sometimes but i dont think he notices. i feel that his girlfriend is like just completly better than me and i hate it!!!!! sometimes i just really hate her but then at other times she is just the sweetest thing. i wanna get bak together with my x, but that would mean breaking my best friend and the boy of her dreams up! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! WRITE BAK ASAP!!!!!!!
*lauve645* (link)
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i know that your friend always steals your guy away from you everytime you go out. but if she keeps taking him from you, maybe that means he truly has more feelings for her and not you. sorry to put it so blunt but that could be the truth. i don't think you should risk your friendship over a guy even though you like him alot. there are going to be other guys. most likely ones that end up being better than this one. just whatever you do, don't try and break up your friend and you x. just let them be, and if they end up breaking up for good, you may still have a chance with him. good luck with whatever you choose!
with love,
adviceprincess
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I am in love with this guy and I think he is in love with me too.We are both 13. When we are by ourselfs he is all over me but when we are around other people he acts like he is just my friend. What do I do? I am a girl. (link)
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look, i can so totally tell that you really like this guy. ALOT. and im sure he likes you to. but you gotta relize that you are only 13 and just because you wanna real realationship doesn't mean he does. guys don't mature as fast as girls do, and he may look at being in a relationship differntly than how you see it. but if he can't act like a boyfriend around friends, then i say you should talk to him about it, and if he actually LOVES you like he says he does, then he will be able to understand. but if he doesn't change his ways, then break up. there are other fish in the sea that could treat you better. good luck with whatever you do!
with love,
advice princess
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I've liked a certain guy for over a year, and finally let him know. I had my best friend tell him, but she told him in front of his friends. So, his friends started saying all this totally untrue stuff about me (like that I'm a slut & that I'm easy, even though I've never had sex w/ anyone!) My friend also told me that my crush likes someone else. I know I should get over him, but it's soooo hard. Any suggestions?? (link)
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I personaly think that you should try to get over this guy. I know it's hard, but just try talking to and meeting other people. and when you do find that special someone, tell him yourself, it will mean alot more to him if you do, and the good thing is your friend won't mess it up! good luck and i hope you find a guy who likes you and and has alot nicer friends! ;)
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okay, my boyfriend heard me say to another person " No you cant tell anyone", and so now he wants to know, what should i do¿
signed,
confused about it (link)
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well, it really is none of his business, but if it's no big deal, and he wants to know that bad then tell him. But if it is a big deal, i think you should tell him whats going on, and if he loves you then he will understand. you will work things out better if you tell him the truth on everything thats going on.
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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
Love,
!!Plz Help!! (link)
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i think you should go for it, since you know someone in his family, you know that he can't be a total creep. but when you go on the date, definatly have him bring a friend, and you bring a friend. so that way, when you guys run out of things to talk about, there is someone else there to talk to. it will also help not make things feel so awkward.
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