ok wow talking about myself feels weird...
uh im 13 and in 8th grade. i guess i give pretty good advice i mean my friends say i do. im in love with my boyfriend and i also am addicted to dashboard confessional, the starting line and new found glory ya i guess thats about it. arent i freakin hot in my pic??
Website: yea...its pretty sweet i guess
E-mail: klutzygrl414@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: boston
Occupation: uh...studnent
Age: 13
AIM: klutzygrl414
Member Since: August 7, 2005
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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if it doesnt bother you or her then no, its no problem...if you really like her
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Okay, for starters, I'm 30, male.
I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years, she's such a sweet person and I love her, but you know the excitement of the beginning has faded.
Now there's this girl, she's our common friend and she's amazingly beautiful, she's something special. What's amazing is that she never had a stable relationship although she certainly would like to.
Now I feel something changing inside me, my way of thinking about this other girl; can it be love? I don't really know, because we're pretty different and I don't think we could have a durable relationship, but somehow I feel an overwhelming attraction for her, and I DO know sex with her would be incredible.
Being such a sensitive person as I am, I am going through a horrible time, the only thing positive being my loss of appetite; my gf has noticed it and I and I have more or less dismissed it as a temporary situaton because of work, friends and all (it's been a hard year in those aspects), but she's probably thinking there may be a relationship problem behind this.
Now what to do? Shall I tell her? this could destroy our friendship, and I would really regret that (I guess it depends on how sympathetic and understanding a person you are), but I know I could give her some of the love and attention she deserves... I am also thinking about telling my girlfriend, she deserves sincerity, but who knows where this could bring us... At the moment I am thinking about telling the other girl, just to get it off my chest; she will probably reject me, but keeping it inside is hurting me. Telling my gf is in my mind too, but I'm not sure about it.
I can't help but feel this mixture of love and attraction/lust for her, and it's killing me. I don't believe denying it would rid me completely of her. I guess you can love two people at the same time, though I never thought I'd be in this situation myself. Damn, damn heart... (link)
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wow...intense...
ok well first of all if your thinking of telling these girls how you feel then you have to be sure of your feelings. you have to think long and hard about if you tell this girland she rejects you..then your g/f is probly still going to find out and there will be trouble. so think about if having this other girl is worth losing your girlfriend
good luck
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my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
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ok well right now your girlfriend is probrably really vulnerable. she's sad and confused and mad. do not try to ask her out right now, because she is on the rebound and you dont want to take advantage of her. instead, be a friend to her. comfort and talk to her. she will see how cool and nice you are and then you can ask her out.
good luck
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i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused (link)
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ok i know exactly wat you mean. maybe he needs some time apart. i mean you have been going out a while. just give him his space for a little. but if he starts giving you those hints for a brake up or ignors you too long try talking to him. but dont sound mad just talk rationally
good luck
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hey,, well my brother has a friend,, his friend is 17 and im 13, joe, his friend and me a pretty tight, and stuff,, i really like Joe but idk if he likes me, and even when his g/f is there, hell look at me alot..his g/f is also 13..but shes ugly and he doesnt like her that much,, so, like, what should i do?? (link)
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uh oh...ok well this is kind of laying on this kid joe's shoulders. if he really isnt into his girlfriend then he'll dump her and then you can make your move or maybe he'll ask you out (bonus) but do not, i repeat, do not move in on this guy until that girlfriend is out of the picture. you do not want to be the girl who he's cheating with
good luck
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